Love, Sex & Spirituality
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HOW WELL MATCHED ARE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER?
Here’s a guide to hotter sex!
Albert Murphy teaches how to radically improve your sex life
He desires love
How to get over a break up
Natural foods that will help improve your sex life.
How to support your spouse’s goals.
How to manage finances.
How to establish a strong spiritual foundation.
And much more...
Albert Murphy
Albert Murphy is from Chicago, Illinois. He comes from a big family. Albert lost his father when he was 15-years-old. After his father passed away, he can remember looking through his things...his belongings. He wanted to know who he was and what he believed. The only thing that he found was an old wallet.In 2007, Albert’s daughter S’amone was born. He wrote this book for her. Albert says that if he passes away before he can teach her his life lessons about relationships, she will have this book to guide her.Albert also wants to make a conscious contribution to his family, his community and to humanity.
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Love, Sex & Spirituality - Albert Murphy
THE COMMON SENSE APPROACH TO
A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
LOVE, SEX AND SPIRITUALITY
Written by
Albert John Murphy
Self-Published at Smashwords with help from
Midnight Express Books
The Common Sense Approach to A Healthy Relationship
LOVE, SEX AND SPIRITUALITY
Copyright©2015 Albert John Murphy
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
First and foremost, I want to thank yah – the Creator and the Crown Brothers and Sisters in Israel, and to the saints.
My daughter, Rokyah, has been my inspiration; I love you baby.
My mother, Paula; bless your name. You are my backbone.
My nephew, Boom Boom. I love you; I’m doing this for us!
My brother, Bobby, and my sister, Sharlane, thank you. I know that y’all watching over me from heaven. Y’all my angels.
And to my brother John, I love you man.
My Grandmother, Earnestine, thank you for giving me wisdom, love, and support through the years.
And to my cuz, sister Victoria, thank you. You believed in my dreams when no one else did. I love you.
Marshelia, thank you for encouraging me when I was feeling sorry for myself.
I want to thank my good friend John Ebert for putting up with my craziness.
I want to thank Purple Monky
for drawing me a cool cover.
Thank you Linda and Victor Huddleston at Midnight Express Books for being patient with me and for creating one of the coolest publishing companies in the world!
Those that I didn’t mention, you know who you are. Thank you for your love and support.
R.I.P. Ben Ammi my spiritual leader; I love you.
Albert Murphy
INTRODUCTION
The common sense approach is a healthy and effective way to handle relationship, family, friends and business affairs. The Common Sense Philosophy
provides the reader with an arsenal of information. It provides a high moral, high value plan to achieve a healthy relationship. It has information to help improve your sex life and much more. I pray and hope that you enjoy the book.
Yours Truly,
Albert Murphy
PREFACE
How well matched are you and your partner? Here’s a guide to hotter sex.
This is an article taken from the September 2008 Men’s Health magazine. Mismatched socks are tolerable. Mismatched sex is not. Avoid these five common sexual disconnects—and find the right fit with any woman.
HER AROUSAL is at a slow burn, but you’re raring to go. Sure, women are typically slower than men at becoming sexually amped. But it actually takes much less time than even woman realize,
says Scott Haltzman, M.D., author of The Secrets of Happily Married Men. Rig the system: If you reinforce the idea that she’s aroused it may happen more quickly. Tell her you see that her nipples are hard and you feel she’s wet. Her brain will signal her body to feel that desire, Haltzman says.
You like dirty talk, but she’s timid. Just because she’s keeping quiet, don’t assume she’s opposed to sex talk. A woman may not like to talk dirty because it takes her away from her body and sensations,
says Joy Davidson, Ph.D., a New York based sex therapist and the author of Fearless Sex. But she might really like it if you talk dirty to her. Feed her lines while you’re teasing her. Ask her what she wants you to do next. During sex, ask her what she likes best about how it feels. In the future, she’ll have those phrases on hand,
Davidson says.
You always make the first move. Women may subconsciously feel they need permission to take the lead,
says Patti Britton, Ph.D. author of The Art of Sex Coaching. Casually say I wonder what it’d be like if you took the lead tonight. That would really turn me on. Also, realize that any of her casual comments about sex or anything about either your body or hers, are often subtle requests,
Haltzman says.
Your number is higher than hers. A big gap in backroom know how can make her worry about her performance or about being just another brick in the well,
says Haltzman. In that case. Don’t rush in with your whole utility belt of sexual experience and toys,
he says. Face-to-face positions, cowboy (a.k.a. cowgirl), missionary sitting together on a chair, are best, because they offer her a sense of intimacy and connection. And forget about the Big O at first. Focusing on orgasm only stresses her.
The two of you don’t measure up. If there’s a significant height difference between the two of you, furniture can be your best friend. If she’s taller, try lying on an ottoman or a small bench and have her straddle you. That way she can still have her feet on the ground,
Haltzman says, giving her leverage and flexibility.
Or, if you’re taller, try holding her up and pinning her against the wall,
says Brian Zamboni, Ph.D., a sex therapist and clinical psychologist at the University of Minnesota.
CHAPTER 1 What to Look For in a Mate
Women, in general are a few steps ahead of most men. If you are confused, and don’t know what to look for in a spouse, I will discuss a few things to look for in a spouse. A woman has five (5) basic needs.
Provider—A man who can provide for his family and his women represent strength, and stability. We now live in the days of the independent woman. And most women are the providers. There is not too many women who delight in a guy who is broke. I personally think it’s very important for a man to be financially stable. Seventy percent of relationships and marriages end—or are badly damaged from money problems. Money is not everything, and if two human beings love one another, it’s important to have a dream, and support each other’s dreams, and encourage and help achieve one another’s goals.
Communication—Men communicate different from women. For instance, a man comes home from work. He goes to the refrigerator. He grabs a nice cool beer and takes a seat. He has had a long hard day. He had an altercation with his boss, and he does not know if he lost his job. He goes in a shell
or a cave. Meaning, he is not talking much. He keeps quiet and stays to himself. His wife asked him, Honey, what’s wrong? How was your day at work?
And he says, It was cool.
Women communicate differently. If a woman has a bad day at work, or at school, she will come home and tell her spouse everything that happened. When a woman purges her conscious of her troubles, her body releases hormones to relieve the stress. We must be honest, open and