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Getting Out of Bed in the Morning: Reflections of Comfort in Heartache
Getting Out of Bed in the Morning: Reflections of Comfort in Heartache
Getting Out of Bed in the Morning: Reflections of Comfort in Heartache
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Getting Out of Bed in the Morning: Reflections of Comfort in Heartache

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Getting Out of Bed in the Morning motivates readers who are facing grief and loss to get out of bed and face a life which, although diminished by unfathomable sadness, still holds purpose and beauty.Written in devotional format, Getting Out of Bed in the Morning is a companion for those going through sorrow associated with loss—whether brought to the journey through the death of a loved one, failing health, job loss, broken relationships, or weakened family ties. Losses are real and raw; they often make people want to give up, quit trying. Yet, as readers discover how their circumstances can be used to lift hands to God, and in time reach others, they will see how God can use them to be people ofencouragement and find beauty once again in a life worth living.These forty devotionals address the painful hardships realistically, as well as the doubt, worry, and fear that come with them. The pages are packed with tips on how readers should take care of themselves and draw near to God so that healing is possible. Each devotional includes reflection, prayer, and suggestions for those who want to integrate walks into their daily routine.
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Release dateDec 11, 2012
ISBN9780891127550
Getting Out of Bed in the Morning: Reflections of Comfort in Heartache
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Alice Wisler

In 1997, Alice J. Wisler's four-year-old son, Daniel, died after eight months of vigorous cancer treatments. In his memory, Alice founded Daniel's House Publications, a grief organization, to help other parents cope with death. Through this organization, she created Writing the Heartache Workshops geared to help others discover the benefits of writing from losses. She travels the country speaking and teaching at grief conferences and seminars. She lives in Durham, North Carolina, with her husband and children.

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  • Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
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    A death often makes you feel alone. GETTING OUT OF BED IN THE MORNING, Reflections of Comfort in Heartache, lets you know that others have been where you are and know your grief.Alice J. Wisler’s four-year-old son died of cancer, an unbearable sorrow for any parent. Finding the strength to keep going was not easy and she doesn’t want you to think that it is. But, she wants you to understand that there is hope, that you do possess the inner resources to wake each day and live your life, not only for the memory of the one you’ve lost, but for the friends and loved ones still surrounding you.One of the central themes comes early on: “Sorrow happens. How will we handle it? Will we ask God to come alongside and walk with us through it? Or will we continue to blame ourselves until we can barely hold our head up?” This is important. No matter what we’re facing in life, good or bad, much depends on how we react to unexpected situations. We cannot control what happens to us, but we can learn to control how we respond. Reading the book with this in mind makes it a book for everyone, not just those who are mourning. It speaks to those who have suffered a loss of any kind, such as loss of a job, health, or relationship.There are 40 sections (roughly 2 to 3 pages each) with a set structure: short Bible passage, story/wisdom from the author, reflections to ponder, a prayer, and something to do or think about “when you walk.” This makes it easy to read at least one section a day and think deeply about it.Structure is a good thing, especially for a book with a theme like this, but, for me, there were a few glitches. First, each section seemed “separate.” I didn’t notice a particular flow that moved me from point A (deep in sorrow) to point B (pulling myself up) to point C (I can get through this.) There were many, many good thoughts; I just found myself wishing there were more of a steady stream connecting the sections.Also, more than half the Bible verses were from Psalms. It would have been nice if either Wisler stuck to Psalms exclusively or gave us a wider variety altogether. It was a bit jarring to be in “Pslam-mode” most of the time and then jump somewhere else, like the New Testament. “When You Walk” is a nice idea and I absolutely applaud physical activity as a way to work through grief. But what about those who cannot get out and take a walk for whatever reason, including disability? Some alternative suggestions would have been helpful.Finally, I almost missed “Tips for Writing the Heartache” since it came after the “Resources” at the end. Writing is therapeutic and, I believe, incredibly powerful. Perhaps those ideas could have been woven throughout the book.Those minor weaknesses aside, Alice Wisler offers much wisdom and common sense in GETTING OUT OF BED IN THE MORNING. It makes a wonderful gift of support for yourself or for someone else who is struggling. I recommend it.
  • Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
    4/5
    I am enjoying this book – more than I expected to. The author, Alice J. Wisler, lost her young son to cancer, so at first I thought I wouldn’t be able to relate to her tragic loss. But loss comes in many ways – loss of a job, relationships, home, comfort, health, and so on. I can relate and have appreciated what she’s put together for us.The author has written this in a devotional format, so each chapter is short and easy to read. There’s a scripture, a prayer (since there are many times we just don’t have the words or energy to pray) and things to think about. She also includes a short piece in each chapter she calls “When You Walk.” She encourages us to not only get out of bed, but to go for a walk. Walking is good for us for so many reasons. At first she asks us just to concentrate on putting one foot in front of the other, and each chapter gently nudges us to start healing and growing.
  • Rating: 5 out of 5 stars
    5/5
    I received a copy of this book in exchange for an unbiased review.This book is beautifully written, hitting all the points of working through grief in a way that is not overly sentimental but focused on the God who daily bears our burdens. I love her reflections and prayer walking ideas. I would definitely recommend this for any one who needs to gain perspective when the journey of life seems hopeless. This woman has been through the Valley and has come through it with a depth of relationship with God that is mature and beautiful. She will mentor many through this book.
  • Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
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    having survived grief of a child, I found Alice's book very concise in her understanding and advice. She does know the heart of the griever and the feelings toward a god that didn't stop the death of her loved one. I did not like that her mother said in chapter 1 that she was born to suffer. What a horrible pronouncement to stick on someone. I believe we will all suffer but it does not have to doom us to a life of it. Alice, herself, has shown that it can come and it can go. That is the good news of this book.

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