Are You Turning Into Your Dad?
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Joseph Piercy
Joseph Piercy is a freelance writer. He holds a Master of Philosophy degree in English Studies and is a regular contributor to various magazines and journals. He is the author of 1000 Words You Should Know and The 25 Rules of Grammar, also published by Michael O'Mara Books Limited. He lives in Brighton with his wife and daughter.
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Are You Turning Into Your Dad? - Joseph Piercy
First published in Great Britain in 2011 by
Michael O’Mara Books Limited
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Contents
Introduction
Do You Dress Like Your Dad?
Downtime
Hobbies and Interests
Everyday Life
When the Going Gets Tough
Horror Holidays
Embarrassing Your Offspring
Transport
Legacy
Quiz: Are You Turning Into Your Dad?
Afterword
Bibliography
Acknowledgements
INTRODUCTION
THE DAWNING REALIZATION
‘Old age is the most unexpected of all the things that happen to a man.’
LEON TROTSKY
I can remember the day very clearly. It was a Friday after work and I was on my way to my parents’ house when the heavens opened. I got soaked from head to toe. Stepping into the hall, I took off my dripping coat and sodden shoes and went to put them in the closet. And then it happened. I spotted them right at the back. They were an unwanted Christmas gift from a Scottish aunt a few years back. I remembered the feeling of disappointment when I’d unwrapped the box. I’d been hoping for a really cool pair of headphones but instead I got a really uncool pair of fur-lined tartan slippers. Needless to say I’d never worn them. They were slung into the cupboard under the stairs on Boxing Day and forgotten. Until now.
Heaven Sent
My feet were wet and cold and suddenly the slippers looked unbelievably attractive. The word that sprung to mind was ‘cosy’. I picked them up, turned them over in my hands and was about to put them on when my dad strolled into the hall and gave me a knowing smile. He was a dedicated fan of the softer-soled shoe, in fact, he was the only man I knew who had both a summer and a winter pair. He said one word: ‘Wait’. Then he ambled over, picked up the slippers and walked into the lounge. He placed them on top of a piping hot radiator and said, ‘Just give it a minute, I promise it’ll be worth it’.
Worth the Wait
We waited. The minute lasted an eternity. My feet were freezing. Eventually he removed the slippers and carefully placed them in front of me. I pushed myself into them. Pure bliss. It felt like I’d stepped into a bath of lightly toasted marshmallows.
When I’d floated back down to earth I asked, ‘Why didn’t you tell me about this earlier?’
He was very straightforward. ‘I’m sorry, son, but you just weren’t ready. You wouldn’t have listened, let alone appreciated what I’ve just done.’
I bristled, but deep down I knew he was right. I had been a boy – but now I was a man. ‘Well is there anything else as good as this that you’ve been keeping to yourself?’
‘Actually, there is something else I can probably share with you.’
‘Such as?’ I asked, expectantly.
‘Have you ever sat on top of a mountain after a lengthy hike and drunk a cup of hot tea fresh from a thermos?’
No Turning Back
It was 8 March 2002 and I was thirty-two years old. That was the day I realized I was turning into my dad. And it wasn’t bad. In fact, it felt really good. I was having a midlife epiphany – the opposite to a midlife crisis.
But the jump from wanting to rave all night to wanting to ramble all day can be confusing. What follows is guidebook for fellow travellers, a lighthearted concoction of tips, quizzes and funny stories, all designed to help you understand and embrace your inner dad. So get your slippers on, ease yourself back into a comfortable armchair, take a sip of hot chocolate (no doubt from your favourite mug) and enjoy.
‘The old believe everything, the middle-aged suspect everything, the young know everything.’
OSCAR WILDE
‘Just remember, once you’re over the hill you begin to pick up speed.’
CHARLES SCHULZ
DO YOU
DRESS
LIKE
YOUR
DAD?
THE FIRST TEST
‘Trying on pants is one of the most humiliating things that a man can suffer that doesn’t involve a woman.’
LARRY DAVID
With an ever-burgeoning waistline and an ever-receding hairline one would think it’d be more important than before to be well turned out. Somehow, though, you’ve just let things slip these last few years. Then one day you open the wardrobe and the sinking feeling comes over you that you’ve started to dress like your dad. The following quiz will determine if your general attire is in desperate need of a makeover before it’s too late.
1. Do you own a golf jumper, possibly in a pastel shade of yellow or purple?
2. Is there a ‘smart casual’ jacket hanging in the wardrobe which you don for special occasions? You think it makes you look ten years younger but your partner vehemently protests whenever you wear it and regularly threatens to donate it to a local charity shop?
3. Do you have a comedy loud shirt which wouldn’t look out of place at a seventies themed fancy dress party? You secretly modelled it on the Top Gear presenters, although none of your family or friends have picked up on the connection.
4. Do you still have your wedding suit, which you wear at formal occasions despite the fact it’s threadbare, has immovable stains