Happy Families
By Irina Bjørnø
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A practical book for modern couples (Before and after marriage). First book from BELBooks series - Books for Easy Living. This book was written because there is an urgent need to help people looking for a permanent relationship. Every third marriage ends up in separation or divorce after a few years. Why? How to avoid it? Answers are in this book. Book cover by Swedish artist Elena Martem.
Irina Bjørnø
PhD. In laser physics, author of 3 scientific book and 200 scientific publications worldwide. Lectured in the biggest universities in the world: Cambridge, Oxford, Seattle, Austin, Goettingen or more. Associate professor in Danish Technical University, Full TCM, hypnotherapist, NLP master, dancer, singer, Qi Gong teacher, yoga teacher, performer. Director and board member of engineering consultancy company. More than 10 years experience with coaching, lifestyle classes, wellness clinic. She developed her own approach to individual energy food concepts known as "Energy Diet" and she is developer of individual lifestyle training program "Energy4Life".
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Happy Families - Irina Bjørnø
Happy Families
Irina Bjørnø, Ph.D.
ISBN 978-87-993153-0-7
Copyright Irina Bjørnø 2011
Smashwords Edition
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Personal text editor F. C. Pace
Cover by Elena Martem
Written 2007-2009 Crete, Greece
Preface
This practical book was written for You because you have decided to share your life with the person you have chosen AND to enjoy being together for many years (till death do us part).
In many fairytales the ending is magic: they marry and live happily ever after… the fairytale is over but the story is only beginning… How do they manage to be happy ever after? What is their secret?
In fairytales, couples often come from two different countries or places. This means that both the Prince and his Princess have two different cultures but they do live happily ever after… Dream or may be lie?
In this book I will describe a situation similar, but true, that of two people from two different parts of the world. They fall in love and marry. They want to be happy and be a family – a happy family. However, they don’t know HOW. This book is to help you to understand the way to happiness for two people in a permanent relationship. This book concerns itself with the science and the art of happy family life and intimate relationships. Science means an exact knowledge. Art means feelings and inspirations. You need both parts to form a happy family. It is about learning and practicing. It unlocks hidden secrets, which you can use for a successful future.
Does this book also concern couples with the same nationality? Yes, it does, because some aspects of family life are so fundamental that the partners could be coming from next door but at the same time they could be so different as if they were from two different planets.
Why was this book written?
It was written because there is an urgent need to help people looking for a permanent relationship. Every third marriage ends up in separation or divorce after a few years. Russian wisdom says, that you are supposed to eat together one pud
(an old fashioned Russian measure for 16 kilos) of salt before you can say that you know your partner in marriage well. People eat an average of 5 grams of salt a day. Two people eat 10 grams. It takes at least 4 years to eat together 16 kilos of salt. Statistics show the peak divorce rate between the 3rd and the 5th year of marriage. Conclusion: you do not know the person you married. Is it not a good idea to know how to build a long-lasting relationship? I think it is wise to spend your time to learn and to become an expert in this subject.
I live in beautiful Denmark and have been happily married to a Dane for 17 years (I am Russian born). I am the exception. I have a happy and wonderful life.
However in my profession (I run a well established clinic where I treat family problems daily for people from different backgrounds) I observe the same patterns repeating themselves: my patients make the same mistakes and fall into the same traps.
I have decided to write this book based upon my personal experience and as a result of many sessions of family therapy (I am professional counselor, hypnotherapist, writer, and yoga teacher).
It is impossible to remain fully healthy if your private life is unsatisfactory. If you do not feel comfortable in your private relationship, it will affect your health. It is better to be happy and healthy than unhappy with health problems. This book is about the good healthy family.
Allow some time to read this book as it is interactive: I need YOUR participation in the process of creating Your Happy Family. Get started. Take a deep breath. Use the exercises in the book, as a way to better understand yourself and your partner.
Also, use this book as a material for discussion. At the end of each day after reading, ask yourself.
What did I learn from these pages?
How can I use