I Believe, a Journey of Faith and Coping
By Ed Hazelwood
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Each chapter in this exciting and interesting book tells a story of an adventure or change in the journey and how that experience impacted his life, how he adapted or coped with the challenges, and what he learned from it. He has been able to carry on and tell his story by relying on his Christian faith, believing in a higher being, reading the Bible, participating in sports, having good friends, running, building and racing cars and maintaining a positive outlook.
The adventures are told chapter by chapter and questions are listed at the end allowing the reader to pause for thoughts and reflection or for discussion as the book can be used as a multiple week study by small groups. One chapter, the “toolbox” provides words and guidance for self reflection, assessment and personal motivation and inspiration or self help for the reader along with other ideas for coping and learning
Ed Hazelwood
The author was born and grew up in the Midwest and enjoyed growing up on a farm and living in the country. As an adult, he has always lived in the city or metropolitan areas. He enjoys the convenience of walking to the local stores for shopping and local restaurants for lunch. Ed currently lives in a North Shore suburb of Chicago with his wife Sue and their dog Dax.
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I Believe, a Journey of Faith and Coping - Ed Hazelwood
I Believe
A Journey of Faith
and Coping
By Ed Hazelwood
Copyright September 2010 Ed Hazelwood
ISBN 978-1-476-37635-6
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Author’s Note
This book was written as a defining statement of how my faith and beliefs were developed, how they have changed, and how they have grown deeper over time, based on life experiences and challenges.
I share many difficult or stressful situations that I have experienced; however, it is written in the spirit of learning from each experience, gaining insight, and being inspired in your own life. I wish you well in your journey!
I was inspired to write this book in a dream on the night of September 4th, 2010.
Acknowledgements
I would like to dedicate this book to my wonderful wife, Sue, my caring and compassionate children, James and Julie, and our loyal dog, Dax. By providing me with their love, support and input, I thank them for making this book possible. We thank God for the six wonderful and loving grandchildren we have. They are caring, wonderful children and bring us much joy and happiness. I hope they read this book at some point and find comfort and direction. For my grandchildren: Zander, Skylar, Ayden, Delaney, Carson, and Kennedy.
Additional thanks to Randy Toennies and Stacy Schuett. Randy did the cover art; it is a hand drawn image of a tree by the corner of our home. I have always seen the tree as a symbol of hope and faith of things to come being bare in the winter yet covered with leaves and colorful buds in the spring. Thanks to Stacy for her time, insights and suggestions as editor taking the words I had written and compiling them into a completed book.
I am extremely appreciative of all those that encouraged me during the making of this book.
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Table of Contents
Chapter 1. What do you believe?
Chapter 2. How do you define what you believe?
Chapter 3. Learning from Life Lessons and Experiences
Chapter 4. Adventures in Egypt
Chapter 5. A Wonderful Second Marriage
Chapter 6. September 11, 2001
Chapter 7. Major Back Problems
Chapter 8. Learning from a Heart Attack
Chapter 9. Learning from Cancer
Chapter 10. Sports and Life
Chapter 11. Moving On
Chapter 12. Developing your Core Support
Chapter 13. The Toolbox
Chapter 14. Be an Advocate
Chapter 15. Your Mission
Chapter 16. What does it all mean?
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Chapter One
What do you believe?
Have you ever wondered about your life’s journey; how you have arrived at this point in your life with the ideas, dreams, thoughts and beliefs that you currently hold close and believe in? Those parts from your life and experiences have contributed a great deal to who you are today.
Day by day and step by step, you took in, filtered and stored a vast amount of information and experiences: from your family, friends, school, work and the constant barrage of information (and in some cases misinformation) from our 24/7 media. Stop to think about how much of that information you really thought about, analyzed and questioned before storing it in your memory and accepting it as truth.
Might you wonder if all that input of information is based on facts, and the best of your experiences and influences you have had, or have you allowed your environment, friends, and media to shape you. Do you still feel comfortable with who you are, or is it time to take a closer look and update some of those previously accepted principles and ideas.
Basic inputs, thoughts and feelings are guiding you each and every day. Do you know where you are going and why? To clarify, look at the words Lewis Carroll wrote in his famous book, Alice in Wonderland. (Alice came to the crossroads and met the Cheshire cat)
Alice: Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?
The Cat: That depends a good deal on where you want to get to.
Alice: I don’t much care where.
The Cat: Then it doesn’t much matter which way you go.
How many of us are like Alice at that point; not really knowing where we are going, how to get there and why. Perhaps we are guided by our faith, our core and self foundation.
