The Gift of Forgiveness (Women of the Word Bible Study Series)
By Eva Gibson and Jane Hoyt
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Eight sessions of Bible study cover topics such as "Experiencing God's Forgiveness," "Why Forgiveness Is Hard," "Loving Your Enemies," and "The Power of the Cross." Readers will examine the challenges of accepting and offering forgiveness, dig into the teachings of Scripture, and reflect on their own relationships. Each session wraps up with action steps for applying to their everyday lives what readers learn from God's Word. Plus, a brand-new Leader's Guide is included to facilitate meaningful group study.
Eva Gibson
EVA GIBSON has written six teen novels and several nonfiction books. She has been a contributing writer on several Aglow Bible studies. Her favorite ministries are teaching women's Bible studies and teaching teens at her home church, where she works as a part-time secretary. She also teaches writing at the local community college, leads journaling and quiet time classes, and speaks at retreats and seminars. She and husband, Bud, have six grown children and ten grandchildren, and they enjoy hiking, gardening, and reading.
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The Gift of Forgiveness (Women of the Word Bible Study Series) - Eva Gibson
© 2010 Aglow International
Published by Chosen Books
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Chosen edition published 2014
ISBN 978-1-4412-6923-2
Previously published by Gospel Light
Originally published in 1998 in the Aglow Bible Study series as Forgiveness
Ebook edition originally created 2011
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Dedicated to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and
His faithful servants of the Women’s Bible Study at the Tualatin
Hills Christian Church. Without their prayerful support
this study would not have been possible.
A grateful acknowledgment to Jill Honodel and Pam Weston, editors at
Gospel Light. Jill Honodel asked the questions that helped shape this study and Pam Weston smoothed out my rough places. What a team!
My heartfelt appreciation to the adult class that meets the second
hour on Sunday mornings. This group of men and women
gave me the opportunity to teach this study for the first time. Thank you,
Lynn Bruce, Don and Diane Burton, Hugh and Jan Findlay,
Randy Fosse, Carol Grantom, Sally Lavell, Jeff and Kristi Promitas,
Katie Rose, Stacy Singledecker and Ellen Whited. Your input
was more valuable than you will ever know.
I would also like to thank my daughter Beth Niquette, my special
friend Esther Friemark, and my pastor, Loren Doty. They are
encouragers! Special thanks to Scott Rainsberry’s high school class,
particularly Nate Hazard and Michaela and Michael Wanberg,
for their input on chapter 2.
Finally, thanks to my husband, Bud, our grandson Jonathon
and our adult children, Dow, Darren and Roberta—all who patiently put
up with the hours I spent holed up in my office. Two-year-old Jon-Jon
often came in and kept me company.
What a family I have! What a support group! I thank God for
each and every one of you.
Eva
CONTENTS
Foreword
Introduction
How to Start and Lead a Small Group
1. Experiencing God’s Forgiveness
2. Cultivating a Forgiving Heart
3. Why Forgiveness Is Hard
4. Pride vs. Humility
5. Loving Your Enemies
6. Grace to Forgive
7. The Power of the Cross
8. Restored to Serve
The Gift of Forgiveness Leader’s Guide
FOREWORD
When the apostle Paul poured out his heart in letters to the young churches in Asia, he was responding to his apostolic call to shepherd those tender flocks. They needed encouragement in their new life in Jesus. They needed solid doctrine. They needed truth from someone who had an intimate relationship with God and with them.
Did Paul know as he was writing that these simple letters would form the bulk of the New Testament? We can be confident that the Holy Spirit did! How like God to use Paul’s relationship with these churches to cement His plan and purpose in their lives, and, generations later, in ours.
We in Aglow can relate to Paul’s desire to bond those young churches together in the faith. After 1967, when Aglow fellowships began bubbling up across the United States and in other countries, they needed encouragement. They needed to know the fullness of who they were in Christ. They needed relationship. Like Paul, our desire to reach out and nurture from far away birthed a series of Bible studies that have fed thousands since 1973 when our first study, Genesis, was published. Our studies share heart to heart, giving Christians new insights about themselves and their relationship with and in God.
In 1998, God’s generous nature provided us a rewarding new relationship with Gospel Light. Together we published our Aglow classics as well as a selection of exciting new studies. Gospel Light began as a publishing ministry much in the same way Aglow began publishing Bible studies. Henrietta Mears formed Gospel Light in response to requests from churches across America for the Sunday School materials she had written. Gospel Light remains a strong ministry-minded witness for the gospel around the world.
Our heart’s desire is that these studies will continue to kindle the minds of women and men, touch their hearts, and refresh their spirits with the light and life a loving Savior abundantly supplies.
This study, The Gift of Forgiveness by Eva Gibson, uncovers the difference between merely giving lip service to forgiveness and truly forgiving through the transforming power of the Holy Spirit. I know its contents will richly reward you.
Jane Hansen Hoyt
International President
Aglow International
INTRODUCTION
Perhaps there is no truth that has had a greater impact on my thoughts and actions these past few years than that of grace—God doing for me what I can’t do for myself. At the end of my book Called to Spiritual Maturity, I wrote, I understand a little more now—the entire movement of the Christian life from beginning to end is grace. Grace comes from God to man. When we receive it, we’re empowered to give to others. We become links in the chain of grace, a chain that goes on and on.
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What I didn’t realize when I wrote those words is how closely grace and forgiveness are interwoven. Change the word grace
in the above quote to forgiveness
and what do you have? A chain of love that encircles the world. Awesome truth.
Yet the more I thought about it, the more my own heart convicted me. Old resentments dressed in new clothes popped up to trip me. People in my past that I thought I had forgiven came back to haunt me. But, Lord, I have forgiven them, haven’t I?
Yes, but what about those in your present? Those who persist in hurting you again and again—and they aren’t even your enemies; they’re members of your own family.
There’s so much I don’t know about forgiveness, and yet there is much I do know. What takes hostility and transforms it into love? What is the secret of happy families and peace between individuals? What brings joy to our heavenly Father? Why, it’s forgiveness. Those who have experienced God’s forgiveness for their own sins and have then extended this same kind of forgiveness toward others are the most joyous people in the world.
But if this is true, why do we harbor old hates in our hearts? Why do we allow resentment to rankle underneath the surface? Why do we allow bitterness and hostility to poison our personalities and cause our relationships with others to wither and die?
This study was developed as the result of my