Why You Procrastinate
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Time Management – Why You Procrastinate is a book that deals with the scourge of procrastination. Most people label procrastinators as lazy and lacking in motivation. This may be true to some degree but you will be amazed at far off the mark you are using this definition. Some of the highlights of the book are procrastination’s real definition, what is procrastination, procrastination self help, procrastination why you do it, procrastination cure, procrastination elimination, I procrastinate. Do you put off task to do later? Do you feel sluggish and lacking in motivation? Do you find some tasks being out off to the last moment? If so, you need to read this book. Written by one of the nation’s leading behavioral scientists, Dr. Leland Benton is the author of over two dozen self-help books and nonfiction behavioral science texts. He is a best-selling Amazon author with over 200-books published on Amazon alone. You need to read this book. It is the eleventh book of Dr. Benton’s “Why” series of books. Subsequent books will be published when finished:
Dr. Leland Benton
Dr. Leland Benton is Director of Applied Web Info, a holding company for ePubWealth.com, a leading ePublisher company based in Utah. With over 21,000 resellers in over 22-countries, ePubWealth.com is a leader in ePublishing, book promotion, and ebook marketing. As the creator and author of "The ePubWealth Program," Leland teaches up-and-coming authors the ins-and-outs of today's ePublishing world. He has assisted hundreds of authors make it big in the ePublishing world. Leland also created a series of external book promotion programs and teaches authors how to promote their books using external marketing sources. Leland is also the Managing Director of Applied Mind Sciences, the company's mind research unit and Chief Forensics Investigator for the company's ForensicsNation unit. He is active in privacy rights through the company's PrivacyNations unit and is an expert in survival planning and disaster relief through the company's SurvivalNations unit. Leland resides in Southern Utah.
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- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5First 4 chapters of the book are interesting and they are easy reads. But the last chapter was on depression, it felt I like a textbook for a depression class. This is indeed an interesting read but if you have other books on the reading list, I would pass this book.
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Why You Procrastinate - Dr. Leland Benton
Introduction – I Put the Pro
in Procrastination
Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today!
Everybody on the planet has heard this adage and it is probably an adage that is most ignored.
This book is all about procrastination – why you do it and how to overcome it. It is a needed resource since just about everybody procrastinates.
The reasons are varied and go much deeper than the fact that there are a good many things people do not like to do or find distasteful. I will begin with demonstrating the mind science about this problem and then get into a serious discussion of why people do procrastinate and more…
The question of why
has been a part of the conscience of man since the dawn of time. It has caused us to seek answers, better solutions, invention, progress, increased knowledge and more.
But more often than not, most of our questions of why
now centers on personal behavioral traits and habits that perplex us and cause us consternation and regret.
Candidly, most people have no idea why they do the things they do so in this book – the thirteenth book in the Why
series of books – I am going to explain in detail why you don’t do what you should and why you put things off until the last minute.
The subsequent books in this series will deal with specific behavioral traits and target certain conditions that really are bothersome. To wit:
Why you Do The Things You Do
Why You Are Greedy
Why You Are Immoral
Why You Are In Debt Up To Your Eyeballs
Why You Are Lonely
Why You Are Unhappy
Why You Fail In Relationships
Why You Get Angry
Why You Gossip About Others
Why You Have Bad Habits
Why You Lie, Cheat & Deceive
Why You Overeat
Why You Procrastinate
Why You Smoke
In all of the books of this Why
series, Chapter 1 always begins with Laying a Proper Foundation
and deals with the mechanism of the human mind and how the mind functions both conscious mind and subconscious mind. This is a very important chapter so please study this chapter closely.
I will then teach you how to change the subconscious mind’s belief systems. In other words, the Introduction and Chapter 1 will appear in the entire Why
series of books as the foundation. From Chapter 2 on, I will then discuss each book’s specific topic in detail.
It is important to note that there is no such thing as personal
versus commercial
behavioral science. The human mind uses the same mechanism in both personal situations as well as commercial.
The way each individual/gender employs their respective psyches is what is different.
For example; we all have cars but we all have different driving habits and drive cars differently.
Hence, in a personal situation, i. e. relationships or a commercial situation, i.e. addicted to shopping, the human mind employs the same mechanism and the corrective protocols used to correct any of the situations described in the Why
series of books will be similar.
