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The Perils And False Rewards Of Parenting In The Era Of 'Digi-Discipline'

In a society where black people have power, beating children and posting it on social media is just as much about performing respectability as it is punishing wrongdoing.
Social media postings showing parents "disciplining" their children, including (from left) LaToya Graham, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/reshondatbillingsley" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=100003122127065" data-hovercard-prefer-more-content-show="1">ReShonda Tate Billingsley</a> and Tavis Sellers, went viral.

The videos are an infamous genre unto themselves: "Mother Punches Her Daughter Dead in the Face for Having Sex in the House!" "Dad Whups Daughter for Dressing Like Beyonce." "Son Left In Bloody Mess as Father Forces Him to 'Fight.'" Their images stream from Facebook timelines and across YouTube channels, alternately horrifying and arresting: burly fathers, angry mothers, lips curled, curses flying, hands wrapped around electrical chords, tree branches, belts, slashing down on legs, arms, buttocks and flesh as children cry and plead and scream out in agony.

Tens of millions have clicked "play," becoming voyeurs of this new form of child punishment — what some observers call "digi-discipline."

Rather than sticking to the time-honored tradition of physically disciplining their children behind closed doors, parents, many of them black, buoyed by the instant gratification and viral fame that social media provides, are increasingly uploading videos of the corporal punishment they mete out on their kids, sparking intense debate on the usefulness of this particular form

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