Manage Your Life Before Life Manages You: More Joy and Less Stress in 365 Days
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Manage Your Life Before Life Manages You represents the culmination of Alicia Rodriguez's years of experience as a writer, entrepreneur, and executive coach working with individuals to manage the complexities of their lives. With equal parts wisdom, humor, and tough love, Rodriguez offers 365 days' worth of bite-size inspiration, practical tips, and reflective inquiries that help us reorient our thinking and behavior toward more joy and less stress. By supporting even the smallest steps we make in this pursuit, Manage Your Life Before Life Manages You shows us how to restore vitality to our professional lives, relationships, and self-confidence, one day at a time.
Alicia Rodriguez
Alicia M. Rodriguez Writer | Storyteller | Catalyst. Alicia M. Rodriguez is a Latina writer and published author who has lived in six countries and traveled extensively. She is gifted with the sensitivity to explore culture, spirituality, storytelling, and magic themes attributed to her Colombian roots and love of Latin American literature. Her two previous books, Everyday Epiphanies and Manage Your Life Before Life Manages You, are as inspirational as they are practical, helping readers lead lives in alignment with what matters most. She has written for numerous online publications, including Thrive Global, Tiny Buddha, and Medium. In addition, as an executive coach, she has more than twenty years of experience assisting thousands of people around the globe to connect to their hearts, spirit, and intelligence, enabling them to forge powerful futures. Her belief that we are spiritual beings having a human experience led her from corporate boardrooms to the rainforests, mountains, and coast of Ecuador, where she spent eight years with an Ecuadorian shaman. She now lives in the Algarve of Portugal, where her long morning cliff walks with her dog Sophie contribute to her creativity and happiness.
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Manage Your Life Before Life Manages You - Alicia Rodriguez
Manage Your Life Before Life Manages You
Copyright © 2015 by Alicia M. Rodriguez.
All rights reserved.
This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher, except for the use of brief quotations in a book review.
Published in 2015
Smashwords edition
Printed in the United States of America
Print: ISBN 978-0-9797958-2-4
E-Book: ISBN 978-0-9797958-1-7
Book design by Stacey Aaronson
Sophia Press
Annapolis, MD
www.aliciamrodriguez.com
This book is dedicated to my readers, those of you who
know that joy and harmony can go hand in hand with a
successful and fulfilling life. This book is meant to
inspire you, and to teach you to inspire yourself.
INTRODUCTION
What would it be like to choose each day, instead of waking up each morning to habitual patterns that rob you of your vitality, your joy, and, ultimately, your life force? How would your life be different if each day you created the container for a high-quality existence?
For years I have coached thousands of individuals in all walks of life, from CEOs and nonprofit executives to young professionals, artists, and entrepreneurs. Not one has ever said, I wish my life were more stressful.
As life gets faster and more complex, people are striving to find more peace and harmony amid its demands. Yet still they find themselves losing touch with what really matters, until some catalyst appears to wake them from their trance.
Each day is an opportunity to make a slight change in your thinking, your actions, and your feelings. When you make changes one day at a time, you will soon find that your entire life begins to shift. I often say to my clients who want to make transitions in their life, Just do one thing differently today. Just one thing.
And with that, they find that changes occur effortlessly.
Maybe it’s a change in the way you wake up each morning. Maybe it’s taking a five-minute breathing break between meetings. Maybe it’s driving in silence, instead of making phone calls. These are just small, easy-to-make adjustments that cumulatively have a positive effect on the quality of your life.
There are no big action plans, accountability sessions, or to-do lists in this book. Over the next 365 days, you will be inspired to make the changes you need to successfully manage your life. Supported by reflective questions and simple exercises, you will begin to feel refreshed and renewed, will begin to live in alignment with what matters most to you, and will experience more joy and ease. That vitality will show up in your work, in your relationships, and in your increased self-confidence.
Begin now to manage your life before life manages you. It will require a daily intention and a commitment to doing things differently. Take time each day to reflect on the questions I ask you. Write down your thoughts and inquiries, make doodles, and scribble to your heart’s content on any and all of these pages. Use a journal if you’d like. Engage! Start actively participating in your life! And have fun while you create more harmony and joy.
After 365 days, be sure to celebrate. And start over again. Life is movement, dynamic and ever changing. Be present in the flow of your life from this day forward. It’s your life. Now own it.
Warmest wishes,
Alicia
— DAY 1 —
CHECK IN WITH YOURSELF
Today, ask yourself, Who am I?
