Chicken Soup for the Soul: Stories to Open the Heart and Rekindle the Spirit
By Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen
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Jack Canfield
Jack Canfield, America's #1 Success Coach, is the cocreator of the Chicken Soup for the Soul® series, which includes forty New York Times bestsellers, and coauthor with Gay Hendricks of You've GOT to Read This Book! An internationally renowned corporate trainer, Jack has trained and certified over 4,100 people to teach the Success Principles in 115 countries. He is also a podcast host, keynote speaker, and popular radio and TV talk show guest. He lives in Santa Barbara, California.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Excellent!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I absolutely love the Chicken Soup for the Soul books. A wonderful collection of stories. Recommended to anyone with a heart.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I love the different stories inside this book. I have the paperback and I always re-read them back when I was in College. It always teared me up whenever I read these heartwarming stories.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5In keeping with the series this volume contains 101 short stories demonstrating compassion, generosity, kindness and belief. The stories are grouped under the seven headings of On Love, Learning to Love Yourself, On Parenting, On Learning, Live your Dream, Overcoming Obstacles and Eclectic Wisdom. The stories provide a mix of insight and inspiration and are able to make you feel humbled and empowered. Many of the stories create an emotional reaction and connect with our humanity. Many also provide solid guidance and support and ready access to experience that we can benefit from with relevance to our improvement efforts. By way of example if you find the temptation to use failure as an excuse to give up trying, the story of Abraham Lincoln may prove very instructive. Before becoming US president in 1860, he overcame a long list of failure and setback including bankruptcy, mental breakdown, failure to get in to Law School, repeated failure when running for the state legislature, the senate and congress and received only 100 votes when running for vice presidency .Most of the stories are not of the well known or famous but are guaranteed to be thought provoking. What I like is that you can carry the book with you and read it when you have little more than a spare minute. The stories are really good at giving a kick start to your emotions and your thinking, often in unexpected ways.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I personally think is a classic. Does really warm your soul and is heart warming, even if it sounds cliche. One of the most inspirational books I have read.
- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5collection of motivational and emotional stories
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This first one is probably the best one. The stories are touching and can be inspiring. But too much of a good thing can be cloying.
- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5I must be really pathetic. I don't like these books, yet so many people have given them to me. I swear I don't need them. Cute stories, but then what? I fail to be inspired...
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5This book helps us remember the important things in life - very inspirational.Back Cover Blurb:Two of America's best-loved inspirational speakers share the very best of their collected stories, favourite tales that have touched the hearts of people everywhere. Canfield and Hansen bring you wit and wisdom, hope and empowerment to buoy you up through life's dark moments. Their carefully selected stories provide models for what is possible and illuminate the path we all walk.Whenever you wish to make a point, inspire a friend, or teach a child, you'll find just the right story in this heartwarming treasury.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5I have read other Chicken Soup books prior to reading this one--and I found I liked those better than this one. I think this might have been the first or one of the first in the series. I didn't find as many personal accounts or stories in this volume as I have in other volumes. I liked the "Overcoming Obstacles" section of the book best.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book is one of the best books I've read. It has 101 stories of hope, love, and courage. It helps us think we can overcome anything and everything with determination and God's help. That all of us are useful here in the society, and that all of us can be someone else's hope and source of happiness. I love this book and hope that you guys can also find the love and courage that I found in this book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The first and by far the best of all the books.
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Chicken Soup for the Soul - Jack Canfield
What People Are Saying About
Chicken Soup for the Soul . . .
"After interviewing hundreds of rich and famous people, it is clear to me that money and fame don’t automatically make people happy. It has to come from within. I’d rather have a million smiles in my heart than a million dollars in my pocket. Chicken Soup for the Soul will help you put a million smiles in your heart."
Robin Leach
TV personality and author
Telling stories is one of the most powerful ways to teach values and open doors to new possibilities. In this rich and varied collection, everyone will find at least a few stories that strike a special resonance—stories one will treasure and want to share.
Nathaniel Branden
Author, The Power Of Self-Esteem
This is a warm, wonderful, uplifting and inspiring book full of ideas and insights that anyone can use to improve any part of his or her life. It should be read, reflected upon and reread over and over.
