Sacred Marriage Bible Study Participant's Guide
By Gary Thomas and Kevin & Sherry Harney
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Your marriage is much more than a union between you and your spouse. It is a spiritual discipline ideally suited to help you know God more fully and intimately. Sacred Marriage shifts the focus from marital enrichment to spiritual enrichment in ways that can help you love your mate more. Whether it is delightful or difficult, your marriage can become a doorway to a closer walk with God. Everything about your marriage—everything from the history you and your spouse create, to the love you share, to the forgiveness you both offer and seek by turn—is filled with the capacity to help you grow in Christ's character. This six-session, small group DVD curriculum will equip you to love God more passionately, reflect the nature of his Son more precisely, and fulfill God's overarching purpose for your marriage.
Gary Thomas
Gary Thomas's writing and speaking draw people closer to Christ and closer to others. He is the author of twenty books that together have sold more than two million copies and have been translated into more than a dozen languages. These books include Sacred Marriage, Cherish, Married Sex, and the Gold Medallion-award winning Authentic Faith. Gary holds a bachelor's degree in English Literature from Western Washington University, a master's degree in systematic theology from Regent College (Vancouver, BC), and an honorary doctor of divinity degree from Western Seminary (Portland, OR). He serves as a teaching pastor at Cherry Hills Community Church in Highlands Ranch, Colorado.
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Reviews for Sacred Marriage Bible Study Participant's Guide
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- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5There was quite a bit of good material in the book. However, the author's continued focus on mystical / contemplative Christianity was a somewhat large distraction for me.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is another great book by Gary Thomas. I recently finished Sacred Parenting and the Sacred Parenting bible study. I read this book in preperation for the bible study that goes with it. After finishing this book I am all the more eager to do the bible study at church! Gary Thomas does an excellent job of addressing the issue of marriage from a very practical and biblical point. It is easy to relate to the illustrations. This book is not a "how to" book on marriage but rather a book that points to the fact that marriage is designed by God and is essentially for God and the deepening of a relationship with God. As this personal relationship deepens so does the marriage and it also is fortified and strengthened by this personal relationship. God is a God of love and that is what marriage is all about. To better understand this one must seek out God on a personal level. This book is an excellent book to be read with your spouse, however, it is also worth reading even if your spouse does not wish to read it with you. Be challenged to apply God's word to your every day life.Thank you Zondervan for providing this review copy.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Originally I was hesitant to buy this book; I am not a fan of "self-help" books, but it isn't one. It's a treatment on the role of marriage in relationship to God and man. I read this before getting married, and frankly, it has helped us move beyond ourselves and grow closer to each other. I would recommend reading this before marriage; it will prepare you for issues. As someone else stated, the writing is a little light at times, but overall his insights are somewhat refreshing.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The subtitle is a good summary of the book. Despite traditions that say a person is more holy by remaining celibate and single, the author points out how the marriage relationship can be a training ground for becoming all that God wants us to be. For a society where marriage is no longer sacred and where Christians also seem to be giving up too easily, the author calls us to commitment. The book is full of great illustrations from history and individuals who the author counseled.Each chapter is on a different attribute that should be learned in marriage: forgiveness, service, prayer, love, perseverance, respect, etc. There is a chapter on sexual intimacy and one of balancing family responsibilities with our mission for God which is very appropriate for ministers.A great resource to have before teaching or preaching on marriage, doing any marital counseling, and just for your own marriage.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5My wife and I haven't finished this yet, but for the most part we've enjoyed the book. It's a bit light, but makes enough useful points to be worth reading.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Brutally honest. Unlike any other marriage book I've ever read. Not a step-by-step, thank God!
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Sacred Marriage Bible Study Participant's Guide - Gary Thomas
SACRED
MARRIAGE
PARTICIPANT’S GUIDE
Books by Gary Thomas
Authentic Faith
Devotions for a Sacred Marriage
Devotions for Sacred Parenting
The Glorious Pursuit
Holy Available
Not the End but the Road
Sacred Influence
Sacred Marriage
Sacred Parenting
Sacred Pathways
Seeking the Face of God
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SACRED MARRIAGE PARTICIPANT’S GUIDE
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CONTENTS
Cover Page
Title Page
Copyright
A WORD FROM GARY THOMAS
Session One
GOD’S PURPOSE FOR MARRIAGE: MORE THAN WE IMAGINE
Session Two
THE REFINING POWER OF MARRIAGE
Session Three
THE GOD-CENTERED SPOUSE
Session Four
SACRED HISTORY
Session Five
SEXUAL SAINTS
Session Six
MARRIAGE: THE LOVE LABORATORY
About the Publisher
Share Your Thoughts
A WORD FROM GARY THOMAS
In one of the sessions in this study, you’ll hear me recount a time when my wife and I began a vacation with radically different agendas. Neither one of us was very happy with the resulting compromise; I didn’t get near the amount of rest and recovery I was hoping for, and Lisa didn’t get to see half the places she wanted to see, but you know what?
Maybe God’s agenda wasn’t for me to get all the rest I thought I needed, or for my wife to get all the excitement she desired. Maybe God wanted to confront the pride that rules both our hearts; he may well have been far more interested in both of us being shaped into the image of Christ than in having our immediate perceived needs met. Scripture teaches us that our goal should be to "do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own