Love, Again

I think, when it comes down to it, my overriding emotion with this book is disapointment. This book is possible the best ~100 page novel about love I have EVER read. Unfortunatley, it's 340 pages long. When this book is good it is very very good. Infortunatley, in between the good there's a lot of unnecesary babble and irrelivancy and it grated. Every time I picked this book up I had to force myself to do it which is why, as much as I loved this book, I can never really love it. Love, again is possibly one of the best descriptions of love and depression I've ever read. It's nuanced and so achingly longing. The problem was I felt it was a description and not a novel. It was almost like case notes on a love. Of course, the main character is well drawn out, complex. In fact, many of the characters are intense and compelling, it's the connections between them I find week. The dialogue is, frankly, appaling. I get the point that the book is trying to make about how we don't talk to each other and how this is carried in the dialogue but in doing this a lot of character development was simply skipped over. There were also a lot of refrences to literature which, frankly, went over my head and annoyed me. Because I'm simple like that.

You have got to be over 60 years old to really appreciate this novel (and it would help if you or a friend had ever suffered from depression). If you think people over 60 don’t fall in love (again) or spend much of their time thinking about sex, well you gotta believe that this ain’t necessarily so. Doris Lessing was in her seventies when she wrote this novel and so had time to think about her feelings and sexuality when she was in her sixties. This is pertinent because, many of her novels appear to draw down from her own life experiences. Of course her science fiction novels found her in a different place, but Love Again set firmly in the 1980’s brought her right back down to earth.We find Sarah Durham in her mid sixties; her husband had died over twenty years ago and since his death she has thrown herself into her work. She is running a professional theatre group with three other people who have worked together to make a success of the Green Bird theatre company. Her group carry out research on the life of Julie Vairon, a beautiful quadroon girl from Martinique as material for a new play. It becomes Sarah’s project as she uses material from Julie’s diaries and music that she composed. Julie lived in Belles Rivieres in a small house in the woods on the French Mediterranean coast. She had love affairs with three Frenchmen, the first two caused major disquiet within the community and the young men were dispatched into the army by their families, the third affair was with a master printer but this ended in tragedy when Julie was found dead at the bottom of a rock pool. The story of Julie Vairon’s life had become a major event for the modern town of Belles Riviéres attracting tourists and now Sarah finds herself being caught up in the almost mythic tale, however when she meets Stephen a financial backer for the project she finds someone more affected than her; Stephen is hopelessly in love with the dead Julie Vairon. The Julie Vairon project comes to fruition; actors are hired an American director is in place and musicians are rehearsing Julie’s songs and music. Sarah and Stephen become ‘hands on’ involved with the practical side of the production and Sarah finds a latent sexual desire burning through her defences, first with the handsome young actor Bill Collins who plays Tom, Julie’s first lover and then with Henry the American director. Passionate intense feelings almost take over Sarah and she finds that both Bill and Henry are attracted to her and serious flirting, battles with trying to get the project completed. Julie Vairon the play will open in Belles Riviéres and the troupe decamp to the little town in preparation and Sarah wishes that first Bill and then Henry might be knocking on her hotel bedroom door. Later Sarah finds that Andrew the actor playing Julies third lover the master printer desperately wants to sleep with her. The handsome Bill Collins proves to be bisexual and he hooks up with another man and Henry who has a wife and son at home in America cannot bring himself to be unfaithful. Sarah cannot contemplate Andrew and so her life in effect mirrors Julie Vairon, meanwhile her soul-mate Stephen is sinking further into terminal depression. Love, lust, sexual desire are themes that run through the novel along with mental illness; Lessing repeatedly asks the question throughout the book as to just how much is love the result of mental illness, what is the connection, This is Sarah in her hotel room alone with her thoughts:“For people are often in love and they are not in love equally, or even at the same time. They fall in love with people not in love with them as if there was a law about it, and this leads to……….if the condition she was in were not tagged with the innocuous “in love” then her symptoms would be those of real illness.” Sarah as a young women was attractive and was never short of admirers, she is still attractive in her mid sixties and although she may not be turning heads anymore, men are still interested in her.