I Was a Teenage Dominatrix
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Ride shotgun with Shawna Kenney as she transforms herself from young, broke and miserable to an educated, confident woman after answering one newspaper ad: "Get paid for being a bitch." This Firecracker award-winning tell-all comically chronicles Kenney's simultaneous navigation through a Washington, DC dungeon and academia.
Shawna Kenney
Shawna Kenney is the author of award-winning memoir, I Was a Teenage Dominatrix. Her work has appeared in Bust, Ms. Vice, The New York Times, and Playboy.com, among others. She lives in Los Angeles where she teaches creative writing in the UCLA Extension Writers' Program.
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Reviews for I Was a Teenage Dominatrix
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- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5The first 130 pages are about money money and how to get them from bdsm ways and the other 15 pages show some serious thinking. I don't know, I am dissapointed because she tried to talk about her life and bsdm scene but was so obvious her materialistic point of view that I felt a bit sorry for her. If you are looking an erotic fix it's ok
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5What a great book! I had to kept reminding myself that it's a true story... some parts made me tingle so much I couldn't believe it was real!Sexy, hot, naughty, informative, funny.... And so much more. Definitely not the porn-disguised-as-something-legit that I thought it would be (based on some online descriptions), the author spends time on all aspects of her life; Childhood, teen years, how she grew up and the first jobs she got, scrapping through school while waitressing... her Dominatrix gig was only a part of this awesome book. I know many doms, lifestyle and pro, and even so this book took me to places I haven't been before, "behind the scenes" as it were, to learn about all the different kinds of people that seek out Pro Doms. Some of the client stories were funny, some sad, and some sexy and hot as hell.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I'm surprised at just how much I enjoyed Shawna Kenney's I Was a Teenage Dominatrix: A Memoir. Keeney is an immensely talented writer who weaves an extremely compelling and engaging tale that is focused and pitch perfectly paced. Using a combination of vivid language and well rounded characters Kenney writing is immerse, it's easy to get swept away with the universe she creates. There are so many traps and pitfalls with a book that deals with a sexual topic and Kenney is adept at navigating the story and the characters into a very real but not overly heady space. Everything in the book feels very real and not contrived, a level of honesty which serves the book extremely well. If you're even remotely curious about this book or the topic, I highly recommend picking I Was a Teenage Dominatrix: A Memoir up, it delivers and is well worth you time.
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I Was a Teenage Dominatrix - Shawna Kenney
I WAS A TEENAGE DOMINATRIX
by Shawna Kenney
Published by Retro Systems Publishing, Los Angeles, CA.
Copyright © 1999 Shawna Kenney.
Reprinted by Last Gasp of San Francisco, © 2002.
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, recording or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the author.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Shawna Kenney
Shawna Kenney is a journalist and essayist whose work has appeared in Ms., Bust, Creative Nonfiction, the Florida Review and Vice, among others. She graduated from the American University in Washington, DC in 1995 and earned an MFA in Creative Writing at the University of North Carolina Wilmington in 2007. She has worked as a waitress, nanny, librarian, copy typist, hotline operator, production assistant, receptionist, promoter, cashier, reading tutor, swimming instructor and dominatrix. I Was a Teenage Dominatrix was her debut book. It won a Firecracker Alternative Book award, earned international translation, enjoyed an option for film/television and a cult following of fans.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Chapter 1: Before
Chapter 2: Fantasy
Chapter 3: Reality
Chapter 4: Metamorphosis
Chapter 5: Lessons
Chapter 6: Miranda
Chapter 7: Pets
Chapter 8: Honesty
Chapter 9: Duplicity
Chapter 10: Rewards
Chapter 11: Pupils
Chapter 12: Graduation
Chapter 13: Goodbye
Bonus Material
Salon.com called I Was a Teenage Dominatrix Holden Caufield in leather.
