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    How to Tune Your Inner Game: Why You Don't Act or Practice In Field Despite PUA Knowledge
    How to Tune Your Inner Game: Why You Don't Act or Practice In Field Despite PUA Knowledge
    How to Tune Your Inner Game: Why You Don't Act or Practice In Field Despite PUA Knowledge
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    How to Tune Your Inner Game: Why You Don't Act or Practice In Field Despite PUA Knowledge

    By Delven

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    PUA whether novice, intermediate or advanced level prcatice inner game has its significance at every stage. When new it is approach anxiety. In intermediate stage it is practice bouts followed by inactivity due to bad experiences. In advanced stage, it is constant review, introspection and further improvement all are based on inner game. Outer game is the manifestation of the inner game. Inner game is the base for your sarging practice. Inner game is the seed. Outer game is its fruit. Inner game is the flower. Outer game is its fragrance. Tuning your inner game your inner states is the foundation for the outer practice of approaching and opening the women of your liking and choice. This book is about your inner game. Why you do not practice despite having enough functional knowledge of the game. Why your outer behavior does not reflect your inner penchant for women? This book will transform you from what you are now to your ideal self.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherDelvensoft
    Release dateOct 3, 2014
    ISBN9781311857460
    How to Tune Your Inner Game: Why You Don't Act or Practice In Field Despite PUA Knowledge

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      How to Tune Your Inner Game - Delven

      Title page

      How to Tune Your Inner Game: Why You Don't Act or Practice In Field Despite PUA Knowledge

      By Delven

      Copyright

      Copyright © 2014 Delvensoft

      Smashwords Edition

      License Notes

      This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to Smashwords.com and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

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      Table of Contents

      Title page

      Copyright

      What you offer / seek

      Your own pattern

      Woman’s concern

      New insights / practice

      Housewife and Prostitute

      Relating with women: be an approach machine

      Ideal target: Choosing a woman

      Your own choice pattern or choice disorder

      Excuses for not opening

      Dating sites exposed

      Understanding your unfulfilled desires

      Insight into woman's body language and her expression

      Demerits of low class women

      Inadequacy of the initiative

      Understanding the group active in this context

      The negative concept

      Tuning your inner game

      Sex and problems with it

      Sex outside marriage and women in India

      Understanding signaling mechanism of women

      Maturity in physical affairs

      Relating disorder

      Obsession with women

      Behaviour modification technics

      Preoccupations with women

      Doing and happening

      Know your current behavior

      Diagnostic approach to chronic preoccupation with women unresponsive to PUA knowledge and practice

      Low self-esteem in your context

      Practice alone if no wingman exists

      Erotic stimuli

      Wisdom

      How to Tune Your Inner Game: Why You Don't Act or Practice In Field Despite PUA Knowledge

      Defining the relationship

      What you offer / seek

      Libido based, no commitment; no permanence.

      Sex: infrequent / regular (purely physical relation or simulated emotional relationship to enhance the quality of fulfillment)

      Attending to other's and your own libido by arranging logistics.

      Discreet, assured secrecy and safeguarding mutual reputation.

      No threats or blackmail. Trust, confidence and harmless.

      Understanding and emotional fulfillment for the other if required.

      Extramarital affair with no strings attached. No kids, No money. No responsibility, etc. Just pure fun. Enjoying until your stay here (on the earth) with no concern for permanence.

      You are allowed to stray; but the other preferably must be committed and loyal or at least put up a perfect show of loyalty and commitment at the same time not minding if one strays and indulges with others.

      Marketing lessons

      The market is when you are outside: walking, or shopping, etc. Outdoors is the only market there is to pick up women.

      Contact many. Phone close.

      Follow up. Meet and talk. Spend time together.

      Saying the right thing can get your woman aroused without even touching her.

      Tell her how beautiful she is to you. Tell her how uncontrollably powerful her sex appeal is, which in turn, draws you to her. Make her feel like she’s the only woman alive. Whatever it is you need to say to her to emphasize how magnetic she is to you, say it. Tell her how badly you need to be close to her, to feel her. If you’re doing this over the phone, she’ll be aroused before you even walk through the door.

      Words game

      Use the expressions like you remember the other every moment. Longing to see and talk to her. Missing the other. Her absence even for a moment is unbearable. Her presence is joyful.

      Admiring her looks, dressing. Her power evoked feelings of heart. You are carrying passionate desire for her. One wants her desperately. You had great liking for her. Expressing your love, care and feelings for her.

      Your own pattern

      Getting cerebral, so-called falling in love (preoccupied with the other's memory, image, touch and interactions) followed by other's warm interest, welcoming and receptive social interaction.

      It is sufficient to begin the pattern of highs in which you express love and care, all the poetry verbally or in text / writing to woo and charm her and make her emotional and erotic.

      Followed by the lows: preoccupation, longing, craving, addiction, growing concerned, suspicious, depressed, apprehending rejection and emotionally disordered, etc.

