A.D.D. 28 Years and Counting My Life With Attention Deficit Disorder
By Ava Fails
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Where are all the personal A.D.D. stories?
That is what I wondered as I searched for books about A.D.D. and A.D.H.D. There was no lack of expert advice, but so few titles with a direct connection. This book begged to be written.
Inside you'll learn that...For 28 years and counting, I have been a student of A.D.D. I have lived with it intimately and learned to cope with it effectively. I was diagnosed at age 10, and have run the gamut from medication to no medication. I have developed many personal coping skills, and I don't think an expert could pick me out of a crowd.
Inside I tell you my story with a sincere hope that it will help you. I hope you find something you can relate to and something that you can use to encourage others. I have included the information that I have found encouraging in my own journey.
I have received comments from all over the world in regard to my story and my list of Famous People with A.D.D. I've heard from people who have shared the list with their children with positive results. I've received comments from people who have thanked me for changing the way they view themselves and A.D.D.
In addition to my list, inside you'll find:
Quotes
Tables of data
Simplified information and stats
Links to great resources
A book list of recommended reading
This is a personal story of my life with A.D.D. I wrote it for you.
Ava Fails
Ava Fails is an aspiring writer with more than a decade of experience writing non-fiction. Her work is fueled by her wide array of interests from art to all things do-it-yourself and bacon. A sheltered Southern daughter with an intense desire to share stories with others, Ava both delights and provokes. She hones her pen in Winston-Salem, NC, the Camel City. If she could inspire you with only one word, it would be LOVE.
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A.D.D. 28 Years and Counting My Life With Attention Deficit Disorder - Ava Fails
Ava Catherine Marcella Fails
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This book is not intended as a substitute for the medical advice of physicians. The reader should regularly consult a physician in matters relating to his/her health and particularly with respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.
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Dedication
This book is dedicated first to God. Without Him, this writing would not be possible.
I dedicate who I am and the memories of this journey to my wonderful parents. They never gave up on me. They fought for me. My dad also kept a file of my school records including all of my report cards from Elementary school. Without them, many of the details would have been based on memory and not documented fact.
I dedicate this book also to my nephew, Joshua, who is on his own journey. I dedicate it to his parents who travel with him steadfastly.
I dedicate this to all the people who have loved me and gone the extra mile to understand me...to those who have never left my side.
This book is dedicated to the doctors and teachers who worked beside my parents and I for so many years...even that one teacher in the fourth grade who nearly broke me. I learned so much from you all.
Finally, I dedicate this book to all of YOU. Whether you have A.D.D. or someone close to you is struggling to learn how to use this gift, this is for you. It is my sincerest desire that it helps you, encourages you, and inspires you. Thank you for reading.
Introduction
Hello, my name is Ava. I was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder in 1985 at the age of ten. With 28 years and counting of experience day in and day out under my belt, I would like to share with you my unique story and perspective on Attention Deficit Disorder.
I don't have any letters behind my name. I haven't spent years researching and experimenting to learn more about A.D.D. I am qualified only by my personal relationship with this disorder
, and how it has impacted my life both positively and negatively.
This story goes in depth about my history from childhood to the present. Much of the back story may be too much if you do have A.D.D. If you want to skip the history and go straight to the details of how I learned to deal with Attention Deficit Disorder, and why I consider it a gift, skip to Chapter 9.
I tell this story for you, the A.D.D. individual. I tell it for you, the parent or relative of an A.D.D. child. It's a story of positivity, encouragement and inspiration. I tell it because if it helps one person, then I have helped us all.
Chapter 1: Before A.D.D.
Chapter 2: 4th Grade – The Year From Hell
Chapter 3: The Diagnosis
Chapter 4: Ritalin
Chapter 5: 7th Grade Throws Everyone a Curve Ball
Chapter 6: Home School
Chapter 7: The College Years
Chapter 8: Vegas, Baby!
Chapter 9: A Sweet, Sweet Homecoming
Chapter 10: Presently
Chapter 11: My Many Coping Mechanisms
Chapter 12: Never a Crutch
Chapter 13: Dispelling the Myth
Chapter 14: The Gift
Chapter 15: Just the Facts, Man
Chapter 16: My Thoughts on A.D.D. Books
Chapter 17: The Interview
Chapter 18: Get Inspired
Chapter 19: Quotes to Encourage and Inspire
Epilogue
Appendix 1: A.D.D. As An Adaptive Trait
Appendix 2: DSM-IV – A Simple Explanation
Appendix 3: Links Galore
Appendix 4: Book List
Bibliography
Chapter 1: Before A.D.D.
I started school in 1980 at age five. I remember my first day. Really, I just remember crying on the Teacher Aide's lap as my mom walked