The Youth Worker's Big Book of Case Studies: Not Quite a Million Stories That Beg Discussion
By Steven Case
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Steven Case has been in youth ministry for more than 20 years. The author of several books, including The Book of Uncommon Prayer 1 & 2, Steve works at the United Church of Christ, in Windermere, Florida. He lives near Orlando with his wife, Becky.
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The Youth Worker's Big Book of Case Studies - Steven Case
THE YOUTH WORKER’S BIG BOOK OF CASE STUDIES
NOT QUITE A MILLION STORIES THAT BEG DISCUSSION
0310255627_content_0003_002YOUTH SPECIALTIES
THE YOUTH WORKER’S BIG BOOK OF CASE STUDIES NOT QUITE A MILLION STORIES THAT BEG DISCUSSION
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Case, Steven L., 1964-
The youth worker's big book of case studies : not quite a million stories that beg discussion / by Steven L. Case.
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ISBN-13: 978-0-310-25562-8
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Cover Page
Title Page
Copyright
1. The Incredible Shrinking Youth Group
2. Teacher's Pet
3. Obey The Rules of Youth Ministry
4. My Brother's Shadow
5. Should I Stay or Should I Go?
6. Free Cookies-Kindness Gone Bad
7. Home Sweet Home or Battle Zone?
8. Thou Shalt Not Borrow
9. In the Dark
10. Leave it to Beaver
11. Shower the People...With Love?
12. Cleaning Jesus
13. You Smell Smoke?
14. Broken Memories
15. Out of the Comfort Zone
16. Getting High
17. Long Lost Friend
18. The Scoop
19. My Sister's Keeper
20. Joyful Noise
21 . The Report Card
22. Across the Board
23. The Jerk
24. God Calling
25. Not Amused
26. Where There's Smoke
27. Shattered
28. Face Time
29. Smokin'
30. Making the Grade
31. Restricted Viewing
32. Kelly Green
33. Your Boy
is Back in Town
34. Your Boy
is Back in Town Part 2
35. What You Wish For
36. Packing Heat?
37. The Morning After
38. Making the Grade
39. Missed it By That Much
40. Keeping it Warm
41 . A Family Addiction
42. Little Lies
43. Out With a Bang
44. Values? What Values?
45. Get a Room!
46. Wallflower
47. Strike One
48. Family Tradition
49. Who is My Sister?
50. The Flu Medicine
51. Making Room or Opening the Door?
52. Party Girl
53. Backstage
54. Anger Wins
55. I Am So Proud of My Kids
56. Chameleon
57. Hot Instant Message
58. That Boy
59. Whatever it Takes
60. Security
61. Driving
62. The Day Off
63. Trivial
64. Hero Worship
65. Beyond Belief
66. Elsewhere
67. Temple Faith
68. Made Whole
69. Memorial
70. Like That
71. Sunshine
72. Missed
73. Embarrassed
74. Invited
75. Calling Home
76. All Prayers
77. Unwelcome
78. Shot
79. Perfect to Imperfect
80. Adult Education
81. Lessons Learned
82. Party Plans
83. Customer Satisfaction
84. Only Constant in Life: Change
85. Dressing Up
86. The View From Here
87. Intrusion
88. Down to Size
89. Four-Time Failure
90. Memory Loss
91. Over-Developed?
92. The Right to Vote
93. Listen Up!
94. This Far
95. More Than Close?
96. Learning Lessons
97. Left Alone
98. Best Laid Plans
99. Christmas Complaints
100. Reserving Judgment
101. No Word
102. Take Up the Cross
103. On a Mission
104. Sanctuary
105. Green
106. Standing Up
107. Results
108. Conflict
109. Most Likely
110. Opening Up
111. No Gifts
112. Turning Pages
113. Waitress Wanted
114. Left Unsaid
115. Women's Rights
116. Just Words?
117. Un-steady
118. Out of the Dark
119. Home Cooking?
120. Welcome?
121. A Team of One
122. Plan B
123. The Face of Jesus
124. What Happens
125. Part of the Game
126. Red and Blue
127. New Creation
128. Developments
129. No Stopping
130. Same Old, Same Old
131. Distance
132. Score
133. Staying Put
134. In the Cards
135. Home for the Holidays
136. Reason for the Season
137. Worship
138. Score
139. To Burn or Not to Burn?
140. Joyful?
141. Confirmed
142. Cheer
143. Crossing the Line
144. References
145. Eye of the Beholder
146. My Way
147. Snapshot
148. Party On
149. For the Glory
150. Appearances
151. Sides
152. Help Me
153. Guess Who's Coming to Dinner
154. Surfacing
155. Guess Who's Coming to Dinner Part 2
156. Not My Girl
157. Truth, Justice, and the American Way
158. Spike
159. Jesus Who?
160. Promises, Promises
161. Hallie's Friend
162. Is This it?
163. Corners
164. Fessing Up
165. Like a Prayer
166. Old-Fashioned
167. Sharing
168. Dreamers
169. Screen
170. Garret's History
171. What Mom Doesn't Know
172. Nothing Happened
173. The People in Your Neighborhood
174. Uncertain Terms
175. Fun And Games
176. It's An Art
177. Twist
178. Destruction
179. Like a Man
180. And They'll Know We Are Christians
181. Witness
182. Ammunition
183. Coming Attractions
184. Honor
185. Paying The Price
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TABLE OF CATEGORIES
CATEGORY CASE STUDY NUMBER
Church.................................................. 24, 29, 40, 65, 66, 67, 75, 100, 103, 104
Family.................................................. 110, 118, 119, 127, 131, 135, 136, 156, 168, 41, 45, 48, 55, 61, 68, 69, 76, 81 , 88, 92, 93, 94, 96, 98, 99, 156, 170, 171, 173, 179, 180, 182, 184, 185
Friends 25, 28, 31 , 33, 34, 38, 56, 63, 82, 114, 139, 147, 149, 153, 155, 159, 161, 183
