Thoughts for the Holidays: Finding Permission to Grieve
By Doug Manning
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Doug Manning
Doug Manning's career has included work as a minister, counselor, business executive, author, and publisher. He and his wife Barbara raised four daughters and served as long-term caregivers to three parents. After thirty years in ministry, Doug began a new career in 1982 writing, counseling, and leading seminars in grief and elder care. His publishing company, InSight Books, Inc., specializes in books, video, and audio productions designed to help people face some of life's toughest challenges. He sold his company in 2023 but continues to write and to also post on his blog, www.thehappyheretic.me. Doug's warm, conversational voice make his books read like a long conversation with a good friend.
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Thoughts for the Holidays - Doug Manning
THOUGHTS
for the HOLIDAYS
Finding Permission to Grieve
DOUG MANNING
Copyright© 2001
In-Sight Books, Inc.
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Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73123
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Cover Photo: Digital West, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
ISBN: 978-1-892785-40-4 (print)
ISBN: 978-1-892785-80-0 (eBook)
Contents
Thoughts for the Holidays
The Waves of Grief
Then the Holidays Happen
Why do the Holidays Hurt?
The Significance of Significance
There are at least three areas where significance must be established:
The Holiday Dilemma
Holidays Can Create Conflict
Holidays Interrupt the Grieving Process
Holidays Make Demands on us We Can Not Fulfill
The Key to the Holidays is Permission
What About the Children?
Permission To Do What You Can Do
Permission to be Where You Need to Be
Permission to Change Traditions
Permission to Relate to God in a Different Way
Permission to Find Safe People
In the rising of the sun and
in its going down
We remember them;
In the blowing of the wind and
in the chill of winter,
We remember them;
In the opening of the buds and
in the warmth of summer,
We remember them;
In the rustling of leaves and
the beauty of autumn,