UnSelling: Sell Less ... To Win More
By Peter Bourke
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The more you sell, the less the client trusts you to tell them the truth. The more you sell, the less inclined the client is to listen. In reality, the more you sell, the less you win. This book on UnSelling is designed to shift the buyer-seller relationship from subservient to collaborative.
This eBook will outline an approach to control and win the most complex deals that includes:
- Qualifying new clients that requires no “selling” – period!
- Understanding how to create a collaborative relationship with the prospect so that your sales teams can understand the truth from the client – not what they want you to believe
- Contrasting the difference between traditional selling and this unique approach to UnSelling
- And understanding what to say and how to say it
Your sales people and leaders will never “sell” the same way again – and will win more as a result.
Peter Bourke
Peter Bourke is the Founder and Principal of Better Way Sales Strategies. He has more than thirty years of experience in sales leadership in the professional services, high tech, healthcare, and outsourcing industries. Previously he served as president of the outsourcing division of Spherion Corporation. Peter’s background in sales leadership, marketing and operational management includes key roles with Andersen Consulting (now Accenture), IBM, NYNEX, and First Financial Management. At Andersen Consulting he was Global Director of Business Development. In this role, Peter led the development of the business development framework that was implemented throughout the firm for outsourcing and consulting services. In addition to his business career he Peter has been active in two major ministry areas: •As founder and steward in serving those who are in career transition - http://www.c3g.org - and as an author and speaker - http://www.betterwaytomakealiving.com •Walking with Christian men to help them understand God’s purpose for marriage and our role as husbands in an abundant marriage - http://www.menyourmarriagematters.com Peter received a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration from California State Polytechnic University, Pomona, as well as an MBA from Pepperdine University. Through Better Way Sales Strategies (http://www.betterwaystrategies.com), Peter provides keynote speech programs, win/loss reviews, and large, strategic opportunity coaching to his clients.
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UnSelling - Peter Bourke
UnSelling™ - Sell Less … to Win More
22 Strategies to Win Without Selling
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Author: Peter Bourke
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Table of Contents
Introduction: UnSelling … To Win More Business
Chapter 1: Selling
Doesn’t Work
Chapter 2: The Alternative: UnSelling (Think 7up® - The Uncola)
Chapter 3: UnSelling Practical Examples and Applications
1. UnSelling: It’s All In the Words You Use!
2. Using Provocative Point-Of-View (PPOV) Statements
3. Qualify Early (And Often) With Small, Polite Confrontations
4. Whiplash
Questions
5. More on Let’s Decide If It Makes Sense to Do This At All
6. Don’t Conform; Consult With the Client about Their Evaluation Process
7. The UnSelling Approach to the Discovery Process
8. Really Understand Your Client’s Business and Challenges
9. Executive Access Is Not Optional
10. Executives, Especially, Don’t Want to Be Sold
11. Above All Else, the Client Deserves the Truth
12. Provide the Client Alternatives to Build Trust
13. Don’t Be a Jack of All Trades and a Master of None
14. Resist Death by Powerpoint
at All Costs
15. Accelerating Discussions that Are Perfectly Illogical (To Selling
People at Least)
16. Give Your Competitors Some Credit (Sort Of)
17. If The Prospect Is Doing Something Difficult, They Deserve to Know
18. Using the Walk Away
Strategy… to Win?
19. While You UnSell, Let Your Client References Sell
to Their Heart’s Content
20. UnSelling Doesn’t Stop at Contract Signing
21. UnSelling Begins With Account Management
22. Without a Roadmap, Any Old Selling Road Will Get You Nowhere
Chapter 4: You Know You Have It Right When …
About The Author
Introduction: UnSelling … To Win More Business
The more you sell, the less the client trusts you to tell them the truth. The more you sell, the less inclined the client is to listen. The more you sell, the more you tend to look (and act) like a hammer looking for a nail – where any nail will do. In reality, the more you sell, the less you win.
This position is entirely counter-intuitive to the average sales person, mostly because we are taught from the first day of sales training that the key to success is great sales techniques. You can find thousands of books on the art and science of selling – techniques, tricks, even scripts to sell
the prospect. Our corporate sales training classes always insist that sales is about understanding the prospect’s needs and then articulating your solution so that the prospect is compelled to choose your obviously-superior solution – right? Not so fast!
The Background on UnSelling
I was trained, starting in 1980, by one of the premier sales organizations in the world – the IBM Corporation. I went on to work at some great and highly successful corporations organizations including Nynex (now Verizon) and Andersen Consulting (now Accenture) where I headed up worldwide business development for this market-leading consulting organization for much of the last half of the 90’s. Interestingly, even these well-respected organizations instinctively tend to default to a selling
model – focused on compelling the client to choose our product, solution, or approach because it is superior.
Then in 1997 while at Accenture I conducted a market-wide evaluation of potential sales methodology companies and evaluated an array of sales methodology firms you’ve heard of (and likely been trained by) – including Miller Heiman, Target Account Selling, and Solution Selling, among others. I ended up hiring a sales methodology and training organization I had never heard of – The Complex Sale (TCS). TCS was founded by Rick Page (author of the best-selling book, Hope is Not a Strategy) and I chose Rick’s firm because he understood what few people I had previously met really understood – that sales success, particularly when selling consulting and professional services offerings, has little to do with having the best features and functions of your solution. In fact, the best solution loses more than half the time in competitive deals – over half!
Based on our success at Accenture and my personal alignment with Rick’s fundamental methodology and thought process, I decided to leave Accenture in 1998 to share both Rick’s methodology and my philosophy about UnSelling to many new and different clients in services-based businesses. I have managed and coached thousands of sales people and led countless large pursuits. And while this little-understood concept of UnSelling has proven successful in many different organizations with whom I’ve worked, I’d be remiss in not acknowledging the insight and knowledge that Rick and his team of Principals have helped me understand and embrace and have been instrumental in the market-tested development of these concepts which have been integrated in this book. I can confidently say that TCS has developed the most effective sales methods and tools to help sales people and teams to win deals they can’t afford to lose.
Before we cover the UnSelling philosophy and approach in-depth, I should provide one additional dimension central to developing this concept. Since the mid-90’s, while at Accenture, we made a decision to institutionalize the