Friendship.................................................. 95
Growing Up.................................................. 27, 32, 71, 84, 89, 91, 102, 111, 120, 122, 124, 128, 133, 140, 141, 143, 162, 164, 181
Prevent/Teen.................................................. 129
Real Life Stuff.................................................. 72, 90, 97, 101
School.................................................. 26, 30, 35, 36, 37, 39, 42, 43, 46, 53, 54, 64, 70, 77, 78, 80, 83, 87, 105, 106, 107, 108, 109, 112, 115, 116,121, 130, 132, 138, 145, 146, 150, 151, 152, 158, 163, 174, 176
Serious Stuff.................................................. 47, 49, 50, 51 , 52, 59, 60
Sex/Dating.................................................. 117, 126, 137, 148, 160, 165, 167, 172, 175
Stuff Happens.................................................. 123, 125
Work.................................................. 62, 113, 134, 142, 144, 154, 157, 166, 169, 177, 178
INTRODUCTION
Craig Wilson, the noted speaker and performer, once said, You shouldn't have smoke coming out of the windows in the youth room...you should have FLAMES.
That's what this book is intended to incite.
The Youth Worker's Big Book of Case Studies is not an easy book to use. It will not give you warm and fuzzy feelings about Jesus. It will not take difficult situations and wrap them up in pretty packages with happy-ever-after endings.
This book will give you a place to start those wonderfully loud discussions that will make the walls of the youth room vibrate. Herein you will find difficult situations that will make your students glad they are not the ones in the stories—although they very well could be. Some of the stories are fairly light in tone; others will make your teens (and maybe you, too) uncomfortable.
This book will not give you any easy answers. In fact it will give you a lot of difficult questions.
It also provides you with scripture references that might have the effect of throwing gasoline on the fire instead of making kids feel better. There are no answers, let alone easy ones, to some of the things that life throws at us.
Most of these studies do not have conclusions. The conclusion must take place in the youth room and in the hearts and minds of the kids in the days that follow the sessions flowing from this book.
Here are some things we've designed in the book to make it user-friendly: The Case Studies are categorized, so you can present what you want—or need—to your kids. But they are arranged at random, just like life. Therefore we have more than the usual Table of Contents: 1) a normal list of Case Studies as they appear in the book. 2) a Table of Categories, so you can reference the major themes, which are also ID'd on each page. 3) a Table of Topics, in which we highlight the variant themes or sub-plots, so you can be more creative in picking, choosing, and combining lessons; these are ID'd on the edge of every page, like a file folder.
Then on appropriate pages, we have provided areas where you can take notes and make notes.
When reading a Case Study, you might be reminded of something personal to you that can enrich the story when you share it; or some comments that might warn students of content or make a point more meaningful; or you might want to construct a variation. Make notes. Also, on the Questions side of the Case Studies, note taking/making areas invite you to add your own challenges and applications for students, add Bible verses that speak to you in a different way, or prompt you to direct discussions in a certain direction. This book should be a workbook of kids-under-construction, not a collection of mere stories, lists, and scripts.
Our job as youth workers is not always to find the answers but to ask the questions that need asking and let the discussion go where it goes. Let's trust the Holy Spirit to do the rest.
Being a Christian is hard. Jesus did not promise to solve all our problems for us. He did, however, promise to be there, beside us, through everything. The stories here deal with topics like integrity, honesty, faith, love, family, and all the rest of the things that drive us crazy. And they are presented primarily to get your students to do something we almost never ask them to do in the church...THINK.
CHURCH
COMMITMENT, PLEASURE VS. PURPOSFUL YOUTH MEETINGS
1 THE INCREDIBLE SHRINKING YOUTH GROUP
Dan belongs to the youth group at a church that hired a new youth minister a year ago this week. Under the previous youth minister, youth meetings were always a fun place to go on Sundays. Every week 50 to 60 teenagers showed up. In addition, they had a youth group calendar packed with cool activities, like concerts, ski trips and amusement park trips.
Over the past year, under the new youth minister, attendance has dropped from a weekly average of 50 teenagers to just 15. The group has gotten a lot more serious. Instead of fun ski weekends, the group goes and works at homeless shelters and participates in work-camps-helping fix up homes for poor people. The new youth minister has serious discussions and asks hard questions about life and the future-stuff that Dan doesn't want to think about.
