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    Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
    Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
    Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
    Audiobook6 hours

    Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction

    Written by Patrick J. Carnes

    Narrated by David Colacci

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    Sex is at the core of our identities. And when it becomes a compulsion, it can unravel our lives. Out of the Shadows is the premier work on this disorder, written by a pioneer in its treatment. Revised and updated to include the latest research--and to address the exploding phenomenon of cybersex addiction--this third edition identifies the danger signs, explains the dynamics, and describes the consequences of sexual addiction and dependency. With practical wisdom and spiritual clarity, it points the way out of the shadows of sexual compulsion and back into the light and fullness of life.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherRecorded Books, Inc.
    Release dateFeb 12, 2016
    ISBN9781501911262

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    • 5/5
      As someone who is struggling l. This book gives a very clear understanding. Thank you Patrick Carnes.
    • 5/5
      Another great one from Patrick Carnes, gives a lot of understanding and some tools to help you.
      Excepcionalmente útil.
    • 1/5
      Omgggg is this 1960 wtf. Saying sex is only okay in a committed relationship lookin' ass

      1 person found this helpful

    • 4/5
      Overall, this is a quality book that explains sexual addiction and shows sympathy for the addict without ignoring the plight of the victim. The research is scholarly and documented, but the book is accessible for the average person.Although there are parts of the book designed to help sex addicts, it is not primarily a therapy book. It does not contain various exercises to help the addict, instead, it refers addicts to the available 12 step programs, which are invaluable.Its value is helping the sex addict recognize who he is, and that he is not alone in his struggle.I do not agree with all of his assumptions, including that masturbation is morally neutral. Furthermore, some of the descriptions of sexual acts may arouse some addicts, but there may be no way to fully avoid this problem.Take what you like, ignore the rest.