Sexual Battles: Experience Lasting Victory Over Sexual Sin
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Statistics today show that sexual problems such as porn addiction, fornication, and adultery are more prevalent than they have ever been before. The devastating effects of sexual addictions and sin are obvious throughout the world. Is there a key to freedom?
In "Sexual Battles: Experiencing Lasting Victory over Sexual Sin", author Seun Okikiola reveals his own past with these debilitating issues, and provides practical solutions to sexual addictions, as well as a guide to a life of purity in Christ. In this book, he exposes the root cause of sexual sin and addictions, and he provides practical and scripture based steps that will enable anyone to enforce and preserve his or her victory over any form of sexual sin and addiction.
Seun Okikiola
Seun Okikiola lives with a singular purpose of bringing men and women into an experience and understanding of the righteousness of God, via the message of salvation, faith, and holiness. A graduate of Covenant University, he holds a First Class Honors in Economics, and an MBA from the prestigious Lagos Business School. Seun is a graduate of the Redeemed Christian Bible College, and he worships and serves in the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG).
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Sexual Battles - Seun Okikiola
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Well written I must say!…The book is full of substance…It is very educative and equipping…..I feel every church should have a number of them so God's people can be helped because there are many who are struggling with sexual immorality. Your book is anointed…Thank you for taking the time to research, write and for obeying the Holy Spirit so God's people can receive the help they need.
- Mduduzi, Swaziland.
This is a timely and helpful resource in the least spoken area of sexual purity.... The book’s easy-to-read style makes it useful to people at all levels while the Bible passages cited makes the arguments of the book very compelling and Biblically relevant.
– Jacob, Kenya.
I just completed reading it. It is a solid scripture based tool to all who are seeking answers to help themselves or a loved one within the grip of sexual sin…Fabulous book.
– Esther, South Africa.
I agree with what you have to say about becoming free, living free and staying free….Its (the book’s) message is very strong (although very true). I believe this book would be a good tool in the hands of pastors and counselors everywhere! God Bless!
– Gabby, United States of America.
This is the best sermon series I have heard recently. I really felt like I was personally being spoken to…The best sermon is the one that draws the listener into the plot, and I was, from start to finish.
– Mageba, Swaziland.
I have been reading your book and I must say that I have been blessed by it… I've never read a book like this before. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being a blessing to others. I pray that God will continue to use you mightily, according to His will for your life.
– Janice, United States of America.
"Hi Seun. I have read the book and have been blessed….I would certainly recommend this to anyone that struggles with sexual sin or any battle with sin and the mind. I was really blessed by the prayer points and action steps. They made me stop and pray, which is always a good thing to do after reading a chapter. It no longer was just information but it now became personal between me and God. The information in itself didn’t heal but my prayer to God for help did. I would certainly recommend your book to anyone."
– Catherine, Ireland.
I don't remember from which web-site I just downloaded your eBook (Sexual Battles). I finished it in two days…It really appeals to my life... Sir, I just want to appreciate you and want to let you know that this book is really from God for His people to reveal His love to them. I will say that Christian pastors and youths in Pakistan are also secretly facing these problems, and because of our strict culture parents, teachers or leaders do not allow us to have such talk with them. And this is one of the most secure sins here. I am emailing you to appreciate your hard work and dedication toward the Christian community.
– Waheed, Pakistan.
Thanks for a good book that brings out the need for the Word of God and the Holy Ghost in our life when faced with sexual temptations and sin. It has given me a renewed look at my own life. I really find this enlightening. Thanks!
– Gary, Singapore.
You are God sent my friend. It will take a while to read it, but judging by the contents you 'sold' it to the right person...Thank you very much.
– Luke, Australia.
I must admit I have been going in circles, repenting and falling and wondering when I would defeat sexual sin. You offer invaluable insights. Your book is timely, powerful and urgent. It is 'a must read' for every Christian hoping to see the Lord, many like me have been plagued by sexual sin. You rightly celebrate the Holy Spirit's centrality in training us in Holiness…
– Samuel, United Kingdom.
I would recommend this book to every church, pastor, counselor and the people who are struggling with addictions themselves. The book is practical and real situations are used which people who are in the battle can relate to. Looking at the statistics, this is obviously not an uncommon battle - not even in the church…
– Marius, South Africa.
Sexual Battles: Experiencing Lasting Victory over Sexual Sin
Copyright © 2014 by Seun Okikiola
ISBN: 978-0-9890248-0-8
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All rights reserved under international copyright law. No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the author and publisher.
Scripture quotations are NIV unless otherwise marked. Scripture quotations marked NIV are from the Holy Bible, New International Version. Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984, International Bible Society.
Edited By: Bonita Jewel
Dedication
As my senior partner, teacher, instructor, guide, friend, and comforter, the Holy Spirit always adds a unique flavor to life, and makes my journey through life unique, exciting, and full of hope. Therefore, I dedicate this book to the Holy Spirit, as an awesome and effective tool for the transformation of destinies, homes, and relationships with God.
Spread the Word!
[From the Author’s Desk]
Dear Reader,
Thank you for downloading a copy of this book. I strongly believe that you will have a great experience as you go through each page of this God given message.