The Bible says this about faith: ¹Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. ²Indeed, by faith our ancestors received approval. ³By faith we understand that the worlds were prepared by the word of God, so that what is seen was made from things that are not visible (Hebrews 11:1-3).
At this point in my life I have changed many of the ideas, conceptions, opinions, perceptions and the handling of events now occurring in my life. It has been a journey filled with some good and some not so good experiences. In retrospect, I understand that many of those experiences were needed to build my faith, add depth to my character, shape my outlook on life and to create my core strength and beliefs.
I believe in God, my wife, my family, my good friends, my dog and in having a mission in life, or at least a strong sense of purpose. I believe God, or perhaps angels, have guided me in life. I have been following His plan for my life. It is by His nudging I am working my way through and beginning to recognize and accept the work that God has called me to do.
This book is written to share with you the journey I have had that developed and built my core strength and beliefs while truly becoming full of faith in God.
I hope this book provides feelings of both empathy and happiness and gives useful ideas and tools for you to use when dealing with your own personal challenges. But most of all, I want this to book to give you hope and inspiration!
As you read my individual life experiences, place yourself in those locations and situations and see if you relate to the emotions and thoughts I did. Live vicariously through my experiences to see how you would have reacted and how such experiences may have added to or changed your core beliefs and faith. At the end of each chapter, you will find questions to stimulate thoughts, discussion and reflection.
It is my intent to share with you how each one of the experiences impacted me and how it was necessary to adjust in each situation and find the best way to deal with each one; to survive, be strong, be compassionate, remain faithful, and to keep in contact with those close to me during those difficult times in order to come out the other side and continue the journey.
In each case or experience both faith in God and my core foundation supported me. Many emotions and thoughts came into my mind. Those emotions were different in each experience and as I thought about each one I started making a list of associated words. The word list continued to grow with each experience and included words such as God, church, love, respect, family, community, humor, confidence, passion, support and empathy.
In any particular challenge, you may find what worked for you in the past does not work or apply this time. I suggest thinking of the word list as a toolbox of words that you can draw from and consider the application of the word to the situation.
I strongly believe that there are times when we need to scale down the size of our ego, empty some of our self righteousness and make room so we can fill ourselves with the love and faith of God. We must also take individual action and participate in life if we are to lead productive and complete lives. That means to me that we must have faith in God and trust in him and His plan for us, but we must also have a core strength built on our experiences and our individual uniqueness. That is your gut instinct that gives you that foundation and sometimes gives you the direction to make a decision when you find that you cannot explain your decision in a purely logical manner. I certainly remember making some difficult decisions based on that principle; when asked to explain my decision making to others, I would say both sides were equal, or I simply did not have as much information available as I would have liked and that I truly believed the choice I made was the right one.
As my late father said, God helps them that help themselves
! It may be God, your inner strength or your subconscious calling you for a mission and giving you directions. This will depend on your beliefs and how you define what makes up your gut feeling. My gut feeling starts with my faith in God followed by my experiences and associations with my family and friends. I move forward by accepting the mission, trusting my conviction and taking initiative to move in the direction I am led.
I thank God for the wonderful parents I had. My father and mother were honest people that truly loved each other and their family. They attended church regularly, consistently kept others in their prayers and always offered a shoulder to lean on when it seemed others needed it. They had strong character and great common sense built by hard work and their love of God. My parents were both very religious and I have great memories of going to church on Sundays, attending prayer meetings on special nights, participating in Bible school and summer religious revivals.
At a young age my father was sent off to battle in World War II. He was trained then shipped out to the front, landing at Utah beach in Normandy. After a few days in active battle, he was severely wounded and spent many months hospitalized. He endured multiple operations before being discharged. He was disabled but he refused to let that stop him from fulfilling any hopes or desires he had for himself and his life. He came back home, got married and spent most of his adult life as a farmer in Missouri. I remember growing up and learning my role on the farm. It was most exciting when my father first taught me to drive the farm tractors and how all the many implements such as a plow, harrow, planter and cultivator and harvesting equipment worked during the planting, growing and harvesting seasons.
We always had a multitude of animals on the farm as well. We had dairy cows and beef cows which were typically Angus. We had hogs and even a couple of horses for awhile. We typically had three or four cats, and always had a dog. I enjoyed being around them and playing with them. After I was out of school and had left home, I fondly remembered the animals and how they fit into life on the farm, and how they were a warm memory of my boyhood years.
He was a strong, loving father to me and we shared many wonderful moments. I will always remember sitting on his lap when I was only four or five years old and listening to programs and stories on the radio just a few feet from the oil stove.