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    Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms
    Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms
    Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms
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    Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms

    By Al Link and Pala Copeland

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    Is this an all too familiar scenario? Hot and heavy loving with hungry kisses and tender caresses that promise orgasmic bliss for both you and your eager partner when all of a sudden you’re one thrust past the edge, the dam bursts and it’s over. You’re finished, “spent” and ready for sleep. She’s still waiting for more. Or perhaps even worse, you can’t get it up long enough to have intercourse at all?

    This manual will enable most men, as they master the techniques presented, to overcome the two most serious and embarrassing sexual dysfunctions, quick ejaculation and lack of erection. By strengthening and toning the genital muscles surrounding the prostate, and by delivering an increased blood supply to the genitals, both of these problems simply disappear, no drugs required.
    Most ordinary men believe ejaculation is the best part of sex. But there is something better; orgasm without any ejaculation at all. Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Using simple techniques we explain, any ordinary man can experience orgasm without ejaculating and have many orgasms in a single session of lovemaking. Once you learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation you super-boost your immune system, increase your physical energy, mental creativity, emotional resilience and spiritual awakening. Any male who learns this achieves alpha male status, radiating a masculine charisma irresistible to women. You do not already have to be a super-stud to learn how.
    We include precise, detailed instructions on how you can master your ejaculation response and learn to have multiple orgasms. Instructions for mapping your sexual arousal by identifying your stage of erection and other signals that your body presents to alert you how close you are to ejaculation. Learn about the four stages of erection and the ten levels of orgasm. A detailed sample arousal scale is included to assist you in creating your own. Specific directions on what to do as you approach the "point of no return" to delay ejaculation for as long as you and your partner want, so you can extend your lovemaking to ride the wave of bliss for hours at a time.

    Sections on massage, acupressure, prostate health and natural pro-sexual (aphrodisiac) supplements. Extensive information for understanding how to keep your prostate healthy. Learn about the symptoms of prostate enlargement, prostatitis, and prostate cancer—-how to prevent these health problems and how to heal them.
    Bonus articles on: aphrodisiacs, making first sex fabulous, how to be here now in bed, and more!

    TABLE OF CONTENTS
    Introduction
    Advantages of Voluntary Ejaculation
    Three Types of Orgasm
    Male Multiple Orgasms
    Mapping Your Arousal Process
    Body Signals for Voluntary Ejaculation
    I’ve caught the signal, now what to do?
    Prostate Health
    Acupressure
    BPH and Prostate Cancer Resources
    Bonus Articles:
    Quick Sex Recipe – Thirty Minutes or Less!
    Aphrodisiacs: Increasing Sexual Desire and Capacity
    How to Make First Sex Fabulous Sex
    The Lover’s Curse of Memory

    Comments from a reader: “And this sentence is the one which warmed me most to your message: ‘Possibly the single most important thing a man can do to delay ejaculation is to open his heart.’ We have seen a lot of sex manuals which made various suggestions on how to delay ejaculation in the last fifty years. The vast majority of them made it a question of control and domination, a suppression of the urge and a chance to do violence to oneself. To take this approach is to push sexual urges into the realm of the shadow. Copeland and Link don’t do this, and I applaud them. It tells me that they understand the heart to be the key to Tantra.”

    LanguageEnglish
    Publisher4 Freedoms Consulting LLC
    Release dateSep 28, 2013
    ISBN9780986570568
    Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms
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    Al Link

    Al Link and Pala Copeland are sacred sexuality and spiritual relationship mentors. They have been practicing forms of sacred sexuality, Tantric and Taoist, since 1987 and teaching workshops since 1997. They host 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra website, Sexy Spiritual Relationships Membership website, and Ask About Love and Sex blog. They have published 4 books including Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, New Page, 2003; The Complete Idiot's Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra, Penguin, 2007; Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms Body, Heart, Mind and Soul, Llewellyn 2007; Tantra Step by Step: 28 Days to Ecstasy, Llewellyn 2007. They have also published many electronic books, and a number of videos including Tantra Home Study Course and Kama Sutra Home Study Course on DVD. "Our mission is to help couples learn to create love that will last a lifetime together. Relationship happiness is the gold in the Olympics of life. The only reason couples are not happy in relationship is that they do not know how. We can teach you how to sustain a committed lifelong relationship that will satisfy you through and through, including the best sex of your lives. Knowing how to do this does not seem to come naturally for most people. Are you tough enough for love? Are you ready to learn something new? We can help you. We have saved many a marriage!" "Al and Pala teach people how to have the best sex of their lives." Discovery Channel's The Sex Files