A bunch of Dan's friends who no longer come have invited him to a church a few miles away that's like how their youth group used to be. It seems everybody
is going there. Dan has to decide which group he would like to belong to.
1 What's the big deal?
1 Does it matter which youth group Dan attends? Why?
1 Aren't the fun and fellowship in the other group important as well as the serious stuff in Dan's youth group? Why?
1 Should a youth group be more fun or more serious? Why? (What are the positive reasons for having a fun youth group? Negatives? What are the positive reasons for having a serious youth group? Negatives?)
1 What are the most important things Dan should consider as he decides between youth groups?
1 What's the difference between learning and being taught?
1 What's important in this situation?
0310255627_content_0010_016 Matthew 13:9; Romans 8:28
1 Think back over your life from a year or so ago to now. When have you grown the most as a person? Explain.
1 How does your experience apply to Dan's decision?
1 If you were Dan, what would you do?
SCHOOL
ADULTS, HOMEWORK, PEER PRESSURE
2 TEACHER'S PET
David has Mr. Hawthorne as his teacher for two classes. Nobody likes Mr. Hawthorne. He gives a tremendous amount of homework and doesn't seem to care about his student's personal schedules and he doesn't put up with any fooling around. He has assigned more detentions and called more parent conferences than any other teacher. For some reason, Mr. Hawthorne likes David. He respects his work and says David shows promise.
Spring Break is coming up and Mr. Hawthorne traditionally assigns a huge term paper to be turned in the day school resumes. Several of David's friends have asked him to use his influence with Mr. Hawthorne to talk him out of the assignment in order to protect their cool Spring Break plans.
David doesn't want to fall from Mr. Hawthorne's good graces, but he does want to have a good time on Spring Break with his friends.
0310255627_content_0010_0081 Is this teacher's expectation reasonable? Why?
1 How easy is it to tell your friends No
?
1 How much respect do your teachers get from the students in your classes? How much do they get from you?
1 Is respect earned or is it given to everyone, until you have reason to do otherwise?
1 Who was the best teacher you ever had? Not your favorite but the one who was best at their job?
1 Should the students just stop moaning, suck it up and do the assignment? At what point? Why?
1 How difficult a situation is David in? Explain.
0310255627_content_0010_016 Matthew 5:14-16 1 Timothy 4:14
1 What role does pleasure-seeking
play in David's difficult situation? Explain.
1 If you were David, what would you do to be respectful to Mr. Hawthorne? How would you respond to your friends?
CHURCH
MINISTRY, REJECTION, RULES
3 OBEY THE RULES OF YOUTH MINISTRY
Becca is a talented artist. When her friend Nicole was injured and had surgery on her knee, Becca visited her in the hospital and painted a Hawaiian beach scene on Nicole's cast. The woman who shared the room asked Becca if she would paint a design on her cast as well.
Before she knew it, Becca had done more than 20 paintings on various patients' casts in the hospital. She made friends with the nurses and the patients loved her artwork.
Several doctors complained that patients were not resting and staying in their rooms—they had taken to wandering around showing off their cast artwork.
One doctor told a nurse to ask Becca not to paint casts any-more since it was interfering in her patient's care (and the patients of other doctors). Becca has been considering this a mission or a ministry of her own.
She is heartbroken over not being allowed to paint casts anymore.
0310255627_content_0010_0081 What is the most important part of recovering from an operation or broken bone?
1 What is most important to the healing
process?
1 Why would the doctors want their patients in their rooms?
1 When you come up against rules that keep you from doing something you want to do, how should you respond? Why? What about when rules keep you from doing something you feel God wants you to do, how should you respond?
1 Is it important for Becca to try and understand the doctor's rules? Why?
1 Should Becca obey the doctor's rules? Why?
1 Define mission.
1 What is the best way to react when a kindness you want to show is rejected/ stopped by another person? Explain.
1 Are most rules put in place for a reason? Can you think of an example?
1 What happened to some of God's best messengers?
0310255627_content_0010_016 Psalm 103:1 Luke 19:40
1 How does this passage apply to Becca's situation?
1 How can Becca best let her light shine...by painting people's casts or by obeying the doctor's rules? Why?
1 Would you go back to the hospital? Why?
TAKE NOTES/MAKE NOTES
FAMILY
SIBLING RIVALRY, PARENTS, DEATH
4 MY BROTHER'S SHAPOW
Rich is 16 years old. He had an older brother named Mike. When they were little, Mike was diagnosed with MS. Their mom soon spent all of her time taking care of Mike. As a result, Rich often felt lost in the shuffle when he was younger.
Most things the family did were for Mike. The family schedule revolved around Mike. Mike's surgery and treatments kept the family strapped for cash and they went without things other families had.
Mike died last year. The family was devastated by the loss. After awhile Rich hoped he could build a close relationship with his mother, only to find that even Mike's memory caused her to shut him out completely.
She always talked about Mike and shared favorite memories. She barely acknowledged Rich's achievements and good qualities.
When Rich brought home his first-ever report card with all A
s and B
s his mom only said I remember when Mike got straight
As. Rich talked to his dad but he dad only said the
Mom will come around—give her