Getting Through the Hurt
By Silas Henderson, Francis Wagner, Keith McClellan and
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Getting Through the Hurt - Silas Henderson
Chapter I
When You Are Feeling Overwhelmed by Life’s Trials
By Fr. Keith McClellan
I was a six-year-old and in the first grade. I sat at the small, lift-top desk with its pencil groove and outmoded inkwell hole, trying to complete the addition and subtraction problems in my arithmetic workbook. Gradually, an intense sadness came over me. Then tears filled my eyes, falling once or twice on the page below. Despite my effort to hold them in, one or two of my classmates noticed me and went immediately to get the teacher.
Sister Alypia came immediately. She asked me what the matter was. I couldn’t really say. She leaned down close to me so that her nun’s veil seemed a warm, protective tent around me. She whispered, You’re doing good work. It’s OK.
That reassurance was all I needed.
In retrospect, the tears might have been caused by guilt because I had been skipping problems that were too difficult. Perhaps the tears expressed homesickness or a passing melancholy.
Adults do not always appreciate the weight of burdens that affect children. For us, troubles and trials have only a capital T.
The root of the word overwhelm
means to turn upside down, to capsize, to submerge. Anyone, at any age, at any time may feel overwhelmed. The size or seriousness of the trouble is not always the trigger for the crushing emotional effect. Each person has a different threshold for becoming overwhelmed.
Let nothing trouble you, let nothing scare you;
All is fleeting; God alone is unchanging.
Patience, everything attains.
Who possesses God, nothing wants.
God alone suffices.
—St. Teresa of Avila
Trials are a fact of life from the moment we leave our mother’s womb and enter the unknown of the world outside. From then on, while we begin to encounter the beauty of creation and the marvels of living, we soon learn that the path ahead is not straight and unimpeded. We face obstacles, competing interests, physical limitations, environmental conditions, inconstant relationships, and the fickleness of human affairs. All these and more spell trials.
I hope to offer a bit of wisdom and spiritual insight for coping with the overwhelming feelings that can accompany life’s trials. A meaningful life cannot be trouble-free. As the Lord Jesus experienced and taught, In the world you face persecution. But take courage; I have conquered the world!
(John 16:33).
Working your way through
By tradition, a tiny sacristy to the side of the Vatican’s Sistine Chapel is called the room of tears.
A newly elected