As you read through this book, I am sure you will come across some life changing statements. Not only can they transform your life, they can transform the life of people around you, especially your friends.
Therefore, to make it easy to share some of these statements with your friends, I have iterated some key points (all through this book) with links that will allow you easily share these key points with your friends and loved ones on twitter and facebook.
When you click the twitter link, the statement is automatically filled in your timeline, and all you need to do is click the tweet button. On the other hand, to share on facebook, you will have to copy the key point, click the facebook button, and paste the message on your timeline.
By doing this, your friends can benefit from the great depth of truth in each key point you share, and the can also easily access this book and experience the great blessings you will be experiencing through this book.
This is very easy and it is fun! But most of all, you never can tell how many lives you will transform by this act of sharing.
God bless you as you share!
Yours in Christ,
Seun Okikiola.
Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter One: Understanding the Human Nature
Chapter Two: The Devices of the Enemy
Chapter Three: Calamities of Sexual Sin
Chapter Four: You can be Free
Chapter Five: The Custodian of Power
Chapter Six: Transformed from Within
Chapter Seven: The Weapons of our Warfare
Chapter Eight: Staying Clean
Chapter Nine: The Beauty of Holiness
Chapter Ten: Remain in Christ
Final Words
About Author
INTRODUCTION
Born and raised the only child of an alcoholic father and a mother who was once a hooker, Lisa had grown up in an environment that was full of perversion and lust.
She had seen it all. She felt that her home life was, at times, as though she was watching a live pornographic drama.
At the age of ten, Lisa had seen her alcoholic father come home with other women at times that her mother was not home. She had seen her father, Tom, break his marriage vows of faithfulness and defile his matrimonial bed with woman after woman.
Lisa’s mother, Jane – who still struggled to break free from her immoral and lustful past – did all she could to ensure that Lisa did not follow the path she had taken into prostitution and sexual addiction. Despite being married, Jane could not help but fall for the temptation of having extramarital affairs with affluent men.
By the age of fifteen, Lisa had already been exposed to many forms of sexual experimentation, which quickly grew into full- blown sexual affairs. Blessed with astonishing beauty, Lisa was the girl every guy wanted. Although Lisa knew she was on the wrong path, she could not help succumbing to the wooing of guys who wanted her just for sex. She was in an endless cycle of hoping that the next guy she would meet would be someone who loved her for who she was. She knew there had to be a guy out there who wasn’t just after her body, but loved and accepted her completely.
Shortly after her eighteenth birthday, Lisa’s accumulation of guilt and regret had become too much for her. Not knowing where to turn, she finally accepted the offer of a friend who had been trying to get her to come along to a youth fellowship. That evening, Lisa knew that she had been touched by the power of Jesus. She fell to her knees and gave her life to Jesus Christ, accepting him as her Savior and Lord.
That night was a turning point for Lisa. Suddenly, she felt that a new life had been given to her, and she was excited at the prospect. A youth leader had shared with Lisa the promise from the Bible stating, Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new
(2 Cor. 5:17).
Full of vibrancy and passion for Jesus, Lisa decided that she needed to leave her old life and begin anew. Unfortunately, her past had not left her. She was soon to discover that it was not going to be an easy road to complete recovery and renewal. Sometimes, she was struck with an urge to indulge in the pleasures of her past.
She also still lived with her parents, which meant that she was often exposed to the immoral issues that pervaded her home.
Finally, the daily struggles she had to face became too much. Lisa decided to talk to Dan, who went to the church Lisa had begun attending. Dan was a young man who exuded vibrancy and passion for the things of God. Dan was married and had two sons.
Lisa had come to trust Dan as a confidant and counselor. He had an astute knowledge of the Bible and although he wasn’t a pastor, many young people looked up to him as a good brother in the Lord.
Lisa met Dan a couple of times and poured out her heart to him, hoping to get some help and godly counsel. During her third meeting with Dan, however, Lisa was shocked when he began to make obvious attempts at starting a sexual affair with her. Confused and filled with disappointment, Lisa wondered where to turn for help.
Unknown to Lisa, Dan had been secretly struggling with a pornography addiction. His struggle with pornography addiction had made it difficult for him to control his own desires when face to face with a young and beautiful woman like Lisa.
What should Lisa do? What about Dan? And is there any hope for Lisa’s parents?
Friend, the story of Lisa demonstrates three categories of people for whom this book has been written.
The first category of people is represented by Tom and Jane, Lisa’s parents. This category of folks has been caught up in the lustful ways of the world for so long that they don’t really know any other way to live. For years, they’ve allowed adultery, fornication, homosexuality, and all sorts of sexually immoral habits such as porn addiction to become a lasting part of their personal lives.
Many who fall into this category have been ravaged through the effects of lust and don’t know where to find help and deliverance from their addiction. They have no understanding of the work of the Cross or the saving power of Jesus.
The second category of people this book is written for is represented by Lisa. These are folks who have once been in the world, yet at some point in their life, they gave their hearts to Jesus. Somehow, they find themselves still struggling with a past they