Glamour Puss - a Tongue-in-Cheek Guide to Being a Powerful Woman: Manipulative, Chic and Sexy
By Anna Madsen
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Glamour Puss - a Tongue-in-Cheek Guide to Being a Powerful Woman - Anna Madsen
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Empower Yourself
-The Feminine Way
Introduction
Paris, France
January, 2013
I often come across women who start their conversation in an apologetic way, saying; I'm not a feminist. I'd like to get married at some point and become a house wife
. It's with frustration that I have to inform my conversation partner that it completely depends on what kind of feminist she means. What few people know is that the feminist school has several camps and branches. Some feminists are as different as the conservative, orthodox Jews in Brooklyn are compared to the jet-setting and open-minded Jews on the Upper East Side in New York. Nothing to do with each other, but still somehow fall under the same category. Let’s look at these discrepancies within the feminist movement;
The most common reference to feminism one has to define is the radical Anglo-Saxon Feminist movement
. It emerged in the U.S during the 60s as a response to women’s inferior position in society, and thereafter spread to the U.K and Australia. The movement explored issues such as discrimination, stereotyping,
sexual objectification, oppression (in other words: everything that was negative about being a woman) and had a final goal: to end patriarchy (the male dominated society). Their supporters called themselves feminists
, but had in fact very little to do with anything that was feminine. These ladies
claimed that women would be stronger by being more like men
and actually adjusted themselves to seem more masculine. They stopped shaving their armpits, spoke with dark voice, dressed androgynous and insisted that women could do any occupation as well as a man could. Instead of empowering the feminine, they emasculated it and in its place created a sort of third gender; masculine women. How they imagined a woman to get a better position in society by depraving her of her key characteristics such as charm, beauty, compassion and sex appeal is beyond me.
A second definition was coined by the French scholar Simone de Beauvoir in her book The Second Sex
, who stated that women’s success would be limited if they aspired to be like men. I couldn’t agree more. For biological reasons, we have two genders that share many things, but where physical and mental differences also are highly present. Trying to erase these contrasts will deprive the sexes of the skills nature has provided for us to complete each other. Men are by nature in general aggressive and physically strong, and women are sensual and emotionally capable; all for a reason. Today, modern politics shaped by radical gender movements try to convince us that stereotyping
is wrong, when in fact enlightened men and women just call a spade a spade.
The message of Glamour Puss
is to make women feel great about being feminine and getting as much as possible out of it. Only by embracing her gender, can a woman really learn to love and appreciate her true self, and in the words of Marilyn Monroe: that is real glamour. This element will also allow her to be a great girlfriend, wife or partner with a man she loves and respects. Catering to a man’s needs is not putting oneself in an inferior position, but the opposite; it’s empowering! Finally, by being feminine as a woman you can advance further into your career than if you adopted male traits. In this book you’ll learn why and how it’s done.
To reach this Female deluxe-version, there are steps every woman should follow to reach her highest potential, irrelevant if her career-choice is aiming at becoming the boss or marrying the boss;
• Understanding that being a woman is preferable and amazing. Happiness is being content with what you already are and have.
• Realizing that being feminine should be emphasized rather than toned down. If a woman wants to be superior, she should never try the counterproductive approach of hiding who she is.
• Never complaining about being a woman is hard
or unfortunate
.
• Emphasizing her feminine strengths; being beautiful, creative, emotionally intellectual and sexual.
• Understanding men’s sexual instinct, and using it to her advantage
• Accepting the patriarchal society
, but letting men only think that they're in control
.
• Understanding the concept that the man is the head, but the woman is the neck that can spin the head in any direction she wants.
• Focusing on what she loves to do and take care of health, rather than having money as only motivator.
• Being educated in the fields that she loves and can master.
• Never feeling threatened by a man because of his career or financial stability.
• Not dressing androgynous or masculine.
• Being comfortable with a male provider but at the same time striving for an independent lifestyle.
• Realizing that women, being able to use both hemispheres, are smarter than men.
• Never challenging a man in public.
• Keeping in shape and looking good.
• Accepting gifts graciously.
• Complimenting and being grateful for the men in her surrounding.
• Having high standards and integrity.
• Letting men be Men.
• Taking care of a household; may it be a castle or a studio.
Empowering women cannot be done by making them more masculine and abandoning the characteristics attributed to their own sex. Only by emphasizing her true self and her skills can a woman empower the opposite sex - both in the boardroom and the bedroom. It’s time to find out how.
Female Manipulation Tactics
Clever women can outsmart their male partner even when catering to his needs. As my Polish mother always told me triumphantly when scheming behind my father’s back; Female cunning surpasses male understanding any day
. Men rule the world, but as long as women remain in control of the male mind, the true master of the universe is in my belief secretly female.
I chose to make this my first chapter, as it serves as a good introduction to the book’s general theme: Using feminine strengths that will get you results when dealing with a man. Simultaneously, I have been hesitant to write this chapter, as I somehow feel like a traitor to my own gender by giving up ancient, top secret intelligence women have used since the dawn of mankind to control men. Then again, even though men know about our tactics won’t necessarily mean that they become invulnerable to them. Catering to men’s deepest caveman-instincts like physical force, pride, hunger, the will to hunt, the desire to provide and sexual urge, the possibilities can seem endless on what women can make their men do for them.
The cleavage -tactic
Tool: A Wonder-bra
I have always wondered if the male obsession for breasts just comes from being well fed as babies. Has anyone ever conducted research to whether homosexual men were just bottle-fed? Nonetheless, to women who learnt to use this body part to their advantage, I say: Great insight! Whether a woman is naturally gifted or need some help, a beautiful cleavage is always appreciated among men. It’s nearly impossible