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How to Be an Ace Salary Negotiator (Even if You Hate Conflict)

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In every book, blog or conference about freelancing, you’ll find the same piece of advice: Negotiate the fee on every assignment.

This is great advice. Or so I imagine; I wouldn’t know.

In my 10 years of freelancing, I’ve never negotiated for a heftier fee. Not once. If a fee is too low, I’ll simply decline the assignment and move on.

I might be paying for these financial transgressions for years — and salaried employees might be, too. Not negotiating the salary of your first job can cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars over the course of your career, according to Linda Babcock, an economics professor at Carnegie Mellon University and author of “Ask for It: How Women Can Use the Power of Negotiation to Get What They Really Want.”

I’ve always pinned my poor negotiation skills on my aversion

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