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    Reading the Man: A Portrait of Robert E. Lee Through His Private Letters
    Reading the Man: A Portrait of Robert E. Lee Through His Private Letters
    Reading the Man: A Portrait of Robert E. Lee Through His Private Letters
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    Reading the Man: A Portrait of Robert E. Lee Through His Private Letters

    Written by Elizabeth Brown Pryor

    Narrated by Jo Anna Perrin

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    Robert E. Lee is remembered by history as a tragic figure, stoic and brave but distant and enigmatic. Using dozens of previously unpublished letters as departure points, Pryor produces a stunning personal account of Lee's military ability, his beliefs, and his time, shedding new light on every aspect of the complex and contradictory general's life story. Explained for the first time in the context of the young United States's tumultuous societal developments, Lee's actions reveal a man forced to play a leading role in the formation of the nation at the cost of his private happiness.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHighbridge Company
    Release dateApr 30, 2018
    ISBN9781684412259
    Reading the Man: A Portrait of Robert E. Lee Through His Private Letters

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    • 4/5
      The third book for our Less Stupid Civil War Reading Group, and the one I looked forward to with the least pleasure -- though a fair amount of curiosity. What I knew about Lee before reading this book could barely fill a thimble.I did appreciate Pryor's style, and her contextualization of Lee's early life. Pryor gave a lot of background information on current mores around marriage, roles of women -- particularly in slave-holding society, changing economic behavior, etc., that we hadn't really gotten in the other books. And Pryor deliberately takes on common myths about Lee -- that he opposed slavery and secession most notably.The whole thing -- especially the post-war period, had me constantly ruminating on the ways our stupid meat-brains work, and how much of Lee's post-war behavior was governed by his brain striving to reconcile to itself and to create a narrative of Lee's life that justified all the bloody and brutal losses he had been a part of -- that he'd led his men into -- with nothing, in the end, to show for it. How does anyone make peace with that and find a way to make forward?I have so many thoughts about Lee, and this book, and we had excellent, juicy discussions over it, but I won't go on with this review forever.I enjoyed this book more than I expected and learned a lot.
    • 5/5
      By the end of the Civil War, Robert E. Lee had become an iconic American figure, as much myth as mortal even before his death in 1870. Since then, few historians have attempted to dig very deeply into the 'marble man' Lee became in Southern memory. Instead, the commanding general of the Army of Northern Virginia is most often a legendary figure, rather than a human one, particularly in most histories of the Civil War era.Biography offers an opportunity to explore the real man behind the myth, and several have attempted a more realistic portrayal of Lee. Even these books still tend to struggle with the legendary Lee who is thought to embody all that was noble in the antebellum South. Historian Elizabeth Brown Pryor has devised an ingenious way to get around these obstacles in "Reading the Man," using Lee's own words, preserved in the vast number of letters he wrote, to present his life story.Lee was a prolific correspondent throughout his adult life, including during the Civil War years, and hundreds of these private letters survive. Using the full text of certain letters -- most by Lee, but a few by others sent to him or referring to him -- at the start of each thematic chapter, she then offers a context of theses letters using Lee's other correspondence and other historical sources. The resulting portrait is fascinating, showing a man who was devoted to his family but who struggled with the demands of his military life and the strain it caused on those relationships. While the decision whether to fight for the Union or resign his army commission and volunteer for Virginia is well known, it is clear in Pryor's account that Lee struggled with issues of duty and honor throughout his lifetime, partially because of the negative influence of his father, "Light Horse" Harry Lee, who was less than honorable, and partially because he frequently found military service frustrating.Particularly interesting are the chapters on Lee's service in the Army Corps of Engineers and his tenure as commandant of West Point. Lee's first serious military experiences after graduating from West Point were to oversee construction of infrastructure to preserve the port of St. Louis from the destructive forces of the Mississippi River. By all accounts, Lee handled the assignment well, though the impact of his engineering background upon his Confederate command is unexplored.Another key assignment before the Civil War, Lee's command of West Point, is reevaluated by Pryor. Unlike other authors who imagine that Lee's years at the military academy were warm and mutually beneficial, Pryor describes a leader who was not particularly well-liked by the cadets because of his strict discipline standards and his perceived distant personality. Given the adoration that Lee's Confederate troops gave him, it is difficult to imagine that, a few years before, few West Point cadets seemed to care that little for him as superintendent.Lee emerges as less of a mystery in Pryor's portrait. Through his letters, he seems more approachable as matters of family life, household problems, and work frustrations are discussed and endured. He also seems less of an icon, appearing to be reticent -- even shy -- around other people, though possessing both a subtle wit and a fierce temper. He is also highly compassionate and usually thoughtful of others, demonstrating wisdom gained from experience and some internal reflection -- though less so about matters regarding the slavery issue.In the end, Pryor's book is a superb approach to the actual Robert E. Lee behind the mythical 'marble man.' Well researched and heavily documented, the narrative incorporates much information that had been overlooked or undiscovered. More than this, Pryor writes with a clear and engaging style that will be appreciated by historians and general audiences.
    • 5/5
      One of the best biographies on Lee. It delves into his family life, military career and his views on slavery and secession. Every chapters begins with a letter either written by him or his family and friends.