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I Love You, but I'm Not IN Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship
Written by Andrew G. Marshall
Narrated by Andrew G. Marshall
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If the relationship you have with your significant other is defined more by companionship than passion . . . if you love each other deeply but are not deeply in love . . . if you feel that something's missing or is no longer there . . . then you could be experiencing ILYB (I Love You, But . . .).
In I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You-a real-life relationship guide from couples' counselor Andrew G. Marshall-partners and individuals who have 'fallen out of love' or want to rekindle the love that once was will learn how to use Marshall 's program with impressive results.
This is a much-needed book to help men and women of all ages in any type of committed romantic relationship to truly understand love and to point out the everyday habits that undermine growing together. Marshall's research is one of the few that delves into what causes relationships to 'cool' or for emotions to be 'dulled.' So much more than a quick-fix guide, I Love You, but I'm Not In Love with You empowers couples to emerge with a better understanding of themselves and each other, and ultimately build a stronger, more passionate bond.
In I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You-a real-life relationship guide from couples' counselor Andrew G. Marshall-partners and individuals who have 'fallen out of love' or want to rekindle the love that once was will learn how to use Marshall 's program with impressive results.
This is a much-needed book to help men and women of all ages in any type of committed romantic relationship to truly understand love and to point out the everyday habits that undermine growing together. Marshall's research is one of the few that delves into what causes relationships to 'cool' or for emotions to be 'dulled.' So much more than a quick-fix guide, I Love You, but I'm Not In Love with You empowers couples to emerge with a better understanding of themselves and each other, and ultimately build a stronger, more passionate bond.
Author
Andrew G. Marshall
Andrew G Marshall is a marital therapist with twenty-five years' experience. His self-help books include the international best-seller I Love You But I'm Not in Love With You (Bloomsbury, 2007). His books have been translated into over fifteen different languages. He also offers private counselling and workshops in London and writes for the Mail on Sunday, Times, Guardian and Psychologies magazine. He lives in West Sussex.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This is a useful book for exploring relationship problems, particularly in situations where things are not dreadfully bad, but just...meh, to use a very useful and expressive modern coinage. Not a life changer, but I have picked up some useful techniques and ways of keeping a proper perspective on relationship issues.