So let’s get to it…
Chapter 1 - Laying A Proper Foundation
In all of my Why
series of books, I will provide the following discourse on the Human Mind in order to lay a proper foundation to what I am about to teach.
The Mechanism of the Human Mind
Prior to the fall of man into sin as described in the Garden of Eden, man’s spirit was hooked to God’s infinite spirit. There was no death because God’s spirit is infinite. Man is the only animal on earth that shares the eternality nature of God. The subject of eternal life has been a heated topic of man from the beginning of our existence.
In Greek mythology, there’s a story about a mortal youth named Tithonus. Aurora, the goddess of dawn, fell in love with the boy and when Zeus, the king of the gods, promised to grant Aurora any gift she chose for her lover, she asked that Tithonus might live forever. But, in her haste she forgot to ask for eternal youth, so when Zeus granted her request, Tithonus was doomed to an eternity of perpetual aging as a grouchy old man… forever.
In the movie Highlander,
Angus McLeod was born in 1518 as an immortal being. He could not die and to me, the best part of the movie was the depiction of this immortal's agony here on earth as he watched everything he loved die forcing him to begin his life over and over again. He saw all of the ugliness, which man had caused over four centuries. He witnessed the Spanish Inquisition, Waterloo, the atrocities of the Third Reich, and more. He saw the slavery and bigotry of the eighteenth century, the slaughter of the Native American tribes after the Civil War. This man's life was a living Hell!
There is a very big difference between the ways our feeble minds picture eternal life versus God’s idea of eternal life. Our understanding comes from Quantum Physics and is limited within the Time-Space Continuum.
Life is your spirit, but the soul of man has usurped the spirit's position and psychology is now forced to define how
we live our lives based on the animating force of the soul instead of the spirit. As I said previously, the soul has usurped the spirit’s place as our animating force. Let's discuss this now.
Body First Person - When the body becomes our life, we live as animals.
Body-Mind In Sync - When the soul becomes our life, we live as rebels and fugitives in a life of desires, emotions, and will (consuming entities). This is the position of mankind today!
Mind First Person - But when we come to live our life in the mind/spirit and by the spirit, though we still use our soul’s faculties just as we do our physical faculties, they are now the servants of the spirit.
If you live as a consuming entity, you will always lose. In other words, to get, you must give - you must sacrifice! Have you ever wondered why you have so many anxieties, phobias, worries and fears? The reality of this world is evil. So what is reality? I will tell you. This is reality:
"Life without war is impossible either in nature or in grace. The basis of physical, mental, moral and spiritual life is antagonism. Health is the balance between physical life and external nature, and it is maintained only by sufficient vitality on the inside against things on the outside. Everything outside my physical life is designed to put me to death. Things, which keep me going when I am alive, disintegrate me when I am dead. If I have enough fighting power, I produce the balance of health.
The same is true of mental life. If I want to maintain a vigorous mental life, I have to fight, and in that way the mental balance called thought is produced. Morally it is the same. Everything that does not partake of the nature of virtue is the enemy of virtue in me, and it depends on what moral caliber I have whether I overcome and produce virtue (GOOD CHARACTER). Immediately I fight, I am moral in that particular. No man is virtuous because he cannot help it; virtue (character) is acquired.
Psychology only studies the observable aspects of the mind and discounts the unseen or intangible aspects of the human mind.
Behavioral science attempts to study the intangible aspects of the human mind…why you do the things you do and more importantly why you don’t do what you should do.
There is no such thing as commercial psychology versus personal psychology. The mind uses the same mechanism to evaluate all types of relationships.
Everything we do revolves around relationships. We relate to our environment, our friends, family, co-workers, other people and even our pets. We are social animals.
The Mechanism of the Human Mind
Belief Systems + Thought + Delight = Action/Behavior/Conduct
Conscious Mind
5-senses:
Sight
Hearing
Taste
Touch
Smell
ESP (women only)
Subconscious Mind
Intellect:
Experiential
Empirical
DEW:
Desires, Emotions and Will
The Human Psyche Differences Between Genders
The female psyche operates on emotional, spiritual, physical and intellectual planes
The male psyche operates only on the