“Millions spend their lives trapped behind ugly masks, longing for the simplicities of love known to attractive people. There is now no difference between me and those people barred from love, but this is the first time it has been brought home to me that all my youth I was in a privileged class sexually, but never thought about it or what it must mean not to be. Yet no matter how unfeeling or callous one is when young, everyone but everyone will learn what it is to be in a desert of deprivation, and it is just as well, travelling so fast towards old age, that we don’t know it yet………….. There is a terrible arrogance that goes with physical attractiveness, and far from criticising it, we even admire it”Family, a familiar theme of Lessing is again present in the novel. Hal, Sarah’s bother is a successful surgeon with a practice in Harley Street, one of his daughters (Joyce) is a wayward teenager full of problems bordering on mental illness and Hal parks her on Sarah when he has enough of her. Joyce keeps turning up at Sarah’s door and has to be dealt with, meanwhile Sarah is trying to help the wealthy Stephen whose own family life is in ruins. Family, work-life balance and the ‘social life’ within a close knit working group are all given the Lessing treatment and make fascinating reading for anyone who has read her early novels.As usual with a Lessing novel it takes time to get into the book, patience is required especially here where the story of Julie Vairon takes precedence in the first part. This is largely the back story to the novel, but this is the part that I found less than convincing. If it was Lessing’s aim to interweave the story of the modern day Sarah with that of Julie Vairon then for me she doesn’t pull it off, essential though it is, Julie Vairon remains a back story and I never felt the connection. All in all I found myself loving this novel for large stretches, but then finding some of it not quite working. I was convinced by the depiction of a sixty five year old woman falling in love again. I have read some criticisms of this being faintly ridiculous, with the thought that how could younger men find her attractive or how could a woman of that age have feelings of lust and love to such an extent that they threaten to overwhelm her. What I would say to such criticism is ‘just wait till you get to sixty five’ and of course young men are attracted to older women; look at President Macron here in France.I also loved Lessing’s writing about the cafe culture in France and the atmosphere she was able to create of the small busy town that was also an epitome of a more relaxed social environment, which suited the bonhomie created amongst the theatre group. Lessing found the magic here if she did not quite find it in the story of Julie Vairon. Lessing once again pushes and probes into modern life, admittedly into the lives of people who are less than worried about money problems, but much of it rings true. Thoughts and ideas dominate the proceedings of this very literate novel and if Lessing has not quite found all of the magic then she has written a book that has great appeal to us older citizens - and why not we are in the majority. 4 stars.

Doris Lessing's novel, love, again, plays itself out in a theatrical setting. At sixty-something, Sarah Durham, one of the Founding Four of the Green Bird Theatre has reached a successful plateau in her life. Widowed with grown children, she is totally immersed in running the alternative theatre she helped to found. She considers herself to have reached "those heights of common sense .... the evenly lit unproblematical uplands where there are no surprises." At the opening of the book, she is just about to embark upon the production of an ambitious theatrical piece, underwritten with American, French and English money, which she has co-authored with Stephen Ellington-Smith. In the fevered atmosphere of rehearsals and productions, the illusions and realities of love and grief become inextricably entwined. Julie Vairon: An Entertainment presents the story of a nineteenth-century quadroon girl from Martinque who fell in love with a young French officer, Paul Imbert. The intelligent and talented Julie convinced her lover to take her back to France with him. Although his family refused to accept their liaison and had him sent to Indo-China, Paul's father helped Julie get employment as a tutor in art and music to the daughters of the respectable families in the Provençal town of Belles Riviéres. Inevitably she had a long and intense affair with the youngest son of the local nobility, Rémy Rostand, which finally ended in the same manner as the earlier episode with Paul. Five years later, the master of the printing works, Phillipe Angers, proposed marriage to her. A week before the ceremony, after a year of planning the wedding and marriage, she drowned herself in a pool near her forest cottage. The romantic story was "hardly unusual. Beautiful young women without family support, and disadvantaged -- in this case double, being both illegitimate and coloured -- have this kind of history," and remained little more than local lore until the Rostand descendants discovered some of Julie's musical compositions among their papers and in the provincial museum. When her music was played at a local festival, attended by Stephen Ellington-Smith, the discovery of a new talent was proclaimed. But her genius was not limited to music. Her watercolors granted her reputation "a small but secure niche" in the art world, and her journals published in French and in an English abridgement brought favorable comparison with Madame de Sévigné. Fascinated by Julie Vairon's journals and haunted by her music, Sarah Durham begins a dramatic treatment for a Green Bird production. As the project develops, Julie's music is added to the words of