Blame Me Not
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Personal Accountability - Blame Me Not is all about
accountability; personal accountability as well as
professional accountability. Blame is a worthless
concept but the lack of accountability in today’s
world is evidenced by the lack of accountability
in the workplace as well as people not taking
responsibilities for their actions! Blame Me Not
is a book that gets you to think. It is short and
low cost but don’t let the size or cost fool you.
It is designed to be read in one sitting and then
allows you to sit back and give it a good “think”.
As accountability dies, blame rears its ugly head
and causes the blamer anxiety and stress. You need
to read this book! In it lie the answers to many
people’s problems. It contains personal accountability
training and personal accountability exercises. It
defines what is personal accountability. It also
defines what is accountability in general. Fix the
problem and not the blame!
Dr. Leland Benton
Dr. Leland Benton is Director of Applied Web Info, a holding company for ePubWealth.com, a leading ePublisher company based in Utah. With over 21,000 resellers in over 22-countries, ePubWealth.com is a leader in ePublishing, book promotion, and ebook marketing. As the creator and author of "The ePubWealth Program," Leland teaches up-and-coming authors the ins-and-outs of today's ePublishing world. He has assisted hundreds of authors make it big in the ePublishing world. Leland also created a series of external book promotion programs and teaches authors how to promote their books using external marketing sources. Leland is also the Managing Director of Applied Mind Sciences, the company's mind research unit and Chief Forensics Investigator for the company's ForensicsNation unit. He is active in privacy rights through the company's PrivacyNations unit and is an expert in survival planning and disaster relief through the company's SurvivalNations unit. Leland resides in Southern Utah.
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Blame Me Not - Dr. Leland Benton
Introduction
Thus speaketh Christ our Lord to us:
You call Me Master and obey Me not, you call Me Light and see Me not, you call Me The Way and walk Me not, you call Me Life and live Me not, you call Me wise and follow Me not, you call Me fair and love me not, you call Me rich and ask Me not, you call me Eternal and seek Me not. If I condemn thee, Blame Me Not."
Words on an engraving from the Cathedral of Lubeck, Germany
Blame!
Where does it come from and why does it devastate the human psyche?
This is a very short book with a very small price but don’t let the size of the book or the price fool you.
It is what I call a think
book. You read it in one sitting and then you sit back and give it a good think
.
Wars have been started, relationships severed, and untold stress has been the result of blame.
In the book, Chasing Shadows
, it describes the difference between subjective physical and objective spiritual.
In objective truth, blame cannot occur because objective truth never changes and hence, the results of objective truth never changes too.
In other words, you get what you pay for and objective truth leaves no room for blame.
On the other hand, subjective truth is whatever you want it to be and when it turns out not to be what you wanted then blame occurs to justify its usage.
Blame is the opposite of accountability.
In today’s world, accountability is dying.
We live in a world filled with victims – victims of their upbringing, themselves, the government, the economy, LIFE.
But even as accountability dies amongst men; the condemnation by God for those that turn away will never die for God is absolute objective truth and will never die.
The story that follows is heart renting and surreal; at the end I will define the accountability of all the characters.
It is a simple story that is meant to get you to think.
Yes, you too are accountable and you too practice the blame game
.
I wrote this short book in order to get you to understand yourself.
That you stand accountable before God and yourself for what you are and what you have become.
Although your nature may be to blame; objective truth only offers choices and never any excuses.
Many people are running from themselves…running away from their accountability.
You can run but you cannot hide and as the tagline of this book teaches – fix the problem and not the blame.
Fix you! And fix you before it is too late and the opportunity fades with age.
Fix your relationships, fix your finances, and fix your life! How?
By giving you get; by dying to yourself, you live. By denying yourself and living for others, you find yourself and begin the fix. In other words, it is all about love and not about YOU!
Chapter 1 – The Walls
My graduation from Lutheran seminary was a blessed dream come true. I had dreams of saving the world; a twenty-first century apostle ordained to preach to the masses.
But alas, God, in His infinite wisdom, had other plans for me, G. William Heinz III.
My first assignment was chaplain, West State Prison, also known as The Walls
.
On a cold and rainy day in December, I looked up with despair at the gray walls of shame and reported for my first day of evangelism.
My office was in the prison chapel located in a distant section of the main complex.
The brick structure looked foreboding; the paint was cracked and peeling. The insides had a musty smell.
Dear God,
I said softly to myself. What are you doing to me now?
My flock was not an eager bunch thirsting after the Word of God. I soon learned that chapel call was easier than working on a chain gang.
I was never without a flock, but as I stared into their eyes, I saw no Truth.
I looked out from my pulpit on the first day and beheld all types, all creeds, and all races. There were no smiles, no kind words, only angry blank eyes staring back at me.
I cleared my throat to speak but a big man in the back row spoke first, Hey preacher man, how old are you?
With my hands in my pocket, I kicked at the carpet and replied, I’m 25-years old.
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