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      Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms - Al Link

      Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasms:

      Instruction Manual for Masculine Sexual Mastery

      Al Link and Pala Copeland

      Published by 4 Freedoms Consulting LLC at Smashwords

      copyright 2004 Al Link and Pala Copeland

      Revised 2013

      ISBN 978-0-9865705-6-8

      Photographs by Al Link and Pala Copeland.

      Line drawings by Amanda Watters and Steve Copeland

      This electronic book is recommended for Adults

      Smashwords Edition, License Notes

      This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to Smashwords.com and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

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      Table of Contents

      Introduction

      Advantages of Voluntary Ejaculation

      Three Types of Orgasm

      Male Multiple Orgasms

      * Paying Attention: What You Do Want

      * Awareness: Your Sexual Arousal

      * Navigating Your Sexual Arousal Map

      Body Signals for Voluntary Ejaculation

      * Four Stages of Erection

      * Other Ejaculation Alert Signals

      I’ve caught the signal, now what to do?

      * Stop

      * Breathing

      * Testes Tug

      * Penis Tip Squeeze

      * Focus on Your Partner

      * Sexual Energy Squeeze

      * The Passion Pump

      * Grounding

      Am I sure I want to do this?

      Prostate Health

      Massage

      * Perineum Massage

      * Anal Prostate Massage

      * Full-Body Massage

      * Acupressure

      Aphrodisiacs: Increasing Sexual Desire and Capacity

      Sexual Technique Tips

      * Masturbation

      * Help From Your Partner

      Anatomy of a Quickie: Quick Sex Recipe - Thirty Minutes or Less!

      How to Make First Sex Fabulous Sex

      The Lover’s Curse of Memory: How to Be Here Now In Bed

      About Authors Al and Pala

      Books by Al and Pala

      Audiobooks by Al and Pala

      Ebooks by Al and Pala

      Videos by Al and Pala

      CDs by Al and Pala

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      Introduction

      "The degree and kind of a man's sexuality reach up into the ultimate pinnacle of his spirit."

      Friedrich Nietzsche – Beyond Good and Evil

      Is this an all too familiar scenario? Hot and heavy loving with hungry kisses and tender caresses that promise orgasmic bliss for both you and your eager partner when all of a sudden you're one thrust past the edge, the dam bursts and it's over. You're finished, spent and ready for sleep. She's still waiting for more, perhaps wistfully contemplating a purchase of that acrylic-vibrating dildo her friend has been raving about.

      Most ordinary men believe that ejaculation is the best part of sex. But there is something better—orgasms without any ejaculation at all. It is possible to have many orgasms in a single session of lovemaking, none of which includes an ejaculation. Furthermore, if you end lovemaking while you still have desire, in other words without ejaculating, you will super-boost your immune system and increase your physical energy, mental creativity, emotional resilience and spiritual quickening.

      Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Using simple techniques that we explain here, any ordinary man can experience orgasms without ejaculating. Any male who learns how to do this will achieve alpha male status, radiating a masculine charisma that is irresistible to women. You do not already have to be a super-stud to learn how.

      One of the best-kept secrets of our time is that men (not just women) can be multi-orgasmic. Not only can a man have several orgasms during one session of lovemaking, but also he can do it and still have lots of energy and desire. The key is learning to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Because ejaculation follows orgasm so closely—within a split second—most people think they are one and the same, but they are two distinct phenomena. With the simple techniques explained in this book, you can learn to experience the pleasure of orgasm without the accompanying letdown of ejaculation.

      There are only two things you need to learn in order to become a multi-orgasmic man, able to separate orgasm from ejaculation:

      1. Stay relaxed no matter how sexually aroused you are.

      2. Move your hot sexual energy up and away from your genitals.

      Any man who does this and makes love long enough to build a very high sexual charge will eventually spontaneously experience non-ejaculatory orgasm.

