You Got Next Beyond Divorce
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You may have been recently divorced or it could be several years since you signed the “papers”. It really doesn’t matter how long you have been divorced. What matters most is how far you have come along the journey beyond divorce. How far have you gone in your journey towards the vast possibilities that await you in your Next.
It is no disgrace to acknowledge that you are not as far along as you wished you would be. We all get stuck from time to time and this book is designed to give you a little stimulation if you are “a little stuck” or a jumpstart if you are “a lot stuck”.
This book can be a guide for those just now starting this journey post-divorce and need a road map to move beyond divorce. Wherever you are, whomever you are, if you are on this road of post-divorce you will find something in this book that will revolutionize your perspectives on post-divorce and equip you to more effectively move Beyond Divorce, because You Got Next!
W Vernon Murray
Walter V Murray resides in a suburb of Atlanta GA. He has written 10+ books (see www.mbhpublishing.org) and is a sought after speaker for corporate leadership training, operational effectiveness, churches and religious groups where he focuses on practical non sectarian spirituality, personal life development and social consciousness topics.He is currently the Executive Director of The You Got Next Foundation and the Managing Director of Compliance Audit Consultants Inc and the Chief Blogger at www.UnSpinAmerica.orgMore information on his work can be found at www.YouGotNext.org & www.complianceauditconsultants.comE-mail: Director@YouGotNext.org.
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You Got Next Beyond Divorce - W Vernon Murray
Beyond Divorce
by W. Vernon Murray
Copyright © 2011 by MBH Publishing Inc.
Beyond Divorce
by W. Vernon Murray
Printed in the United States of America
Smashwords Edition
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without written permission from the publisher. If any portion of this book is fictitious, the author guarantees it does not represent any real event or person in a manner that could be deemed libelous. The author guarantees this book is original and does not infringe upon any laws or rights, and that this book is not libelous, plagiarized or in any way illegal.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
PREFACE
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
CHAPTER 1 - Ready, Set, Grow
CHAPTER 2 - This will hurt!
CHAPTER 3 - Use pain for growth
CHAPTER 4 - Justifiable!
CHAPTER 5 - Stages
CHAPTER 6 - Now Is Good Even If It Hurts Now
CHAPTER 7 - Stop The Blame
CHAPTER 8 - Band-Aid or BuildingBlock
CHAPTER 9 - Look Back, Don’t GO Back
CHAPTER 10 - A Gift- For Giving Yourself
CHAPTER 11 - The Bu$ine$$ of Divorce
CHAPTER 12 - Financial and Tax Matters
CHAPTER 13 - What About The Children!
CHAPTER 14 - Saved From Stupidity!
CHAPTER 15 - Good Bye For Now!
RESOURCES
PREFACE
You may have been recently divorced or it could be several years since you signed the papers
. It really doesn’t matter how long you have been divorced. What matters most is how far you have come along the journey beyond divorce. How far have you gone in your journey towards the vast possibilities that await you in your Next.
It is no disgrace to acknowledge that you are not as far along as you wished you would be. We all get stuck from time to time and this book is designed to give you a little stimulation if you are a little stuck
or a jumpstart if you are a lot stuck
.
This book can be a guide for those just now starting this journey post-divorce and need a road map to move beyond divorce. Wherever you are, whomever you are, if you are on this road of post-divorce you will find something in this book that will revolutionize your perspectives on post-divorce and equip you to more effectively move Beyond Divorce, because You Got Next!
So, what is this Next I speak of? And what in the world do I mean You Got Next
. You say, You don’t even know me, so how in the world would you know if I got next?
I hear you and I may not know you but I do know that you do have next.
Have you ever been on the playground or at the gym where guys and gals are engaged in a sweaty game of pickup basketball?
If you have, you probably heard someone say, I got next or I’m next up
. So life is like a game and as long as you are in the gym of life at some point, you got next, even when you don’t call next up!
Have you ever had to take a number and wait in a government office to get something done? Then over the intercom you heard your number called out serving number 7 at window one
. When that call is made, you got next, whether you are ready or not.
So do you hear life calling your number? The game doesn’t stop just because you feel the pain of your recent divorce. Life doesn’t skip over your number just because you are so beat up and broken down by the anguish in your