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Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last
Written by John M. Gottman, PhD
Narrated by Paul Costanzo
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About this audiobook
Psychologist John Gottman has spent twenty years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own long-term relationship. This breakthrough book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage.You'll also learn:More sex doesn't necessarily improve a marriageFrequent arguing will not lead to divorceFinancial problems do not always spell trouble in a relationshipWives who make sour facial expressions when their husbands talk are likely to be separated within four yearsThere is a reason husbands withdraw from arguments-and there's a way around itDr. Gottman tells you how to recognize attitudes that doom a marriage-contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling- and provides practical exercises, quizzes, tips, and techniques that will help you understand and make the most of your relationship. You can avoid patterns that lead to divorce, and Why Marriages Succeed or Fail will show you how.
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Reviews for Why Marriages Succeed or Fail
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Best book on marriage.
I Highly recommend this book to all married ot contemplating marriage - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Recommend every couple read this book whether you are happy as clams or struggling. Relationships aren't easy and need nurturing and hard work.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Relationship expert John Gottman does not just talk about experiences with couples clients but has his theory founded in years and years of research. This book is highly recommended for anyone interested in deepening their relationship, learning to understand each other and how to manage conflicts in relationship. I use Gottman's work daily in relationship counselling with my couples clients.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This book was required reading in my clinical psychology, masters level course. I was surprised to see a "popular psych" book in a graduate course but it turned out to be a great text. This book combines an academic and research perspective with accessible and easily generalized examples that can benefit anyone. Since reading it, I have significantly improved my relationship skills and use them frequently in my marriage. The self-tests, the simple practices, and the engaging writing style place this book at the top of the stack for relationship advice. This book is not just for couples in trouble--new couples or anyone looking to improve their relationship skills can benefit