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      Advantages of Voluntary Ejaculation

      1. You can last as long as you want in active lovemaking, including during intercourse.

      2. You can give your female partner complete sexual satisfaction by taking as long as she wants and needs to have all the orgasms she can stand.

      3. Your relationship with your lover can be immeasurably enhanced and strengthened. She will adore you!

      4. You can experience a great deal of physical pleasure, more than you could possibly imagine.

      5. You can become a multi-orgasmic man, having any number of orgasms in a single session of lovemaking that extends over a period of hours.

      6. Each orgasm can last longer and be more intense than an ordinary ejaculation. Usually these orgasms are experienced as pleasure throughout the body rather than being restricted to the genitals alone.

      7. You can maintain optimal prostate health.

      8. You can super-boost your immune system for total well-being, rarely getting sick and recovering quickly when you do.

      9. You can experience a tremendous increase in available energy throughout each day.

      10. You can have available a deep source of creativity to draw upon for application in all other areas of your life, for example, business, science, sports and the arts.

      11. You can gain a serious competitive advantage over other ordinary males who do not know how to do this.

      12. You can regularly experience states of sexual/spiritual ecstasy in which time stands still and the boundaries between you and your lover completely disappear.

      13. You can regularly experience various forms of mystical altered states of consciousness.

      14. You can radiate a sense of self-confidence and charisma that you formerly may have envied in other superior alpha males.

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      Three Types of Orgasm

      When the Prince of Wales, later to be King Edward VII, said to his mistress, Lily Langtry, during a quarrel, that "I've spent enough on you to buy a battleship, she replied, And you've spent enough in me to float one."

      Ejaculation Orgasm

      You have probably been regularly experiencing the pleasure of ejaculation since early adolescence. During an orgasm accompanied by ejaculation, a man’s whole body tenses while contractions of the prostate gland vigorously propel semen out the tip of the penis in a forceful shooting stream. For a few seconds there is intense pleasure, restricted almost exclusively to the genitals. Almost immediately (usually within one or two minutes) the erection subsides and a refractory (recovery) period sets in. The entire body relaxes (not just the penis) and most men experience a complete loss of interest in further sexual activity. Sleepiness also commonly follows an ejaculation. How long it takes before energy (capacity for another erection) and libido (sexual desire) are restored depends on the man’s age, health, and frequency of ejaculation. Some younger, stronger men are able to retain an erection in spite of ejaculation by maintaining rapid, continuous thrusting.

      No matter how good it feels, repeated ejaculation with its accompanying loss of sexual energy can deplete your body’s strength and vitality, and this is true for even the strongest, most virile males.

      Prostate Ejaculation Orgasm

      As you practice the techniques presented in this manual you may experience an orgasm with prostate ejaculation. This is noticeably different from a regular ejaculation. With a prostate ejaculation the contractions of the prostate are not as strong and a smaller quantity of ejaculate is expelled. The ejaculate dribbles out the end of the penis rather than shooting out in a forceful stream. The pleasurable sensation localized in your genitals will be less intense, but so will the resulting letdown and loss of physical energy. You will find that the refractory period is considerably shortened allowing you to more quickly regain another erection.

      When you have a prostate ejaculation this is evidence that you are learning to keep the external genital muscles and the internal smooth muscles relaxed rather than involuntarily tensing them as in an ordinary ejaculation. It is a definite sign of progress on your journey toward masculine sexual mastery.

      Non-Ejaculation Orgasm

      A non-ejaculatory orgasm is as good as it gets. This is the best of both worlds. You get to have an orgasm, and you get to keep your erection and your sexual desire! Not only can you keep your erection for as long as your partner wants and needs to have all the orgasms she can stand, you can also go on to have any number of orgasms, with the intensity of each one varying from mild to overwhelming. You will be a multi-orgasmic man. There is no greater physical pleasure than this.

      You can accomplish this wondrous experience regularly by learning to stay completely relaxed regardless of how sexually aroused you become, by successfully circulating your hot sexual energy up through your body, away from the prostate, and by extending your active lovemaking over a period of hours.

      As you learn the required skills your entire body will become an orgasmic erogenous zone. You may experience orgasmic sensations in

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