Límites: Cuando decir 'sí', cuando decir 'no', tome el control de su vida
Written by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Narrated by Alejandro De Mesa
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Escrito por Cloud y Townsend, autores de Límites para nuestros hijos, este libro cuenta con consejos bíblicos y prácticos para todo cristiano.
¿Está tu vida sin control? ¿siente que la gente te utiliza? ¿Le es difícil decir que no? ¿Está desilusionado con Dios por falta de respuesta a tus oraciones?
Establecer límites claros es esencial para obtener un estilo de vida sano y balanceado. Un límite es un línea de propiedad personal que marca las cosas de las que somos responsables. En otras palabras, límites es lo que define quiénes somos, o quiénes no somos. Los límites afectan diferentes aspectos de nuestras vidas: Los límites físicos nos ayudan a determinar quién nos puede tocar y bajo qué circunstancia. Los límites mentales nos dan la libertad de tener ideas y opiniones propias. Los límites emocionales nos ayudan a tratar con nuestras propias emociones y a librarnos de las emociones dañinas y manipuladoras de otros. Los límites espirituales nos ayudan a distinguir entre la voluntad de Dios y la nuestra, y nos dan temor de Dios.
Los doctores Henry Cloud y John Townsend ofrecen respuestas bíblicas a preguntas difíciles, a la vez que nos muestran cómo poner límites sanos con nuestros padres, nuestros cónyuges, nuestros hijos, nuestros amigos, nuestros compañeros de trabajo, y hasta con nosotros mismos.
Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud ist ein bekannter Redner und erfahrener Psychologe. Er moderiert eine Radiosendung, die in den USA landesweit ausgestrahlt wird und betreibt eine Praxis in Kalifornien. Seine Erfahrungen aus der Beratung hat er in zahlreiche Bücher eingebracht , u. a. in dem Bestseller "Nein sagen ohne Schuldgefühle".
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Reviews for Límites
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- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5There is some very useful stuff in this book, but I do not believe the authors distinguish enough between keeping those boundries up about the bad while loosening up about the good. They SAY that, but in their examples they do not encourage that.To explain, let me use the story at the end of the book, which is a woman's day when she has her boundaries functioning "properly." The discipline she teaches her childing is good, but as for the rest of it, what love does she show? Does she help bear the burdens of those around her, as we are instructed to do in Galatians 6?Obviously not. In fact, she dumps her work onto her assistant so she can skip out early, makes herself a pest to her husband until he conforms to her wishes, and hangs up on a friend who had called her for help.Before boundaries, she was a wreck, it is true. Yet is the solution to being stressed an abandonment of Christian responsibility, or is it to lean on God for more patience?I would rather be tearing my hair out in service than to assert myself in what I would consider an unchristian way. The authors have laid out a method by which you can make everyone around you do your bidding. And yet the first shall be last in the end. Let me be a servant!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A good friend of mine read this book and recommended it to me. Then coincidentally my son started reading it. So I thought I'd pick it up, not expecting it to be as good as it is! This is probably one of the best books I've read this year. The authors are Christian and come from that orientation, but anyone could read this book and be transformed by its truths. The chapters cover boundary setting in different spheres of life- work, marriage, with children, aging parents, and with oneself. They talk about guilt, and for me one of the most important concepts- owning one's problems. So ( and this is an oversimplification) if you are annoyed by someone's being consistently late- just let him/her know that next time you hope she'll be on time but if not you'll leave w/o her. Whoa! It's so simple, but so few people actually do this! They, including me, will cajole, remind, nag, family members to get ready, hurry up, c'mon, we're going to be late, etc.. Instead of setting a boundary... So.. I tried it with my daughter. And lo and behold.. now she knows I'll leave for the gym w/o her if she's not ready. And guess what? She's prompt now! So... not that this is a magic cure.. but just one simple example of taking control of yourself and letting consequences happen naturally . Love it. I plan to re-read this from time to time. Highly recommend.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is a book that I have to read many times over, the concept of letting go of the bad to let in the good resonated more than anything. Yes the book is repetitive, but the more you read something, the more you will understand and retain. Each person carries their own daily load, but we all share our burdens.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Found this book very helpful. Easy to read and grasp the principles. Essential advice for survival in marriage and parenting and friendships
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I'm surprised to be giving this a full five stars, seeing as Dr. Cloud is an evangelical Christian - and writes like one! - and I'm agnostic/atheist. But it earns the full five stars. What he says about boundaries (and the way to sanity) is something pretty much everyone in the modern world needs to hear in some form. If you can deal with a bit of Christianity without it driving you totally nuts (and, really, it's not all that strong, doesn't sound like a Bible study or anything), then I'd highly recommend this book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask: - Can I set limits and still be a loving person? - What are legitimate boundaries? - What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries? - How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money? - Aren't boundaries selfish? - Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries? Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I would give this book 10 stars if I could... life changing.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Good, basic thoughts on setting boundaries in your life.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A helpful book in understanding how to define and set healthy boundaries for the Christian life.
- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5just ok as a book. The concept is simple and straight forward but the book is rather tedious.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This is a very helpful book. The authors cover a wide variety of different types of boundary issues, so naturally, the reader will find it difficult to relate to some of them. My experience was that I related quite strongly to some and couldn't relate at all to others. Still, it's certainly a very worthwhile book to read if you or someone you know is struggling with a personal boundary issue of some kind - be it spouse, family, friends, work or church. They're all pretty well covered here.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5I first read this book in the 1990s, at about the same time I read The Joshua Factor. Cloud and Townsend integrate their psychological and theological understandings in a refreshing manner. It is unashamedly Christian in focus, but that need not deter the non-Christian from taking note of the lessons, and adapting the spiritual aspects to their own faith or spirituality. What I like about the book is the applicability of boundary lessons, especially to areas of one's life that are deeply familial and personal. This is the book's strength, and when combined with the psychological foundations and research, the messages are powerful. I am pleased to have re-read this book, and the timing was perfect. The quote I wrote down over and over again while reading this was "Own the problem" (p. 207). And Proverbs 19:3 kept coming back to me: "The foolishness of man twists his way, and his heart frets against the Lord" (NKJV). If the non-Christian reader can identify with the philosophical and spiritual bases drawn upon in the book, there is much wisdom to be gained. A work well worth reading as part of one's end-of-year reflection.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Many good insights. I can understand those who say it was life-changing. It was recommended to me with the caveat that I'd have to not be distracted by the many Christian and biblical references. I find that's good advice. Don't avoid reading it just because you're not from a religious background; that can just be considered window dressing. The book offers a lot of help to those who are burned out or stressed by daily demands or difficult people.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5El tema de los limites, sin duda, es una lectura obligada, necesaria para nuestra vida, y si no hay tiempo para leer, pues el audiolibro es excelente, lo escuchaba cuanda iba a correr o caminar, o cuando manejaba.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Un excelente libro, práctico y de mucho valor para mi vida
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Me gusta la visión del escritor tanto como psicólogo como creyente??
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5¡Qué libro más completo sobre el tema de los límites bíblicos! Sufro límites lesionados. Me habían recomendando este libro más de una vez y lo dejaba pasar. Gracias a los autores por la practicidad de los capítulos y la claridad para aplicación de la temática en la vida diaria.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Es de gran ayuda para aprender a manejar emociones a través del consejo Biblico.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Estoy aterrada de lo mucho que me he identificado con el libro. Gracias a quienes hacen posible este audio. Veo claramente lo que el Espíritu Santo quiere hacer en mi vida y de lo que me he perdido por no poner límites.
Para terminar quiero resaltar que la voz utilizada para darle vida al audio, está muy bien acertada, me hizo entrar en cada palabra, estar lista para reflexionar y llevar el hilo de lo que decía.
Gracias por cada historia, estoy muy agradecida de haber tenido la oportunidad de escuchar el audiolibro, ahora sigue volverlo a escuchar. - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Excelente, me ha encantado y me he dado cuenta de los límites que debo poner en mi vida, ¡ahora a comenzar!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Excelente libro, sabiduría en el preciso momento que llego a mi vida ????
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Sin duda este libro cambió mi vida, lo recomiendo ampliamente
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Excelente cátedra acerca de los límites. Muchas gracias por la publicación.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Todos lo deberíamos de aplicar, es lo mejor que podemos hacer por nuestro bien.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Lo escuché junto a mi madre y ambos disfrutando mucho
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Todo es muy interesante, aunque creo que lo debo escuchar nuevamente, para ver si tengo preferencia por algún capítulo ??
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Este libro es una herramienta para vivir con los límites correctos a favor de una vida espiritual, emocional y psíquica saludable. Me encantó el enfoque profesional y bíblico a la vez. Muy recomendable!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Es un libro terapéutico que cambia vidas, recomendado para todos
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Excelente libro, contiene consejos muy útiles y casos ejemplares para tomar de referencia en caso de no saber cómo actuar ante alguna situación con la que nos veamos identificados.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Es un libro que todos deberíamos de leer en cualquier momento de la vida!
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