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Jonathan Aitken's conversion occurred at a time when he was experiencing the pressures of political life, a public trial, pleading guilty to perjury, being divorced by his wife, going to prison, and returning to "normal" life. Amid all the pressure of those years, he was discipled in such a way that he learned the discipline of daily prayer and kept extensive prayer journals. It is from these that he mined the material for this book.
Essentially following the ACTS approach to prayer-Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication-Aitken also adds an element of contemplation: Our Relationship with God. His acronym, then, is ACTORS, and his collection of prayers and reflections is accordingly divided into five parts, all preceded by a narrative of his introduction to a life of prayer. "Since direct communication with God in prayer is surely the truest path for a spiritual journey," writes Aitken, "my prayer is that this small book may help others along that path."
Jonathan Aitken
The Revd Jonathan Aitken was a Conservative politician, and a member of Margaret Thatcher’s cabinet. After spending time in prison for perjury, he obtained a theology degree and is now a writer and speaker. He was ordained in 2018 and is now a prison chaplain. He is the co-author of Doing Time.
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Prayers for People under Pressure - Jonathan Aitken
Also by Jonathan Aitken:
John Newton:
From Disgrace to Amazing Grace
Prayers for People under Pressure
Copyright © 2008 by Jonathan Aitken
Published by Crossway Books
a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers
1300 Crescent Street
Wheaton, Illinois
Published in association with the literary agencies of Veerman & Associates and Wolgemuth & Associates, Inc.
North American edition only
First published in Great Britain by Continuum, 2005.
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopy, recording or otherwise, without the prior permission of the publisher, except as provided by USA copyright law.
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First printing, U.S. edition, 2008
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible: English Standard Version.® Copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission.All rights reserved.
Scripture references marked NKJV are from The Holy Bible: New King James Version. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. Used by permission.
Printed in the United States of America
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Aitken, Jonathan, 1942–
Prayers for people under pressure / Jonathan Aitken.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 978-1-4335-0131-9 (tpb)
1. Prayers. 2. Prayer—Christianity. 3. Stress (Psychology)—Religious aspects—Christianity—Meditations. I. Title.
BV245.A27 2008
242'.8—dc22 2007034580
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15 14 13 12 11 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
To
ELIZABETH
my nearest, dearest, and closest
prayer partner
Contents
PART I: JOURNEY INTO PRAYER
Journey into Prayer
PART II: PRAYERS OF ADORATION
King David’s Prayer of Adoration
Psalm 95
Short Prayers of Adoration
A Prayer in Adoration of the Creator of the Universe
Two Hymns of Adoration
Prayers for Starting the Day
Set Our Hearts on Fire
PART III: PRAYERS OF CONFESSION
A Prayer for God’s Help as We Examine Our Consciences
A General Confession at Morning Prayer
A Prayer for Humility in Confession
King David’s Prayer of Penitence
A Confession of Envy
Forgive Our Foolish Ways
An Armenian Prayer for God’s Mercy
The Denial and Repentance of Peter
A General Confession Before Taking Communion
Forgive Us for Spoiling Life at Home
No Excuses
Two Prayers for the Avoidance of Sin by Soren Kierkegaard
A Prayer for Our Pain to Become Our Healing
The Paradox of Repentance
Two Prayers for Forgiveness by John Donne
The Jesus Prayer
The Prayer of Commitment
PART IV: PRAYERS OF THANKSGIVING
A Call to Give Thanks
St. Paul’s Prayer of Thanksgiving for God’s Grace
Two Prayers for a Grateful Heart
In Thanksgiving for Answered Prayer
General Thanksgiving
PART V: PRAYERS FOR OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
Two Prayers of St. Clement
A Prayer for the Cleansing of Our Hearts
A Prayer for the Royalty of Inward Happiness
