Uncommon Destiny Uncommon Partner
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Wisdom Mupudzi brings a rare combination of practical staff and spiritual elements that are so often not talked about.
You will learn and discover how relationships are affected by spiritual things. Words spoken over someone, family patterns etc. Most importantly you will master how to break free from the vice grip of all these things.
He also keeps a practical side in the book as well. Things like finances, how they can affect a man's confidence and ultimately the path the relationship takes. Dealing with cycles of abuse etc, this book will zero in and help you empower yourself towards a life where Romance and Purpose work in harmony as opposed to being antagonistic. If you are high powered and wanting to "Lean In" you will be encouraged as well to do so.
For more, get your own copy of this Award Winning Ebook.Always remember you have an Uncommon Destiny!
Wisdom Mupudzi
Wisdom Mupudzi is an Award Winning Author, Infopreneur, Executive Consultant and Founder of WIsdom Unlimited International. He is passionate about seeing people walk in their purpose and ultimately walk in their Prophetic Destiny. He is based in Melbourne Australia and enjoys movies, out doors from time to time etc. He beleives that your destiny is ultimately connected to your uniqueness, and hence you have an Uncommon Destiny!
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Uncommon Destiny Uncommon Partner - Wisdom Mupudzi
UNCOMMON DESTINY
UNCOMMON PARTNER
WISDOM MUPUDZI
Copyright © 2011 by Wisdom Mupudzi.
ISBN: Ebook 978-1-4568-9331-6
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
CHAPTER
Introduction
1 Romantic Relationships and Purpose
2 Relationships and Finances
3 The Wise House Model
4 The Lounge
5 Welcome to the Kitchen
6 The Toilet or Bathroom
7 Power of Words—Background
8 Generational Curses
9 Cycles
10 Is there such thing as the one.
11 Safeguards
INTRODUCTION
It is with great pleasure that I wrote this book. I thank GOD for all the people that spoke to me about writing a book. Above all, I thank the Almighty GOD for guidance, direction as well as understanding.
I have had a passion about relationships for a long time and have met the likes of John Gray from the world famous, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus book. I have met the man twice and having been to many relationship seminars, read books etc. I came to a few conclusions. I realised that most books on relationships had a lot of things missing particularly for the young people. So I have decided to take head on those issues in relationships that affect people of all ages although more so, young people, despite race, colour, creed or any religious affiliation.
I shall be looking at relationships from 2 dimensions, the spiritual and the natural dimension. My main focus is on the issues that cover both pre marital set up and the post wedding day set up. So my intention is to address those key issues that people deal with but are less talked about, I would like to call them freak me out-kind of issues.
I hope that you will be better equipped to handle the key topics that affect relationships and you will be triumphant in your relationships and your perception and view on relationships and things that affect them will be taken to a whole new dimension that will catapult your relationships to greater meaning and purpose. Ready for take-off? Get ready and let’s go.
FOREWORD
I’ve known Wisdom Mupudzi for some time now and he is a man with a heart for success! This isn’t just limited to business or relationships but people’s personal journey with God and others.
He writes all from the heart with information that will strengthen, build or reconstruct the foundation that your relationship is built on. He is a voice for not only this generation but for generations to come in the area of relationships. Keith Craft once said If you elevate your thinking you will elevate your life
and this book will not only elevate your thinking for your relationship, but elevate it to new levels in all areas of your relationship.
With chapters focusing on Purpose, Finances, and Wisdom’s House model. It will not only change your life but change your relationship. It will be one book that once you start you will not be able to put down.
Strap in its take off time!
Shaun Featherston (Soldier—Salvation Army)
CHAPTER 1
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
AND PURPOSE
Over the years, the last 20 years there has been such a push on the idea and the thought that we are not here on earth by accident. We have been created for a purpose and we all have different ‘callings’ etc. I subscribe to that principle. This is now the new mantra for every young and ambitious man and woman, no matter the religious background or affiliation. This has been seen across the planet with people getting hold of their purpose and hence seizing their destinies. Great records have been brought to amateur levels as people combine natural talent with proper effort and dedication. New records have been set in all fields, from medical to aviation and to the movie industry. This is remarkable to say the least.
