The Gift: Sharing Your Life Lessons with the People You Love Most
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The Gift: Sharing Your Life Lessons with the People You Love Most contains 24 engaging exercises to guide readers through the steps of creating a legacy statement; easy lessons help recall and relate life experiences, moral and ethical values, personal recollections, and family stories. Writing exercises help facilitate the composition of engaging narratives that inform, illustrate and leave a lasting imprint.
The Gift Companion Workbook provides ample space for recording answers to questions, or for lengthier sharing and storytelling; pages are lined and unlined to allow for illustrations or other images. The workbook can serve as a rough copy for a future manuscript, but is attractive enough to be passed on as the finished product. Instructions for self-publishing help readers create their own books as treasured heirlooms for future generations. The workbook is sold separately. The Gift Companion Workbook provides ample space for recording answers to questions, or for lengthier sharing and storytelling. Visit The Gift Legacy website for more details.
Christine Cowley
Christine E. Cowley Christine Cowley is an author, collaborator, editor and/or publisher of over 30 books. She is founder and Managing Editor of LifeGems Personal Histories, which produces personal, family and corporate histories. Christine’s latest book, The Gift: Sharing Your Life Lessons with the People You Love Most, released in November 2010, is a "how-to" book for creating your legacy statement. A legacy statement is simply an expression of who you are and what is important to you; it provides a unique opportunity to leave a personal statement for future generations. The message of The Gift is: "Our lives will be defined by what we leave behind." Butchers, Bakers and Building the Lakers: Voices of Collingwood, Cowley’s award-winning oral/pictorial history, shares the stories of many generations of residents of Collingwood, ON, once hailed as the "Chicago of the North."
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The Gift - Christine Cowley
THE GIFT: Sharing Your Life Lessons with the People You Love Most
By Christine E Cowley
THIS BOOK HAS BEEN REFORMATTED AS AN E-BOOK. diagrams and tables may appear differently than the original print or pdf versions.
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Published by LifeGems Personal Histories
Collingwood, ON Canada, 2010
www.lifegemsbio.com
Published by Christine Cowley at Smashwords
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Library and Archives Canada Cataloguing in Publication
Cowley, Christine E., 1957-
The gift : something I've been meaning to say
: sharing your life
lessons with the people you love most / Christine E. Cowley.
ISBN 9780978493271
1. Autobiography--Moral and ethical aspects. 2. Conduct of life.
I. Title.
CT25.C69 2010 808'.06692 C2010-905815-1
THE GIFT
Something I’ve Been Meaning to Say. . .
sharing your life lessons with the people you love most
Christine e. Cowley
Dedication
For Aron
who never knew
we would always remember
with gratitude
In creating The Gift I have drawn on more than 30 years of reading, writing, observation, falling down and getting up, meditation, falling down again, friendly (or not so) advice and professional counselling. Like most people, I am a product of all of these experiences and modes of learning. Though my intention has been to provide an easily accessible and original format to help others in drawing together the threads of their lives to create The Gift, it is unavoidable that past teachings and deeply embedded mental exercises or processes will be reflected in some of the material presented here. Let me assure my readers that any resemblance to any pre-existing material is completely unintentional. Let me further assure all of the many teachers and mentors from whose wisdom I have benefitted (far too many to include all of you, therefore I leave the list unwritten) that any similarities should be seen as the highest of compliments, and for any borrowed element(s) please accept my deepest gratitude.
Special thanks to my husband, Marcus, and friends Susan McCallan and Ian Chadwick for reviewing, commenting, editing and encouraging every step of the way.
Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
TOOLS YOU WILL NEED
SKILLS REQUIRED
INTENTIONS
PART 1
MINING THE GEMS
PART 2
WHAT TO SAY & HOW TO SAY IT
PART 3
ARRANGING, POLISHING AND FINISHING
Introduction
The concepts put forward in this book have been with me for so long I can’t remember how, where, or when they first began impressing themselves upon me. Even before I began writing personal and family histories, I felt passionate about writing letters—and teaching others to write letters—as an easy and enduring method of sharing significant thoughts, memories and (sometimes awkward) feelings with loved ones. One of the greatest benefits to doing the exercises in The Gift is the opportunity to conduct a life review—an enlightening and encouraging experience of personal rediscovery. Writing down what we learn or relearn about life and ourselves is a treasure for all time, revealing ourselves in ways that only we can express.
The Gift is your time machine; propelling you into the future aboard a vehicle of your own creation: airy musings, lines of poetry or song, or your deepest thoughts, feelings, dreams, longings and