her journal, and another play about Julie's life arrives at the theatre -- a romantic treatment by Stephen Ellington-Smith, the patron who had worked with such great success to ensure the reputation of Julie Vairon that he had become known as Julie's Angel. When Sarah meets Stephen to discuss collaboration, he declares that "I am hopelessly in love with Julie .... I am besotted with her." But he doesn't like her journals with their cold intelligent commentaries. Despite their disagreements about Julie's character, Sarah and Stephen agree that she will adapt his dialogue into her treatment; they will be listed as co-authors, and he will continue his support of the production. They also become fast friends. Their companiable partnership belies the emotional storms about to ensue. The first rumble of thunder, in the person of Sarah's niece Joyce Millgreen, arrives on the doorstep just as Sarah is leaving to visit Stephen and his wife in Oxfordshire. Joyce is recognizable as one of Lessing's familiar characters -- an individual totally disoriented in contemporary society. By turns anorexic, lost, misled and dependent, Joyce disappears and reappears on the fringes of the narrative, reminding the reader of the fragility of a stable life. Another storm cloud appears when Sarah visits Queen's Gift, Stephen's wife's estate, the site of an ongoing music festival. A successful artistic partnership, the husband and wife team falter in matrimony. Each seek emotional satisfaction elsewhere -- Stephen in his obsession with Julie Vairon and his wife Elizabeth in a relationship with her companion Norah.But the tempests begin with the rehearsals for Julie Vairon. The talented cast gels quickly as an ensemble under the energetic direction of Henry Bisley:Already they were inside the feeling of conspiracy, faint but unmistakable, the we-against-the-world born out of the vulnerability of actors in the face of criticism so often arbitrary, or lazy, or ignorant, or spiteful -- against the world outside, which was them and not we, the world which they would conquer.... How easily, how recklessly we join this group or that, religious, political, theatrical, intellectual -- any kind of group: that most potent of witches' brews, charged with the possibilities for harm and for good, but most often for illusion.Lessing has set the stage for what could be an elegant comedy of manners as the company members, including Sarah and Stephen, fall in and out of love with each other while they prepare for a triumphant, if brief, run of Julie Vairon in her adopted town of Belles Rivières. The preenings, the flirtations, and the physical desires that flourish in close proximity are precisely detailed, and Lessing weaves in allusions both to the literature and pop culture of love that enrich the texture of the relationships and point out generational and cultural differences in the players. Julie Vairon's music, reminiscent of the love songs of Provençal troubadours and trouvères, adds a heady emotional accompaniment. Of course, the loves are doomed -- the lovers have real lives outside the artificial world of the production -- other lovers, families, and obligations which insistently beckon when the heat of production cools. However, Lessing further complicates the course of these illusory loves by adding another production at stage of Queen's Gift. Because of prior engagements, some of the actors must be replaced so the dynamics of the relationships change. Stephen, predictably, becomes infatuated with the two actresses who play Julie -- Molly McGuire is kind but less interested than her replacement Susan Craig, but finally it is the elusive Julie who claims Stephen. Sarah, unpredictably, is wildly attracted to the charming and adrogynous Bill Collins, nearly forty years her junior. The attraction wakens desires in her that she had thought long dead; she is by turns embarrassed and flattered by Bill's attentions which are fleeting and end with the close of the production at Belles Rivières. However, she then begins a richer, if no less frustrating, relationship with the American director Henry Bisley. These experiences force her to confront longing, grief and despair that had been deeply buried in her psyche. But Lessing's attention is not entirely focused on Sarah and Stephen -- each of the characters in the novel illumines another facet in this prismatic examination of love. At times the reader may become annoyed with the seeming fecklessness of the characters -- too many of them seem to race headlong into certain disaster. But perhaps this flaw is due less to character development than to the author's equivocal tone wavering between tragic and comic -- does the reader laugh or cry at the plight of love's victims? While one can enjoy the tweakings at cultural peculiarities, a wince may arise at the seeming obligatory psycho-babble ranging from the neglected inner child to the paralysis of depression. The wide-ranging focus gives the novel a messy feel -- so many ends are left untied and situations unresolved -- but, then, life is inherently messy, and what Lessing has presented in love, again is a slice of life.We are not often offered a novel that explores the passage into old age. Indeed, our society tries to gloss over that journey with its cheerful portrayal of "active senior citizens."Lessing confronts the issue unsentimentally, and often, ironically. Sarah Durham is, at the end of this novel, an old woman -- not doddering or dependent, but cognizant of her age and the significant change in her life.