Healing Relationships by Caging the Rage
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This book tells us how to stop wasting our anger. We are to use our anger, not abuse it, The way we respond to anger determines. our success or failure in life. Anger affects our relationships with others, with ourselves, and with God. Toxic anger can also determine our quality of life, including our mental and medical condition.
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Healing Relationships by Caging the Rage - Robert Bowers Ph.D.
What Other Ministers Say about Healing Relationships by Caging the Rage
Anger and lack of forgiveness is epidemic among Christians. Dr. Robert Bowers has made a contribution to our understanding of the nature and consequences of this problem; this book should be read. We must recall that Jesus warned that we would experience torment of our souls if we did not address this problem and deal with bitterness from not forgiving."
––Dr. Robert McGee
Author: Search for Forgiveness
; Search for Peace
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People are increasingly aware of the many tragic effects of dysfunctional families. Drug abuse, alcoholism, divorce, neglect, rejection, sexual abuse, and condemnation are only a few of the problems that plague families today. Everybody in the family is deeply and profoundly affected by the destructive issues. I believe this book written by Dr. Bowers offers many solutions for these problems. This is a must read book.
––Pastor Errol Beckford
Celebration Tabernacle
Cocoa, Florida
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Dr. Bowers has put his years of counseling experience into fascinating case studies, compelling insights, and a practical method of
how to that really hits the target. Here’s a book that really works for the counselor or an individual needing guidance in healing through forgiveness.
––Danny Daniels
Prayer and Prophetic Counseling Ministry
Park Avenue Baptist Church
Titusville, Florida
Healing Relationships by Caging the Rage
Don’t Waste your Anger
Use it...Don’t Abuse it.
Robert Bowers Ph.D.
Copyright © 2013 by Robert Bowers Ph.D.
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Table of Contents
Preface
Acknowledgements
Chapter 1 Considerations Concerning Anger
Chapter 2 Categories of Anger
Chapter 3 Conception of Anger
Chapter 4 Causes of Anger
Chapter 5 Characteristics of Anger
Chapter 6 Commandments Concerning Anger
Chapter 7 Consequences of Anger
Chapter 8 Conquest over Anger
Appendix A Declarations of Freedom
Appendix B Reduce anger by resolving conflict.
Appendix C Reduce anger by reducing stress
Appendix D Letting Go
Appendix E Prayers to overcome fleshly issues
Appendix F Completion Assignment
Final Words
From the Author
Preface
Are you angry, hurting, or bitter? Do you suffer from broken relationships, divorce, or abuse? How about rejection, abandonment, or grief? Maybe you have been violated or betrayed. If you have experienced any of these issues or other traumas in your lifetime, be encouraged, there is hope.
Maybe you are experiencing some life controlling problems such as depression, fear, or anxiety. You can escape from the pain of your past and enjoy a new life of healing with God. You can have health and peace in the Spirit with the God of love, joy, and peace. Would you like to have real victory in your life today, filled with God’s purpose and presence?
No matter how bad life is for you; no matter how much you hurt, help is on the way for you. As you go through this Anger Management Seminar, you will discover the roots and fruit of toxic anger in your life. You will learn how to be free from the toxic anger that is affecting your life in a destructive way. As you apply this material, you will discover what it takes to receive your miracle of healing and freedom in Jesus Christ. As you gain greater healing and victory over your life controlling toxic anger, your new found freedom will lead you into greater maturity in Christ. You will learn how to use your anger, not abuse it.
What happened to the father of five children that caused his wife to divorce him?
What happened to the drug counselor that caused her to want to kill her ex-husband?
What happened to an inmate in prison that made him want to see his ex-girlfriend dead?
What happened to a mother that resulted in her being alienated from her parents and sleeping in the streets with her three small children?
Would you believe they all had the same root issue that drove them to their respective conditions?
Every one of them had unresolved toxic anger issues that had eventually turned into rage and even murder in their hearts. That’s not a good way to live.
They all had some common problems with toxic anger: They were all filled with emotional hurts, wounds, anger, bitterness, rage, contempt, hate, and thoughts of homicide in their hearts. Their common solution was taking responsibility for their issues and resolving them by doing what God instructed them to do in His Word. They learned how to be free from life controlling issues by obedience to God’s command to forgive the way Jesus forgives: completely, unconditionally, and permanently.
As you continue in this study of anger management, I pray that you will be able to identify with their struggles and their victories and that the peace and power of the Holy Spirit will be with you.
Acknowledgements
My deepest gratitude is to my church, East Coast Christian Center in Merritt Island, Florida, for their support in this seminar. Thanks to those who have attended my classes on Anger Management, Fullness of Forgiveness, and other subjects on Christian growth and maturity.
I am grateful to