Are you really happy right now in your life, or are you uncomfortable? Do you sense that something needs to change, without knowing what it is? Today you’ll check in with yourself for the purpose of connecting with a deep appreciation for your life. Coming up over the next ten days: ten elements to consider as you shift from stress to joy.
— DAY 2 —
ELEMENT #1: CREATE STILLNESS
Consciously create still (mental, emotional, physical, spiritual) space in your life. You could meditate, go for quiet walks in nature, begin a yoga practice, or do anything else that quiets your mind and body. I often like to cook or kayak to create stillness. Stillness does not necessarily mean not moving; it could be anything that creates inner peace and openness for you.
— DAY 3 —
ELEMENT #2: GET BACK TO THE EARTH
If you like to garden, get your hands in the dirt, watch your vegetables grow, and bring nourishment to your table. If you like animals, go play with them, watch them, and listen to them. If you love being in nature, spend a day at the beach or take time to walk through woods or go on a gentle hike in the mountains.
— DAY 4 —
ELEMENT #3: VALUE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
Surround yourself with loving people who value you for who you are, just the way you are: individuals who tell the truth and manifest personal integrity; friends who energize you and challenge you to be the very best you.
— DAY 5 —
ELEMENT #4: BE TRUE TO YOUR BEST SELF
Don’t ever make the mistake of allowing others to tell you who you are supposed to be. You are who you choose to be and say you are, and no one can tell you differently. On this page or in your journal, make two columns. In column one, write: Up Until Now.
In column two, write: From This Point On.
Complete each column, based on the following example: Up until now, I have been timid. From this point on, I will be courageous in my interactions with others.
Revisit this page when you notice that a new story needs to be written about how you present yourself to the world.
— DAY 6 —
ELEMENT #5: DEVELOP A SPIRITUAL PRACTICE
Explore your own spirituality, be it in the form of a structured religion, a contemplative practice of stillness, or a prayer before your personal altar. Create daily rituals that allow you to connect to your heart and soul. Connect with the divine, in whatever way you conceive it to exist.
— DAY 7 —
ELEMENT #6: PRACTICE SELF-CARE
Today, honor and nourish your body, heart, and mind. When you feel healthy and well rested, you are better able to remain centered, even in the face of resistance and challenges. You may be inclined to run or swim, or perhaps, like I do, you find kayaking more in line with your desire to nourish yourself physically. Good nutrition feeds the body and promotes well-being, as does a night of delicious sleep. As you begin to reconnect with your essential being, you will begin to notice what works for you. Listen to your intuition and your body for clues to your personal wellness.
— DAY 8 —
ELEMENT #7: IMAGINE THAT YOU HAD ONLY 48 HOURS TO LIVE
What would you do? Whom would you be with? Where would you be? The answers to these questions will point to those values you hold dearest. Write these answers on this page or in a journal, and begin to change your activities and adjust toward these answers. Record how you feel when you move into alignment with your answers to reinforce the changes you are making.
— DAY 9 —
ELEMENT #8: ASK YOURSELF, WHO AM I?
This is a koan (a riddle that cannot be unraveled with the mind) that the Zen masters ask their pupils —and ask, and ask, and ask. Use the koan. Ask yourself this question at least fifty times (really!). Write down the answers, and listen to them; this is an opportunity to learn what is true for you. Explore your answers to see which ones resonate the most with you. Write down your thoughts on how you can align more with these responses.
— DAY 10 —
ELEMENT #9: GET A NEW PERSPECTIVE
Today, you’ll do an exercise that will help you see yourself as others see you. Very rarely do we witness our greatness—or our limitations—in the same way others do. We may be blind to the effect we have on others when we are not at our best. Ask people whom you trust for five adjectives that describe you. Do not elaborate on the request. Allow them to give you the gift of reflection. Look for how often the same word comes up. What surprises you? What would you like to embrace about this feedback? What would you like to change about the way you are perceived? Write down your answers.
— DAY 11 —
ELEMENT #10: DEFINE SUCCESS
You may be defining success according to society’s measures, when you may not actually believe those measures are right for you at this point. Complete this sentence to begin to understand what success means to you: I know I am successful when I feel/think/do …
— DAY 12 —
APPLY THE TEN ELEMENTS
Apply the Ten Elements to your work or business as well as to your personal life. Has your business environment been changing since the time you started your business or were hired for your current position? How does your personal evolution impact the changes that may be occurring in your