Brian Tracy
Author, The Psychology of Achievement
This book is wisdom and solace for the ages. It is as contemporary as a space walk and as timeless as a pyramid. The world needs storytellers to help us make sense out of the confusion and chaos of these complex times. Jack and Mark are consummate tellers and collectors of real-life stories. What a gift: to teachers, to speechmakers, to anyone on his or her own journey of growth and healing. It’s all here, and written with wit, compassion and integrity.
Sidney B. Simon
Professor Emeritus, University of Massachusetts,
and coauthor of Values Clarification, Forgiveness
and 14 other books
"I enjoyed every page. The stories are heart-rending and extremely motivational, the poetry is beautiful and the quotes are highly profound and meaningful. Jack and Mark have truly compiled a tremendous amount of wisdom. Its contents provide great insight into all dimensions of life.
This book would make a wonderful gift for others to share with their loved ones, and you can rest assured that I will be purchasing additional copies for my family and friends.
Richard Loughlin
President, Century 21 Real Estate Corp.
What a great book! Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen have written a book that has the same effect as my grandmother’s chicken soup did. . . . It’s warm and it’s soothing. I plan on using it whenever I need a little love.
Dawn Steel
Former President, Columbia Pictures
"Chicken Soup For The Soul is a powerful reminder that the main ingredient in life is Love. It should be required reading for all."
Wally Amos
Famous Amos Cookies
"What a wonderful gift you have given us with this collection of inspirational stories! And what a wonderful gift it will be for my friends! I’m convinced that Chicken Soup For The Soul should be on everyone’s bedside table to read for 30 minutes at the end of the day to retain one’s faith in human nature and the basic goodness in all people.
The stories you have selected warm one’s heart and balance the news that we hear through the media each day. Your book restores the soul and gives one a positive sense of what life is really all about. Great job! I’m sure it will be a tremendous success.
Bob Reasoner
President, International Council for Self-Esteem
Author, Building Self-Esteem
CHICKEN SOUP
FOR THE SOUL®
Stories to Open the Heart
and Rekindle the Spirit
Jack Canfield
Mark Victor Hansen
Backlist, LLC, a unit of
Chicken Soup for the Soul Publishing, LLC
Cos Cob, CT
www.chickensoup.com
If there is light in the soul,
There will be beauty in the person.
If there is beauty in the person,
There will be harmony in the house.
If there is harmony in the house,
There will be order in the nation.
If there is order in the nation,
There will be peace in the world.
Chinese Proverb
Contents
Introduction
1. ON LOVE
Love: The One Creative Force Eric Butterworth
All I Remember Bobbie Probstein
Heart Song Patty Hansen
True Love Barry and Joyce Vissell
The Hugging Judge Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen
It Can’t Happen Here? Jack Canfield
Who You Are Makes A Difference Helice Bridges
One At A Time Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen
The Gift Bennet Cerf
A Brother Like That Dan Clark
On Courage Dan Millman
Big Ed Joe Batten
Love And The Cabbie Art Buchwald
A Simple Gesture John W. Schlatter
The Smile Hanoch McCarty
Amy Graham Mark V. Hansen
A Story For Valentine’s Day Jo Ann Larsen
Carpe Diem! Alan Cohen
I Know You, You’re Just Like Me! Stan Dale
The Gentlest Need Fred T. Wilhelms
Bopsy Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen
Puppies For Sale Dan Clark
2. LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF
The Golden Buddha Jack Canfield
Start With Yourself Anonymous
Nothing But The Truth! Dallas Morning News
Covering All The Bases Source Unknown
My Declaration Of Self-Esteem Virginia Satir
The Bag Lady Bobbie Probstein
Response/Ability Bernard Gunther
The Rules For Being Human Chérie Carter-Scott
3. ON PARENTING
Children Learn What They Live Dorothy L. Nolte
Why I Chose My Father To Be My Dad Bettie B. Youngs
The Animal School George H. Reavis
Touched Victor Nelson
I Love You, Son Victor B. Miller
What You Are Is As Important As What You Do Patricia Fripp
The Perfect American Family Michael Murphy
Just Say It! Gene Bedley
4. ON LEARNING
Bilding Me A Fewchr Frank Trujillo
I Like Myself Now Everett Shostrum
All The Good Things Helen P. Mrosla
You Are A Marvel Pablo Casals
We Learn By Doing John Holt
The Hand Source Unknown
The Little Boy Helen E. Buckley
I Am A Teacher John W. Schlatter
5. LIVE YOUR DREAM
I Think I Can! Michele Borba
Rest In Peace: The I Can’t
Funeral Chick Moorman
The 333 Story Bob Proctor
There Are No Vans Anthony Robbins
Ask, Ask, Ask Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen
Did The Earth Move For You? Hanoch McCarty
Tommy’s Bumper Sticker Mark V. Hansen
If You Don’t Ask, You Don’t Get—But If You Do, You Do Rick Gelinas
Rick Little’s Quest Adapted from Peggy Mann
The Magic Of Believing Edward J. McGrath Jr.