      Addicted to see and talk to the other regularly.

      Longing for the other's call, message, seeking, etc.

      Worried and depressed in the gap between such calls, messages and seekings of the other.

      Worried and concerned when the other does not take the call, return messages, reciprocate, etc.

      Upset when the other ignores, shows no or less importance, prefers someone else, rejects, denies, deprives, etc. Love addiction or codependency. It shatters yourself-esteem and yourself-image which may emotional trauma which takes a long time and gap to heal.

      Later same addiction to sex with the other on regular basis.

      Romance addicts are in love with romance, i.e. euphoria, intimate rendezvous, passionate sex, erotic fantasies, etc. They do not obsess over one person except for short intervals. To romance addicts the objects of their affection are interchangeable. Anyone they are attracted to is who they want to be with - the more partners the better. Romance addicts are high on the chemistry of love, wherever they find it, and they move on as soon as the romance wanes.

      Keep a lid on any budding romantic feelings. You may feel them, but don't give them a lot of power by fantasizing too much. Unmet intimacy needs are at the core.

      Woman’s concern

      Money based, permanent relationship.

      Committed relationship, not having anyone else to share with (sex or money)

      Marriage, social recognition / approval / acceptance, etc.

      Concern for transfers / relocations; and you are not a permanent resident (threat of temporary nature of the relationship)

      New insights / practice

      Money-for-sex.

      It has no before and after effects. It gives peace of mind. It has closed accounts. It would not tax your purse, mental peace and emotional drain. It is readily understood with no ambiguity.

      Coming to the issue of women, objectively speaking, there would not be label over the face of the woman to identify that she is seeking it. Identification is possible only from the subtle cues that must be meticulously observed with incessant practice. Interactions with women also give the cues, signals of possibility.

      When one hurriedly passes off the women around, there cannot be reception, observation of her signals, what she wants and what she communicates. Finding an young neighbor hurriedly passing away, without watching or receiving what you are communicating with her brings to mind that one was also similar at some point of time. Not bothered about anyone, just hurriedly walking, insensitive to the environs and to the immediate moment.

      Slowing down makes it possible, to observe and process all the inputs that are around your immediate moment and in your environs.

      It is possible to not know about the intention of a woman who is around. It is possible to ignore or not acknowledge even if she throws clues. The problem is just like food and water are local so also are women. Women must be locally identified and cultivated. Suitable targets must be spotted, befriended and cultivated. Scanning women is possible only through eyes trained and practiced enough. One must remain open to enter into the women's world. Able to understand her cues and signals. Be in touch with her subjective world. More specially to her eyes and to her body language.

      Identifying a woman who is after sex will make things easier. But somehow you are not yet skillful in this art or craft. Everywhere women are found. Women exist and abound locally. But you had so far not made a single score.

      Talking to women is the only means. It is the gate to enter into the world of women.

      Women found locally, near your house, having routine and regular access to your house. None suspects, since she is a regular visitor, in the presence of others in the family and neighbors. No extra expenses on travel, resorts, food and shopping, etc. are involved. Everything goes smoothly if no problem arises.

      Women engaged secretly, elsewhere, in some resort at far off place, where nobody knew her and yourself. This, to ensure unhampered reputation of both. It is rendezvous arranged with mutual consent. Expenditure matters on communication, travel, and other logistics.

      Paid sex. Expenditure is incurred on arrangement and payments for the services.

      Whatever the means and mode, the dynamics are of ensuring physical proximity with the women. Seduction manuals talk about much advanced stage taking regular proximity of the two for granted.

      You are too skilled to seduce, if a woman must remain in your proximity with regularity. Infrastructure for regular and long interactions preexisting, how you interact is the material for manuals on seduction. However, one must create this basic infrastructure from the passerby context or from the crowded strangers context.

      Your context from the beginning of youth is passerby, strangers on a road or shop, mostly, never to be seen again. From this dry context, one has to open her, in the presence of observing crowd of strangers, most of them minding others' business. Earlier one worked in such context, believing you are playing the role model for them.

      Understanding the language or the world of the women, especially her signaling is very important. For example, you already noticed the signs earlier. But then you did not open her. Other day's signaling was confirmed today. This observation shall function as a landmark to identify the particular signals from the women. The woman looked twice and lowered her large eyes. The other day also the woman showed certain signs. However, you had not opened her. While PUA devised functional openers, time tested, which do not require the signals from the woman. The art was so fine-tuned and mastered, not depending upon any signal the game can be played. It is so unfortunate that you fails to open even a woman who signals well. Woman is in favor of conversing. But she is resistant and shows objection to clandestine photo shoots.

      Unfortunately, you are not opening new women whether you are alone or when with the other. Wingman, social proof, etc. caused dependence on the other. Since the woman gave approval for conversing, you must practice more, and regularly.

      You does not bother about the people around except those you finds interesting or attractive. With some observation and experience, now you are

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