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    Relational Self Help Collection Vol. I
    Relational Self Help Collection Vol. I
    Relational Self Help Collection Vol. I
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    Relational Self Help Collection Vol. I

    By Trennis Killian

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    Three titles in one eBook!

    "Beware of Abusive Behavior" helps both the abused and the abuser.

    "Controlling Your Reactions" Control how you react to what others do and say to you.

    "Planning Communication" Listen, speak, and maintain self-control.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherTrennis E. Killian
    Release dateSep 16, 2010
    ISBN9781452318707
    Relational Self Help Collection Vol. I
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    Trennis Killian

    Trennis E. Killian has been an Army Medic, high school English teacher, pastor, hospital chaplain, crisis counselor, police chaplain, and pastoral counselor. All of these occupations have helped him to understand how men and women build and keep relationships. He also knows how they repair or destroy those relationships. He has also observed how people interact in all kinds of situations. They also give him firsthand knowledge of how people live and act within each of those types of situations. He writes in all of the following areas: Bible study, Self-Help, Crisis Preparation, and Christian oriented novels. To be able to write so many different kinds of books, he has spent years of intensive study of Greek, an earned doctorate in counseling, and worked in many different occupations. He writes all of his novels under the name T. E. Killian. Because of his varied education and experience, his characters take on the characteristics and personalities of people who work in all of the occupations he knows so well. Having been in many crisis situations over the past thirty plus years, he can write about them realistically. He and his wife, Ann, live in Black Canyon City, Arizona, where he writes fulltime.

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      Relational Self Help Collection Vol. I - Trennis Killian

      Relational Self Help Collection, Vol. I

      Trennis E. Killian

      Smashwords Edition

      Copyright © 2010 by Trennis E. Killian

      The paperback edition of this book may be obtained at www.trenniskillian.com.

      Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are taken from the Holman Christian Standard Bible ®, Copyright © 1999, 2000, 2002, 2003 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Holman Christian Standard Bible®, Holman CSB® and HCSB® are federally registered trademarks of the Holman Bible Publishers.

      This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each person you share it with. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then you should return to Smashwords.com and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

      The Relational Self Help Series

      by Trennis E. Killian

      The Relational Self Help Series addresses most issues of relationships. Here are the titles published to date.

      Basic Counseling for Pastors and Other Church Leaders

      Beware of Abusive Behavior

      Building a Godly Marriage

      Conquering Grief

      Controlling Your Reactions

      Crisis Intervention/Suicide Prevention

      Planning Communication

      Relational Self Help Collection, Vol. I

      Relational Self Help Collection, Vol. II

      There are more books coming in this series, please look for them at: www.trenniskillian.com.

      Other Nonfiction Books

      by Trennis E. Killian

      Victory over Gambling: Helping Compulsive Gamblers to Freedom in Christ

      Victory over Gambling: Workbook

      Novels

      by Trennis E Killian

      The Real Beginning

      For information or to purchase any of these titles either in paperback or EBook form, please go to www.trenniskillian.com.

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      Introduction

      I have now released five short topics in my Relational Self Help Series. In each one of these, I have promised that there would be collections of three or more of these titles coming soon. This book is my fulfillment of that promise. It took a little longer than I had originally planned, so I decided that I would include five titles in the first collection instead of three.

      I feel that all of these titles address crucial issues in human relations. I have used the content of all of these titles over the years in my counseling. Everything in all of these titles, therefore, has been test proven repeatedly.

      Many women suffer from abuse. If more women knew what to look for in the men they pick for their mates, they wouldn't find themselves in an abusive situation later on. Beware of Abusive Behavior is good for anyone who may suspect they are in or about to enter into an abusive relationship.

      Grief is all around us. It affects us many times throughout our lives. Learning how to conquer grief gives us a great advantage when we do grieve. Conquering Grief is written so that you can help someone else through their grieving process or help yourself through yours.

      The most difficult part of relating to other human beings is our reactions. We all need to work on our reactions to what others do and say to us. Controlling Your Reactions does just that. Lean how Christ wants you to react.

      Too many people are suicidal. Too many people have no idea how to help someone who is suicidal. Crisis Intervention/Suicide Prevention goes into every aspect of suicide. It gives rules to go by when dealing with a suicidal person. It gives signs to watch for. Most of all, it gives hope through Christ.

      Communication is the most frustrating thing that any two or more human beings can attempt. Planning Communication shows how to do all three things you need to do in order to have successful communication. You must listen, then speak, and finally maintain self-control.

      My sincere wish is that you will be able to help yourself or many others with the Christ-centered approaches that are contained in this book.

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      Table of Contents

      Introduction

      1. Beware of Abusive Behavior

      The Abuser

      The Abused

      2. Controlling Your Reactions

      Actions vs. Reactions

      Are You in Control?

      Are Your Reactions Hurting You?

      Responsibility

      3. Planning Communication

      Levels of Communication

      Listening

      Speaking

      Self-Control

      The Plan of Salvation

      Epilogue

      About the Author

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      Beware of Abusive Behavior

      Introduction

      1 Thessalonians 5:15, See to it that no

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