So the purpose doctrine has been well presented across the media. One of the famous purpose doctrine evangelist is DR Myles Munroe. One of the things that is quiet clear is that if one is going to have a long term relationship with someone, they need to ensure that the partner in question will help one’s dreams and purpose and not be a hindrance. One obviously needs someone who will not be curtailing their efforts to be who they are or be a limitation of any kind or in any form.
One of the harsh realities that one has to deal with in terms of romance is that no matter how beautiful the girl is or no matter how ‘hot’ the guy is, if he or she is going to undermine your purpose or call, it’s only a matter of time before the relationship goes south. From the natural perspective we all get attracted to certain people for a number of reasons. Sometimes it can be reasons such as they are what we are not. For example somebody who has a passion for books might choose someone who is outgoing so that they can bring balance to the relationship. For e.g I am a very serious guy or deep guy and very much introverted in most occasions however I do have my moments to be ‘wild’ and ‘parte’ and I certainly can find someone who likes to visit the outdoors like parks, travelling and scenery gazing fun to be with. So the reasons can be varied.
However the core of the person is what really counts or can be the deal breaker. Some people one realises they are dangerously attractive from the outset, however from the core they can be a complete turn off! You know what I’m referring to hey. One such thing can be your ultimate ‘destination’ can be so at odds to the point that you will not ‘see’ a future in your eyes.
One will have to be naive not to realise that romantic relationships have brought down many a great man and at times many great women have come undone because of a romantic relationship that went south. Should it be dubbed an affair or fling that’s not the issue, the deal of the matter is that it’s a romantic relationship that has brought one’s career to its knees. At the time of writing this book news keep coming of the first ever billionaire sportsman, golf ace Tiger Woods. His ‘discretions’ landed him in hot water with Uncle Sam and the world over. A staggering 14 ladies and mistresses have been mentioned in this whole scandal and the list has kept going North. At present it’s now official that the marriage of Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren is over. Again this has been a classic tale of money, power, fame and charisma being used to form a cocktail composed of drugs, insatiable sexual appetites and deceit. The results can only be ‘cancerous’, and the divorce has been long overdue. As we speak Tiger has just returned from an indefinite absence from golf. So his romantic relationships or alleged romantic relationships have certainly affected his purpose. Networks did lose money during his absence from the sport. His absence means the game is less appealing and advertisers will not be spending money on the sports channels that cover the game of golf during its season or in tournaments.
Obviously now that he is divorced he is going to need time to adjust and find his way to the top too. As of late his game has not been that impressive. So this is so brutally clear that in all the confusion and scandal that has prevailed over the last nine months he has lost time and been negatively impacted in his purpose. Isn’t it ironic that it’s the same purpose that took him to the stratosphere of golf, but his lack of character is almost taking him out of his purpose and realms of influence and affluence!!
The essence of me raising this particular sports person is just to demonstrate how relationships can affect purpose, careers and industries!!! One of the things that would happen is that one would ultimately have to make a decision between purpose and relationship. Something ought to give.
Whether we choose to accept it or not romantic relationships do affect people’s calling and purposes. From biblical times to present day times we have seen many men and women come down crushing because of wrong relationships. From the days of David in the bible and how he ‘hooked up’ with Bathsheba and from then everything went downhill.
The same story applies to Samson and Delilah, Samson lost his power due to a wrong and dangerous romantic liaison with lady De. We then come to modern day where we have the above mentioned golfer and to a few years back to the Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky saga.
Now romantic relationships on the positive side can be so effective and can be destiny enhancers and purpose enablers, which is the ideal scenario. I will start off with the ultimate triumph to hit the world arena in 2009, America’s first ever black president, Barrack Obama who got in power in January 2009. This was no mean feat, and no doubt that he required the support of a powerful and strong woman on his side, a woman who can keep the home together whilst the husband is in the field. It’s a tough ‘gig’ considering the dangers and the demands of going for rallies and knowing that at any time your husband or partner is in danger every time he steps up on the platform. Above all this there is the media scrutiny and the unrelenting articles day after day that could bring anything from the present and the past.
However one thing I have observed is that every good and real man knows the power of a good woman on his side. No wonder Barrack Obama bought a 5 figure ring for Michelle after the election victory as a thank you gift. So obviously one