A Prayer of Human Uncertainty and Godly Trust
A Prayer to Grow in Faith
Martin Luther’s Prayer on Emptiness and Weakness of Faith
A Prayer to Stay Connected with God
A Prayer for Self-control
Shut Out Everything Except God
To Care Only for God’s Approval
A Prayer for Perseverance
Augustine’s Prayer for Purity of Heart
Three Crucial Questions
A Prayer for God’s Mercy, Peace, and Grace
PART VI: HOW NOT TO PRAY
How Not to Pray
PART VII: SUPPLICATION
A Prayer for a Sense of Humor
A Seventeenth-century Nun’s Prayer
A Prayer for Listening
The Prayer of Jabez
A Prayer to Avoid Bad Temper
Two Prayers about Fear
Two Prayers Before Taking Exams
A Prayer about Fear of Flying
A Prayer for Those Going Through Divorce
A Prayer for Dealing with Enemies
A Parent’s Prayer for a Teenager Suffering from an Eating Disorder
A Prayer for Sleep
A Prayer for Life and Work
Prayers for Work
A Prayer for the Sighing of the Prisoner
Charles Colson’s Prayer for Those in Prison
A Prayer for Prisoners of Conscience
A Prayer for All Prisoners
A Prayer for Victims of Crime
Help Me to Pray . . . Restore Me to Liberty
A Prayer for Parliament
A Prayer for the United States Senate
In Times of Pain
A Prayer for Those Who Wake or Watch or Weep Tonight
Finding God When Close to Death
When the Fever of Life Is Over
A Prayer in Times of Sudden Bereavement
Five Prayers for Those Who Mourn
John Donne’s Vision of Heaven
PART I
Journey into Prayer
Journey into Prayer
I know you’re having a terrible time. Can I come in and pray with you?" said the man standing on my doorstep. It was the summer of 1997, and I was under tremendous pressure from media stakeouts and scrutiny. So I hesitated, fearing that this might be yet another ingenious ploy by a reporter to get inside the house. After some suspicious peering at the entry-phone screen I recognized the man on the doorstep. He was a distant acquaintance, Mervyn Thomas. I remembered that he had recently written me a sympathetic letter about the disastrous collapse of my libel action against The Guardian. I did not have many sympathizers in those dark days. So on impulse I let him in.
In the conversation that followed Mervyn Thomas made it clear that what he had really meant on the doorstep was that he wanted to pray out loud with me. Belonging as I then did to the reticent wing of Anglicanism, I would rather have gone to the dentist without an anesthetic. However, the combination of my terrible times and my guest’s sympathy weakened my resistance. So Mervyn did pray aloud, and I halfheartedly joined in on the Amen.
It was my first experience of one-on-one extempore oral prayer.
Would you like me to come again?
asked Mervyn Thomas.
Well . . . er . . . yes . . . no . . . I don’t think this kind of thing is really my scene. . . . I mean, I wouldn’t like to do it too often,
I muttered.
But I think you do need regular prayer support,
was the gentle response.
Regular prayer support. It was the second time the phrase had crossed my horizon in just a few days. Its first appearance came in a letter from a political acquaintance offering to convene a group of friends from Parliamentary and public life
who would meet once a week to give me regular prayer support.
The writer of this letter was Michael Alison. Good, solid, dependable old Michael. Eton, Cambridge, the Brigade of Guards, Tory MP, Junior Health Minister, Willie Whitelaw’s No. 2 as Minister of State for Northern Ireland, Margaret Thatcher’s Parliamentary Private Secretary, Privy Councillor, Church Commissioner, and a much respected senior legislator. I was on friendly terms with him, but not close. A few months earlier I had asked him if a press story saying that he had refused a knighthood was true. Well, yes, I didn’t really feel worthy of it,
was his reply, which I thought bordered on the eccentric considering how many far less worthy Parliamentary colleagues collect their Ks
with the rations.
I knew Michael was a practicing Christian because he was a regular attender at the Communion service for MPs held monthly in St Margaret’s, Westminster, followed afterward by breakfast in Speaker’s House. However, there were no clues from his self-effacing conversation at these events to suggest that Michael could be into praying out loud
or any other deviations from traditional religion, such as forming groups to provide fallen sinners with regular prayer support.