Glenna’s Goal Book Glenna Salsbury
Another Check Mark On The List John Goddard
Look Out, Baby, I’m Your Love Man! Jack Canfield
Willing To Pay The Price John McCormack
Everybody Has A Dream Virginia Satir
Follow Your Dream Jack Canfield
The Box Florence Littauer
Encouragement Nido Qubein
Walt Jones Bob Moawad
Are You Strong Enough To Handle Critics? Theodore Roosevelt
Risking Patty Hansen
Try Something Different Price Pritchett
Service With A Smile Karl Albrecht and Ron Zenke
6. OVERCOMING OBSTACLES
Obstacles Viktor E. Frankl
Consider This Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen
John Corcoran—The Man Who Couldn’t Read Gary Smith
Don’t Be Afraid To Fail Wall Street Journal
Abraham Lincoln Didn’t Quit Source Unknown
Lesson From A Son Danielle Kennedy
Failure? No! Just Temporary Setbacks Dottie Walters
For Me To Be More Creative, I Am Waiting For . . .
David B. Campbell
Everybody Can Do Something Jack Canfield
Yes, You Can Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen
Run, Patti, Run Mark V. Hansen
The Power Of Determination Burt Dubin
Faith Roy Campanella
She Saved 219 Lives Jack Canfield and Mark V. Hansen
Are You Going To Help Me? Mark V. Hansen
Just One More Time Hanoch McCarty
There Is Greatness All Around You—Use It Bob Richards
7. ECLECTIC WISDOM
You’ve Got Yourself A Deal Florence Littauer
Take A Moment To Really See Jeffrey Michael Thomas
If I Had My Life To Live Over Nadine Stair
Sachi Dan Millman
The Dolphin’s Gift Elizabeth Gawain
The Touch Of The Master’s Hand Myra B. Welch
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Contributors
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Introduction
We know everything we need to know to end the needless emotional suffering that many people currently experience. High self-esteem and personal effectiveness are available to anyone willing to take the time to pursue them.
It is difficult to translate the spirit of a live presentation into the written word. Stories we tell every day have had to be rewritten five times to work as well in print as they do live. When you are reading these stories, please forget everything you ever learned in your speed-reading classes. Slow down. Listen to the words in your heart as well as in your mind. Savor each story. Let it touch you. Ask yourself, what does it awaken in me? What does it suggest for my life? What feeling or action does it call forth from my inner being? Let yourself have a personal relationship with each story.
Some stories will speak louder to you than others. Some will have deeper meaning. Some will make you cry. Some will make you laugh. Some will give you a warm feeling all over. Some may hit you right between the eyes. There is no right reaction. There is only your reaction. Let it happen and let it be.
Don’t hurry through this book. Take your time. Enjoy it. Savor it. Engage it with your whole being. It represents thousands of hours of culling the best of the best
from our 40 years of combined experience.
One last thing: Reading a book like this is a little like sitting down to eat a meal of all desserts. It may be a little too rich. It is a meal with no vegetables, salad or bread. It is all essence with very little froth.
In our seminars and workshops we take more time to set up and discuss the implications of each story. There are more explanations and explorations of how to apply the lessons and principles to your everyday life. Don’t just read these stories. Take the time to digest them and make them your own.
If you find yourself moved to share a story with others, do it. When a story makes you think of another person, call the person it brings to mind and share it. Engage these stories and let them move you to do whatever comes up for you. They are meant to inspire and motivate you.
For a lot of these stories we went back to the original source and asked them to write it or tell it in their own words. Many of the stories will be in their voice, not ours. We have attributed every story we could to the original source. For all of those that are from fellow speakers and trainers, we have included a contributors section in the back of the book where we have listed their name, address and phone number so you can contact them yourself if you wish.
We hope you will enjoy reading this book as much as we have enjoyed writing it.
