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    She Comes First: The Grammer of Oral Sex
    She Comes First: The Grammer of Oral Sex
    She Comes First: The Grammer of Oral Sex
    Audiobook (abridged)4 hours

    She Comes First: The Grammer of Oral Sex

    Written by Ian Kerner

    Narrated by Ian Kerner

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    About this audiobook

    ""She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."" —AskMen.com

    The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

    As women everywhere will attest, men are ""ill-cliterate."" But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

    Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHarperAudio
    Release dateFeb 1, 2005
    ISBN9780060835262
    She Comes First: The Grammer of Oral Sex
    Author

    Ian Kerner

    Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.

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    • 4/5
      A great basic book on beginners and gender introduction needs

      2 people found this helpful

    • 5/5
      Everyone should read this book who loves or has sex with women. I am a women and found the book enlightening. I’m glad that a book like this exists. I plan to share it with my male friends and my friends boyfriends and husbands. There is a lot of misinformation out there in our culture about female sexuality.

      1 person found this helpful

    • 5/5
      I listened to the audio and it is too hard to follow. It is better to have the book.
    • 5/5
      Written with humor and entertaining while also being crucial information needed in today's society! Vulvas around the world thank you Ian, you have done a service to mankind and raised the status quo for human intimacy and sexuality. This will undoubtedly save not only countless relationships; but perhaps even, the world??
    • 5/5
      Best audiobook I ever listened highly recommended to the one that wants to praise a woman
    • 2/5
      Bad audio quality or maybe bad narrator, uncomfortable to listening
    • 5/5
      Informative, discriptive and insightful. This brings more questions, to which I'm thankful for.
    • 4/5
      How could anyone have anything negative to say about this book? It is exactly what it claims to be: a no-nonsense guide to pleasuring a woman. It offers a close examination of the anatomy of the clitoris as well as step-by-step guidelines and tips for mastering oral sex. Though it is clearly geared towards heterosexual men, I think this is a book everyone could benefit from reading. More knowledge is always better and familiarity does not equate to complete understanding. Easy to read and comprehend.
    • 5/5
      Amazing!! I thought I knew it all but you learn something new everyday.
    • 1/5
      The author obviously has never actually provided oral to a women.

      The methods would bore any real women to death there is no excitement no real stimulation in the techniques when you finally get to them.

      If your putting in the effort to listen to a book like this then you already know far more about the subject then the author.

      It’s as if he spent more time trying to think of a fancy way to say lame techniques then actually learning how to give a woman an orgasm.
    • 5/5
      Very detailed instructions
    • 4/5
      I was surprised that the first half is devoted to "Why you might want to consider doing this". That actually made me sad. The second half, the practical suggestions, was pretty good and informative, but not ground-breaking IMO.