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Single People Aren’t to Blame for the Loneliness Epidemic

The data show that unmarried Americans, and those who live alone, often aren’t isolated at all.
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Americans have long worried that their countrymen are lonely, but recently, mild concern has given way to outright panic. In 2017, the former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy warned that loneliness in the U.S. had reached epidemic proportions. And it’s not just Americans who are anxious—in January, British Prime Minister Theresa May appointed the country’s first “minister for loneliness.”

While apprehensiveness about elders is particularly intense—the aging grandparent who lives  alone and hasn’t talked to a soul for days has become a recurring motif in stories about the crisis­­—no group is exempt from concern: A recent study suggests the unnerving possibility that young adults may be the loneliest Americans of all.

Explanations for this plague of participation in organized social activities and to the ubiquity of technology like social media and cell phones that suck up people’s attention. Often, though, and single out two culprits: sagging marriage rates and the increasing number of Americans living alone.                                                     

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