Lord I Need A Hug
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Donna had been married for thirty years when her husband announced he loved someone else. Despite her deep Christian faith, Donna doubted that God could mend her shattered heart. In Lord I Need A Hug, Donna reveals God's awe-inspiring grace in her life: how He walked with her, comforted her, and protected her as she reached for the hem of His garment along that lonely, dusty road of rejection.
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Lord I Need A Hug - Donna Christensen
Lord I Need A Hug
By Donna Christensen
lordineedahug.com
Copyright 2010 Donna Christensen.
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Except where otherwise indicated all Scripture quotations are taken from the New American Standard Bible®, Copyright © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission.
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Verses marked NKJV are taken from the New King James Version, Copyright © 1979, 1980, 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc., Publishers. Used by permission.
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Dedicated to... those whose pillows are wet from the tears that cannot be counted.
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Acknowledgements
God has blessed me with three wonderful children: Sharon, Phil, and Stacy. Their words of affirmation and love, followed by phone calls of encouragement, helped me to keep pressing on. I love them deeply.
I thank Joyce Dawes, my sister, best friend, and confidant, for taking full responsibility to care for our mom, an Alzheimer’s patient, when I was unable to help. I’m also thankful for my dad’s love, concern, and willingness to help me whenever there is a need.
God made a place for me in a Bible Study with Al and Marguarite Stille, Sharon and Preston Stover, Lamar and LaRose Storey, and Jody Ballard. They shared my pain, but also brought great joy and laughter back into my life during the years we met together.
Ken and Carol Van Sickle prayed and kept me accountable in the Word of God. John and Gene Hall, Steve and Kathy Holley, Mike and Martha Lynn Henshaw, and Dottie Britton made room for me on a plane, around their tables, and in their hearts.
Many cups of tea were shared with my special neighbor, Rosie Pierce, while other neighbors kept a watchful eye and helped shovel at least six feet of snow!
Dick and Mary Daum were the wind behind my back
when I moved to North Carolina. Dick saw merit in my testimony; Mary read, reread, and kept moving me toward the world of publication.
From Germany, Lee and Diane Lustig continually called, prayed, and encouraged. Our hearts are bound together as we ask God to use this work to encourage others.
To those who are not individually named, know that your deeds of kindness never went unnoticed. I am thankful for all the hugs you gave me from God.
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Contents
Foreword
Prologue - Please, Come In!
Chapter 1 - I Just Wanted to Die!
Chapter 2 - Lord, Thank You for the Rose
Chapter 3 - I Remember Psalm 18
Chapter 4 - Joy Comes in the Morning
Chapter 5 - Valentine’s Day
Chapter 6 - You Have Already Won!
Chapter 7 - Cars, Floor Mats, and God
Chapter 8 - What Does It Mean to Be Real?
Chapter 9 - Christmas-A Treasured Memory!
Chapter 10 - I Need A Place
Chapter 11 - Just Hold Me, Lord
Chapter 12 - Come to the Garden Alone
Chapter 13 - Lord, I Need A Hug
Chapter 14 - I Encourage You
Chapter 15 - It’s Okay, Lord
Chapter 16 - Abba Father
Chapter 17 - Where Is Your Faith?
Chapter 18 - Sacrifice of Praise
Chapter 19 - A Modern Parable
Chapter 20 - There Is Significance in Each Day
Chapter 21 - Oh, No! Not My Lawnmower!
Chapter 22 - Rain
Chapter 23 - Don’t Walk on Thin Ice
Chapter 24 - New Construction
Chapter 25 - In the Throne Room with God
Chapter 26 - A Vessel Fit for a King
Chapter 27 - Forgiven
Chapter 28 - The Beautiful, Magnificent Rose
Chapter 29 - This Is Your Manassah!
Chapter 30 - A Prayer for the Father of My Children
Epilogue - I Have the Oil
Endnotes
Resources
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Foreword
As a marriage and family therapist, I often encourage my clients to journal their thoughts, feelings, and daily encounters. For those who have experienced significant losses, sometimes this effort produces narratives that lead to new beginnings. This tool allows them to begin framing positive thoughts and plans for their future, as opposed to dwelling on negatives, languishing in depression, or hopelessly entrapped by feelings of victimization.