It sounded a step too far from the Church of England that I knew. So I stayed cool and reticent about the idea.
In their different ways, Mervyn Thomas and Michael Alison stayed warm and persistent. They had an unexpected American ally in Charles Colson, with whom I was exchanging deeply personal letters that summer. Notorious for being Richard Nixon’s hatchet man
who had served a jail sentence for Watergate-related offenses, Colson had been a valuable source of new material for my 1993 biography of the thirty-seventh President of the United States. In my historical interviews with Colson about the goings-on in the Nixon White House, he had barely mentioned his post-Watergate conversion to a life of Christian faith and ministry. Even so, we struck up a good rapport, and he reviewed my book generously in the American press. However, we were no longer in touch with each other until, by chance, Colson was staying in a London hotel on June 21, 1997, the day when I became front-page news as public enemy number one after being caught telling a lie on oath in the Guardian libel case.
Colson immediately wrote me a letter urging me to take the Christian path of repentance. Filled with remorse for my wrongdoing, I was receptive to his suggestion. However, I had no real understanding of the concept of repentance. I did not know the deeper meaning of the Greek word for it, metanoia, which translates as a change of heart and mind.
I thought repentance consisted of saying sorry, preferably as quietly and as privately as possible, and then getting back to business as usual.
As my correspondence with Colson developed, he seemed to be suggesting a far less convenient approach to repentance. He recommended that I should get a group of praying friends
around me to whom I should become accountable.
He mentioned his own experiences—described in full in his 1976 autobiography, Born Again—of belonging to a group that consisted of a Senator, two Congressmen, and a Washington, D.C pastor. This quartet breakfasted together once a week, shared everything as brothers,
and had fellowship
—whatever that was. This formula of born-again-ers sharing coffee, croissants, sins, and Bible reading had no appeal for me. My religion was private and was going to stay that way.
For some weeks there was a tug-of-war in my spiritual life between privacy and fellowship. It was resolved not by evangelical Protestants but by Roman Catholics. Long before I was in any kind of trouble I had developed a friendship with Father Gerard Hughes, SJ, the author of God of Surprises. We had met when my political star was in the ascendant and the skies of my ambition seemed cloudless. At that time I was so keen on worldly success that I was not particularly receptive to what he called spiritual direction.
However, there must have been the seeds of a latent spiritual hunger buried somewhere deep within me. For against my natural instincts and in defiance of the pressures of a Cabinet Minister’s schedule, Father Hughes somehow persuaded me to participate in the first ever Parliamentary Retreat during Lent 1994, a commitment that meant setting aside several hours a week for the various activities this involved.
During the retreat we talked a lot about prayer, which Father Hughes defined as daring to make the inner journey.
Later he added that there are times in the journey when one needs companions and there are times when one needs to pray alone. On that basis there was no need for any tug-of-war between what my self-defense mechanism called private religion
and what Colson, Alison, and Thomas variously called fellowship,
prayer partnership,
or prayer support group
religion. Even so I was still equivocal about getting involved with such novel (for me) activities, until one night I was reading a lecture on prayer by Evelyn Underhill who quoted some advice from a sixteenth-century Catholic mystic, St. Teresa of Avila. The advice was, when you start to pray, get yourself some company.
This sentence hit me like a killer punch, knocking out my already fading resistance to Michael Alison’s proposal of a prayer support group
to help me through my troubles.
The group that duly convened for breakfast, Bible reading, and prayer every Thursday morning consisted of what appeared to be a gathering of reserved, cautious, and determinedly nonintrusive Englishmen. In alphabetical order we were: Jonathan Aitken, Michael Alison, Tom Benyon (all ex-MPs); Alastair Burt, a sitting MP; Anthony Cordle, the son of a former MP; Michael Hastings, a senior BBC executive; James Pringle, a retired businessman; and, later on, Mervyn Thomas. How Michael Alison got this lot together remains something of a mystery. I myself knew none of them well and three of them not at all. The only common denominator was that they were all willing to turn up once a week to pray