The Blueprint for My Girls: How to Build a Life Full of Courage, Determination, & Self-love
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Do you feel like no one understands where you're coming from?
Now there's a blueprint that can offer you comfort, motivation, and real solutions.
When Yasmin Shiraz launched Mad Rhythms, a hip-hop magazine aimed at college students, she visited youth organizations and colleges across the country to teach young people how to effectively pursue their dreams. Drawn to Yasmin's confidence and determination, young women in particular sought her opinion on topics such as body image, popularity, dating, sexuality, child-parent relationships, and social and academic pressures. Yasmin could easily speak to those issues. She struggled with many of the same concerns when she was younger.
Inspired by the common threads connecting each generation, Yasmin developed The Blueprint for My Girls to help young women discover who they are, develop a sense of self, and stay positive. In the book, Yasmin pairs her personal stories with 99 "expressions" designed to help readers deal with situations they may not feel comfortable discussing with friends and family. Each expression is accompanied by exercises to help readers progress on their journey.
Staying real without being preachy, The Blueprint for My Girls will be a solution giver, a problem solver, and a friend in need for generations to come.
Yasmin Shiraz
I'm an author and an award winning filmmaker. I write books that are inspired by the things that I witness in life. I used to own an entertainment magazine, Mad Rhythms. My first book, The Blueprint for My Girls was taken from my teenage journals. My second book, The Blueprint for My Girls in Love was inspired by all the relationship issues that me and my friends had from high school and through college. So far in my career, I've had two really GREAT breakthrough books: The Blueprint for my Girls and my first young adult fiction book, Retaliation. Retaliation was named as a Top Ten Quick Pick for Reluctant Young Adult Readers by the American Library Association.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I absolutely ADORE this book. I read it when I was about 11 years old, am 21 years old now, and still remember the lessons taught by the amazing Yasmin Shiraz. This is a book I recommend to my sisters and will buy for my nieces when they are older.
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The Blueprint for My Girls - Yasmin Shiraz
PHASE 1
FOUNDATION—Your foundation is where you build who you are going to become in life. This will help you become a strong woman who can navigate life on her own terms.
expression 1
Say what’s on your mind.
There are thoughts that we have that are never shared because we’re afraid of how we are going to be perceived or if others will agree. There are people on this earth who will live seventy years, and no one will know what they stood for or what they represented because they never said what was on their minds.
MY TESTIMONY
I don’t like sensing danger. It took me about fifteen years to articulate that to anyone. I don’t like being in areas where I anticipate accidents. I don’t favor going to playgrounds and seeing children playing when they are not supervised. I don’t enjoy going to pools when the lifeguards are not thinking about saving anyone’s life. My family always used to chalk this up to quirkiness, but it wasn’t quirkiness. It was a deep feeling that I had. Now that I have told my family how I feel, they understand my position a lot better.
BLUEPRINT
God gave me my voice. I must use it to speak.
YOUR TESTIMONY
Think of a time when you didn’t say what was on your mind but you should have. Jot down what you should have said. Now go in front of the mirror and loudly say what you’ve written down. Hear your voice.
expression 2
Be a person of hope.
When everything around you looks bleak, be a person of hope. Even if your heart is broken again and again, be a person of hope. And when you’re tired of trying and your strength is gone, be a person of hope.
MY TESTIMONY
At twenty-four years of age, I decided to start an entertainment magazine. I didn’t know enough about publishing to be discouraged; instead, I hoped that the business would lead to a full life for me. I had never taken any classes on magazine publishing, and I didn’t have any connections in the entertainment business. I believed that I could work hard enough for people to give me a chance. I trusted that entering the entertainment business on my own would lead me to network with kindred souls who could assist me in realizing my goals. I didn’t know if it would happen for sure, but I continued ambitiously. Now, years later, after trying times in the magazine publishing industry, I realize that my aspirations have been the strength and the light that have led me to a greater path. And, in the days when things weren’t going my way, I really wouldn’t have had anything if I didn’t have hope.
BLUEPRINT
I will live my life as a person full of hope.
YOUR TESTIMONY
What would you like to happen to you, your life, and/or your environment? Write down at least three things and write down three reasons why these things should happen to you.
expression 3
Be thankful for everything.
Be thankful for all that you have. There are always people who will have more than you. But then, there are always those who will have less. There is no sense in complaining about what we don’t