Donna Christensen, a close family friend, journalized the deep pain and loss she experienced when her husband of thirty years abandoned her. As I began reading her story, I experienced many emotions. Tears of grief flowed freely as she described the pain. Yet as I traveled with her through the writ ten pages of her journey, I experienced joy as I read how she yielded herself to the care of our Lord Jesus Christ, how she looked to Him to meet her deepest need.
Donna’s story is one that I knew well. Eight years ago I received a long-distance phone call from her husband. He briefly explained that he was leaving her for another woman. He asked if I would look after her (their oldest daughter is my daughter-in-law). Immediately, my wife and I threw a few things in the car and drove several hours to their home. Donna and her children were experiencing the initial stages of this cri sis in their family. After a few days, we went back to our home and responsibilities with heavy hearts. We left behind a lonely, scared, bewildered, and brokenhearted woman whose life had previously been devoted to supporting her husband and rearing their three children in a Christian home. We did not anticipate the work that God was about to do in Donna’s life.
As the months and years slipped by, our visits were sporadic, but encouraging. Every time we sat around the dining room table, I was blessed to see how Donna’s faith was being strengthened. We enjoyed hearing her laugh as never before, and watched her confidence grow as she began to trust God with her future, no matter what lie ahead. During one of those visits, she graciously shared major portions of her work. I immediately recognized that her story could be an encouragement to thousands who find themselves in similar circumstances. I urged her to have it published as a ministry to others.
I have shared drafts of Donna’s journal with clients in my practice and they have all told me how it encouraged them. I recommend this book to Christian counselors, not only as a model of how to journal, but even more importantly, as a way to point their clients to Donna’s great God. Hers is a journal that shows us in day-to-day living the path that leads to the only One who can meet our deepest need.
Richard S. Daum, M.A.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
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Prologue
Please, Come In!
I f you came to my home for a visit, I would welcome you at my front door with a big hug. Ushering you down a couple of steps that lead to the sunken family room, we could sit on the overstuffed sofa I’ve placed beneath the picture of an English lady tending her garden. It brightens the wall where our family portrait once hung. I would offer you a brimming cup of coffee or tea, hoping you would feel warm and welcomed in this room. As we politely chatted for the first few minutes, I’d probably point out my latest accomplishment, replacing hum-drum, sun-bleached tan curtains with those gardenia-white, tea-rose pink and heavenly blue window treatments. It still amazes me how that simple change helped make this one of my favorite rooms in the house when it used to be the one I avoided most.
Knowing that you’ve come for reasons other than light conversation, I would share a little about my world…before my life fell apart.
I fell in love with my high school sweetheart. We both entered college as freshmen, but I ended my studies after my sophomore year. We married during the Thanksgiving break of his junior year. After my husband’s graduation with a degree in engineering, we started our family…two precious daughters and a beloved son in the middle.
After ten years as an engineer and faithfully serving in local churches where we lived, my husband shared that God had burdened his heart to seek full-time ministry. I agreed to support him in whatever he chose to do even though I felt totally inadequate to be the wife of a minister. But I also feared God enough that I didn’t want to say, No, God! You can’t have my husband!
Not long after our decision was made to explore avenues of ministry, the small church we were attending was in need of an associate pastor. Knowing about our recent decision, the search committee asked my husband to fill this new position. We felt that this was God’s affirmation that He had led us to this place. With our three children, eight, six, and two, my husband and I said good-bye to our small three-bedroom bungalow and set out on an unknown journey called ministry.
Eighteen months into this new calling, the former pastor resigned. The church extended this position to my husband. With additional seminary classes still ahead, our home was in constant motion. We juggled our family around breakfast meetings, board meetings, staff meetings and prayer meetings. From Bible studies to banquets, rehearsal dinners to weddings, and seminary home work squeezed late