Read the entire article here: www.salon.com/people/feature/2000/04/20/teendom/index.html
Reader-friendly, sexy and at times hilarious,
says chickclicks.com. Read more: entertainment.chickclick.com/articles/2787.html
A page-turner, a riveting romp with intellectual as well as sexual content, as well as being extremely personal in a universal way. There’s something here for everyone, from fetishists to punk rockers, sex-positive feminists to curious culture-vultures.
—Pleasant Gehman, author of The Underground Guide to Los Angeles and Escape From Houdini Mountain, both available from Manic D Press: www.manicdpress.com
THANK YOUS
Love and hugs to Harriette Wimms, Patty, Brandy, Missy, Beth, Pam, Tim, Anja, Lisa Holland, Maggie Holliday, the whole St. Mary’s Crew, H2O, the 9:30 Club and Cesar—wherever you are. Also to anyone who has ever given me a place to live or eat—you have kept me and my faith in humanity alive!
Special thanks to my print publishers Celeste Cleary and Mark Portier, for your friendship and belief in me. Also big thanks to Eagle Eyes
Ann Cleary, and all of the great indie bookstores who support indie authors like myself and fight the power each and every day of their existence: Atomic, Quimby’s, Powell’s, Book Bound, Robin’s Books, La Luz, Ducky Waddle’s, Intimacies, City Lights, Books Inc., the Lavender Dragon, Bluestockings, Skylight, Book Soup, etc.—YOU ALL ROCK!
This book is dedicated to Rich, the beautiful boy.
CHAPTER ONE
Before
When I was around six years old, like most kids in my neighborhood, my sister and I spent summer days swimming at the YMCA. Some of the other kids got there earlier than us—they’d been swimming for hours already because they had swim lessons every morning. I asked my mom for lessons but we couldn’t afford them. I was jealous—not just because of their extra swim-time, but that they were already racing each other with awkward strokes back and forth across the pool, doing handstands and having underwater tea-parties,
while my sister Ali and I were gripping the edges of the pool for dear life, still holding our noses like babies and taking turns going under.
I decided I would not be left out. When my mom was at the snack bar, I said goodbye to Ali and told her I was going to the forbidden zone—where I couldn’t touch bottom. She protested with tears and four-year-old panic, threatening to tell mom, but the decision was made. I had to push off that edge. I was going to make myself learn to swim. If I died, I died. I pushed off and my legs flailed in the blue depths beneath me. Kids all around splashed and screamed as usual, and I went down like the Titanic. Water rushed in everywhere it wasn’t supposed to be. I turned my head in silent slow motion, from side to side, watching the colorful bathing suits and little legs around me. The lifeguard, still in her stand, was a distant red blob up above. I wondered when someone would see me drowning and come save me. No one did. My chest burned with chlorinated inhalations. Seconds seemed like hours until finally I flapped my arms and thrashed and wiggled my way to the surface. Sweet air filled my lungs and my nose burned like hell inside. I was near the middle of the pool, a good five feet from our precious edge. My sister was crying, waiting and watching in horror. I dog-paddled over to her and pulled up a wall. I can swim now,
I said smugly. She didn’t speak to me the rest of the day. That’s pretty much been my life. Sink or swim, trial-by-water. Whatever you want to call it. Sometimes you just have to get off that wall.
So, how did a nice girl like me get to be a dominatrix? Well, first of all, I’m a woman, not a girl. And what makes you think I’m so nice? Second, it’s not as weird as you might think. I get plenty of questions and looks when people find out about my past employment experience. (Not exactly the kinda thing I put on my resume, mind you.) True, I guess I don’t fit society’s caricatured idea of a dominant woman.
I’m a college-educated, petite, natural-looking woman with an ‘Ivory-Girl’ sort of face. A pacifist. A former nanny, into music and literature. I don’t dress in black leather and I wasn’t molested as a child or any of that crap. And I don’t hate men. I like everyone, until they give me a reason not to. I’d love to tell you that I just woke up one day around age thirteen and said, I wanna be a dominatrix when I grow up!
