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    Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person
    Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person
    Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person
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    Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person

    By Rolf Nabb

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    You've played the field, you've dated, you've hooked up and you've been there and done that. But as time passes, you're finding that the single life just isn't what it used to be. You want more out of life. It's time for you to have a serious relationship. One that's for keeps. Now is the time to get off the prowl and start looking for that special someone to settle down with.

    Yes, you're ready to take the plunge. You're ready to find the right person to marry.

    Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person is going to help you get your mind straight about getting serious about settling down. Maybe you're already dating the right person or maybe you've yet to meet him/her. Regardless, this book will teach you some skills in finding/ choosing/keeping the right person and also how to avoid some of the pitfalls associated with marriage.

    Whether you're a guy or girl, if you're ready to get serious about finding someone to marry, Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person is the book for you.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherNew Tradition Books
    Release dateJan 5, 2008
    ISBN9781932420685
    Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person

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      Dating Sense - Rolf Nabb

      conclusion.

      Introduction.

      You’ve played the field, you’ve dated, you’ve hooked up and you’ve been there and done that. But as time passes, you’re finding that the single life just isn’t what it used to be. You want more out of life. You think that it’s time for you to have a serious relationship. One that’s for keeps. You’ve figured out now is the time to get off the prowl and start looking for that special someone to settle down with.

      Yes, you’re ready to take the plunge. You’re ready to find the right person to marry.

      Well, it sounds tough, but that’s exactly what I’m going to help you do and I’m going to avoid all the mind games and self-defeating mumbo-jumbo that other books regarding this subject give you. I’m not going to give you six keys of compatibility or a quiz that only tells you what you already know or don’t want to believe. I’m also not going to give you a list of questions to ask your prospective spouse to determine how committed they are to the relationship. Other people have done this to death and I don’t want to duplicate what you’ve probably already read somewhere else. This book is not about gimmicks. It is a simple guide with simple advice to help you meet and marry the right person. It’s geared for both men and women who are searching for the right person. It’s about compatibility and the things you should be thinking about when you’re starting to get serious about someone or are wanting to find someone with whom to get serious.

      I’ve written this book from the standpoint that you are already serious about finding someone special. I’m not trying to convince you of the joys of marriage or the sorrows of being alone. I want to teach you some skills in finding/keeping/choosing the right person and also how to avoid some of the pitfalls associated with marriage. Whether or not you’re actually in a relationship is irrelevant for the purpose of this book. What I’m trying to help you do is to get your mind straight about getting serious and to find the right person to be with. Maybe you’re already dating the right person or maybe you’ve yet to meet him/her. Regardless, I want to help you know whether or not you’re with the right one.

      Before we go any further, let me also state that I’m assuming that you know how to talk to people and ask them on dates. This book is not about this subject. It is about finding and choosing a wife or a husband. If you’re looking for tips on how to talk to and pick up women or what constitutes a good date, this is the wrong book for you. However, if you’re looking to settle down with the right person, keep reading.

      Now, let’s get started.

      Are you ready for marriage?

      While marriage is a wonderful thing, it is not always the stuff dreams are made of. In fact, it can be quite hard at times and make even the strongest of men cry. It can also make even the happiest of women into bitter old crones. Wow, this does paint a rather harsh picture! But relax, I’m just being facetious. Regardless, there is an element of truth there. Marriage is not always fun and games. The thing to realize is that marriage is a lot of work and, before you start on this journey, you need to look inside yourself and make sure that you’re ready for it.

      Marriage can be a lot of fun if you choose the right person. It can provide you with a lifetime of great memories and great experiences. It can make you into a better person. If you make a wise decision regarding your spouse, you will have someone with whom to share your life, a friend who will accompany you on life’s adventure. This is what marriage is about—living your life with your best friend in a great and loving relationship. On the other hand, this great relationship doesn’t happen by itself. You will have to work to maintain it. You will have to think about someone other than yourself. You will have to consider your spouse in your decisions. You will have to remember birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions. You will have to de-emphasize your time with the guys. You will have to give less thought to your girls’ night outs. You will have to spend less time with your parents. In other words, you will have to reprioritize. Your prolonged adolescence and celebration of the self will end and, if you’re honest with yourself, you will be glad it did.

      If you’re ready for marriage, you will understand these things. You will know that while your life is changing, it is probably changing for the better. Everyone must grow up eventually. Even you. Sure, you used to be big on playing the field. Sure, you used to have your pick of any guy you could get. But after a while, it gets old, doesn’t it? Even the most successful of playboys finds himself looking for more out of life after a while. That’s what being ready for marriage is about. Being ready for more. This is just a natural part of growing up. This is just another part of the life cycle. Accept this and you will be a much happier person.

      Another thing to realize is that if you’re sincere in your decisions, marriage will help you grow as a human being in ways you never imagined. It will help you to mature and be a better person. You will find yourself doing things you never even thought about. You’ll be pushing a stroller. You’ll be changing diapers. You’ll be buying a house. You’ll be buying a lawnmower. You’ll be making sacrifices for the ones you love. And you’ll feel great about it. They’ll also be doing this for you, too. You’ll be a much better you than you ever thought possible. You will be a more developed you. A more mature you. An improved you. However, this stuff doesn’t happen by itself. Your fate in your married life is largely in your hands.

      The right person.

      The right person.

      This is a concept that people have speculated upon since the beginning of time. The right person is the person who people desire to spend their lives with. This is the one they think about when they imagine their significant other.

      He/she is Mr. or Ms. Right.

      The right person is what some people think of as a soul mate. As The One. As for me, I don’t know about any romantic or mystical notions of soul mates or anything. That is not the scope of this book. However, I will tell you what I think the right person is. In my opinion, the right person is the person who you want to marry. Who you should marry. The right person is a result of making a well-informed, well-thought-out decision regarding who you want to spend your life with. The right person will make you into the you that you have the potential of being. If you want to get sappy, you could say that the

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