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    You Can Love Again: The Guide to Finding Love That Lasts in Later Life
    You Can Love Again: The Guide to Finding Love That Lasts in Later Life
    You Can Love Again: The Guide to Finding Love That Lasts in Later Life
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    You Can Love Again: The Guide to Finding Love That Lasts in Later Life

    By Jan Haldane

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    This book is for women who have been badly burnt by relationships. Very often it is much
    safer to stay home with a good book, the cat and a glass of wine than taking the risk of trying
    to find love again.
    Believe it or not, there are good men out there looking for love. Finding them may
    necessitate kissing a few frogs, but the result is worth it.
    There is lasting love out there waiting for you if you are willing to do the inner work
    necessary to attract love to you.
    This book will show you how to release the thoughts that may have served to protect you in
    the past, but now hold you back from the true love you deserve.
    You will learn what you need to be happy in a relationship and what type of relationship suits
    your current life stage.
    I can promise you that this book will change the way you think about relationships including
    your relationship with yourself.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherBookBaby
    Release dateMay 19, 2014
    ISBN9781483527000
    You Can Love Again: The Guide to Finding Love That Lasts in Later Life

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      You Can Love Again - Jan Haldane

      growth.

      Introduction

      How Finding Love Changes

      Once upon a time you were young and single and love was easy to find, and relatively uncomplicated. Life was like a blank canvas waiting for you to make your mark on it.

      They were heady young days, filled with dreams and optimism. Back then you didn't know what you didn't know about love and relationships.

      Then, as the years passed, you accumulated things, people, responsibilities and emotional baggage. Life and love started to get complicated.

      This book is for women who have been badly burnt by relationships. Very often it is much safer to stay home with a good book, the cat and a glass of wine than to take the risk of trying to find love again.

      Believe it or not, there are good men out there looking for love. Finding them may necessitate kissing a few frogs, but the result is worth it.

      There is lasting love out there waiting for you if you are willing to do the inner work necessary to attract love to you.

      This book will show you how to release the thoughts that may have served to protect you in the past, but now hold you back from the true love you deserve.

      You will learn what you need to be happy in a relationship and what type of relationship suits your current life stage.

      I can promise you that this book will change the way you think about relationships, including your relationship with yourself.

      Website: www.janhaldane.com

      Facebook: www.facebook.com/janhaldanerelationshipcoach

      Twitter: @coachjanhaldane

      LinkedIn: nz.linkedin.com/in/janhaldane

      Baggage Battles

      The past will be your teacher if you learn from it: your master if you live in it.

      - Steve Maraboli

      Is baggage from past relationships and life experiences holding you back from being the loving person you were born to be? If so, you are fighting a baggage battle. Everyone has baggage to some degree, whether they are willing to admit it or not. Baggage battles are emotionally exhausting for you and adversely affect your self-esteem and personal relationships. Excess emotional baggage hurts us and those we love. While our past can inform our future, it doesn't have to BE our future. So how do we ditch the baggage?

      First, we need to get really honest with ourselves and what's going on in our mind. We're not actually pushing an overflowing luggage trolley everywhere we go, although we may feel so exhausted, it's as if we were. It's our thinking that's weighing heavily on our spirit. Our own thinking is causing us pain.

      Believe it or not, this is good news. We can change our thinking. Each and every one of us is in charge of their own mind. Now there's a liberating thought! Of course, if we are in charge of something, we are also responsible for it. We can choose which of our thoughts to keep and which to discard.

      Hilary, an old work colleague of mine, met Denis through an online dating site. She had been out of her marriage for two years and finally succumbed to friends and family telling her to get out there and get a life. By nature Hilary was calm, warm and kind. These traits, along with her good looks had historically made

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