But it didn’t happen that way. I never knew that was a real option.
I always wanted to be rich and famous. Or rich and powerful, at least. Of course I had no idea how to reach these vague aspirations, but what kid does? So how did I come to spank men for a living? I suppose you want to know where I’m from—what my background is, what lead me to this profession, and all that other Holden Caufield kind of shit. All you really need to know is that I could be your neighbor. Your babysitter. Your student. Your waitress. Your friend. Your daughter. Maybe even your mother. We were all larvae in a cocoon before we became butterflies. Everyone’s got a story. Here goes mine.
From goldfish and stray cats to lice epidemics and phonics, my childhood is alive and vivid in my head. Time-periods are mentally filed by television shows and places I’ve lived. The Sesame Street years were spent in Malone Village, a housing project in upstate NY, where I was born to twenty-one-year-old parents. My father received a telegram while aboard a Naval aircraft carrier off the coast of Viet Nam, announcing my birth. Eighteen months later, I had a little sister. My mom says there was never any jealousy between us, due to the fact that she prepped me for ‘big sisterhood.’ I liked helping with the care and feeding of the baby, and later took the role more seriously in preparing her for pre-school while I was in kindergarten. The Fat Albert years had us moving into a two-family home, which looked like a giant house from the outside but was split right down the middle inside. It was an orderly existence. The home was a tight ship run by my mom, with dad enforcing the discipline. Like most kids back then, we feared the belt, but didn’t get it too often. If I was good, Sunday nights I could watch the Disney movie, savoring my one-Coke-per week snack allowance. If I was bad, bedtime was as soon as I acted up.
In school I was a quiet kid—so much so that teachers complained to my mother that I never raised my hand or spoke out loud at all. She was shocked, because at home and in the neighborhood it was a whole different story. Even though I was small and younger than the kids who lived near us, I bossed them around quite easily. Bake sales, dance routines and games were all directed by me and run according to my rules, and if the gang didn’t play right, then I refused to participate. Looking back I realize how lucky I am that I never got my ass kicked, but for some reason, my tactic usually worked. At home I was the same with Ali, but in a more benevolent way. Playing school, I had to be the teacher because I felt she had to know certain things before going on to each grade. I prepared lessons for her, showing her how to print numbers and pronounce vowels, just as my teachers did for me. So maybe I was a kid dominatrix and didn’t know it. I don’t know. Suffice it to say I had a great, if somewhat strict, childhood.
I never wanted to be a girl, much less a woman. When I was twelve, we moved to a brown trailer in Maryland, on a plot of green land with a creek and a tire swing out back. We’d visited our uncles who were stationed there by the military years earlier. My parents decided to get us out of the city, which was probably a good thing, though at the time we thought it was cruel and unusual punishment to be plucked out of school mid-year, sent away from our friends and cousins, and banished to a hick-town. The only good thing in it for me was that I had my own bedroom for the first time in my life. In reality, my parents were movin’ on up like the Jeffersons because my dad got offered a better job and my mom decided we were old enough for her to work full-time, but being kids, we didn’t appreciate this at the time. Everything about the move pissed me off. New kids who said y’all
and thought I was the one talking funny. New schools. No local YMCA. And no sidewalks for roller-skating, even!
It didn’t help that it all happened around that lovely time known as puberty. My mom brought home a training bra because I was starting to develop, she said, and I wouldn’t want people to think I was a tramp. Well I didn’t want to wear one of those things, so as soon as she left the room I cut it up. I shredded the padding from the small cups with her big sewing scissors, snipped the dorky pink rosebud from the center, and threw it all away. When Ma returned and saw what I’d done, she screamed at me, Do you know how much that cost me?! Fourteen dollars! Fourteen dollars of our hard-earned money! What the hells’ the matter with you?
I saw the tears in her eyes and felt horrible. I didn’t know WHAT the hell was the matter with me. But I still didn’t want to wear one of those things. To me, that meant I was for sure a girl, and all girls I knew