1
ON LOVE
The day will come when, after harnessing space, the winds, the tides and gravitation, we shall harness for God the energies of love. And on that day, for the second time in the history of the world, we shall have discovered fire.
Teilhard de Chardin
Love: The One Creative Force
Spread love everywhere you go: first of all in your own house. Give love to your children, to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbor. . . . Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness; kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm greeting.
Mother Teresa
A college professor had his sociology class go into the Baltimore slums to get case histories of 200 young boys. They were asked to write an evaluation of each boy’s future. In every case the students wrote, He hasn’t got a chance.
Twenty-five years later another sociology professor came across the earlier study. He had his students follow up on the project to see what had happened to these boys. With the exception of 20 boys who had moved away or died, the students learned that 176 of the remaining 180 had achieved more than ordinary success as lawyers, doctors and businessmen.
The professor was astounded and decided to pursue the matter further. Fortunately, all the men were in the area and he was able to ask each one, How do you account for your success?
In each case the reply came with feeling, There was a teacher.
The teacher was still alive, so he sought her out and asked the old but still alert lady what magic formula she had used to pull these boys out of the slums into successful achievement.
The teacher’s eyes sparkled and her lips broke into a gentle smile. It’s really very simple,
she said. I loved those boys.
Eric Butterworth
All I Remember
When my father spoke to me, he always began the conversation with Have I told you yet today how much I adore you?
The expression of love was reciprocated and, in his later years, as his life began to visibly ebb, we grew even closer . . . if that were possible.
At 82 he was ready to die, and I was ready to let him go so that his suffering would end. We laughed and cried and held hands and told each other of our love and agreed that it was time. I said, Dad, after you’ve gone I want a sign from you that you’re fine.
He laughed at the absurdity of that; Dad didn’t believe in reincarnation. I wasn’t positive I did either, but I had had many experiences that convinced me I could get some signal from the other side.
My father and I were so deeply connected I felt his heart attack in my chest at the moment he died. Later I mourned that the hospital, in their sterile wisdom, had not let me hold his hand as he had slipped away.
Day after day I prayed to hear from him, but nothing happened. Night after night I asked for a dream before I fell asleep. And yet four long months passed and I heard and felt nothing but grief at his loss. Mother had died five years before of Alzheimer’s, and, though I had grown daughters of my own, I felt like a lost child.
One day, while I was lying on a massage table in a dark quiet room waiting for my appointment, a wave of longing for my father swept over me. I began to wonder if I had been too demanding in asking for a sign from him. I noticed that my mind was in a hyper-acute state. I experienced an unfamiliar clarity in which I could have added long columns of figures in my head. I checked to make sure I was awake and not dreaming, and I saw that I was as far removed from a dreamy state as one could possibly be. Each thought I had was like a drop of water disturbing a still pond, and I marveled at the peacefulness of each passing moment. Then I thought, I’ve been trying to control the messages from the other side; I will stop that now.
Suddenly my mother’s face appeared—my mother, as she had been before Alzheimer’s disease had stripped her of her mind, her humanity and 50 pounds. Her magnificent silver hair crowned her sweet face. She was so real and so close I felt I could reach out and touch her. She looked as she had a dozen years ago, before the wasting away had begun. I even smelled the fragrance of Joy, her favorite perfume. She seemed to be waiting and did not speak. I wondered how it could happen that I was thinking of my father and my mother appeared, and I felt a little guilty that I had not asked for her as well.
I said, Oh, Mother, I’m so sorry that you had to suffer with that horrible disease.
She tipped her head slightly to one side, as though to acknowledge what I had said about her suffering. Then she smiled—a beautiful smile—and said very distinctly, But all I remember is love.
And she disappeared.
I began to shiver in a room suddenly gone cold, and I knew in my bones that the love we give and receive is all that matters and all that is remembered. Suffering disappears; love remains.
Her words are the most important I have ever heard, and that moment is forever engraved on my heart.
I have not yet seen or heard from my father, but I have no doubts that someday, when I least expect it, he will appear and say, Have I told you yet today that I love you?
Bobbie Probstein
Heart Song
Once upon a time there was a great man who married the woman of his dreams. With their love, they created a little girl. She was a bright and cheerful little girl and the great man loved her very much.
When she was very little, he would pick her up, hum a tune and dance with her around the room, and he would tell her, I love you, little girl.
When the little girl was growing up, the great man would hug her and tell her, I love you, little girl.
The little girl would pout and say, I’m not a little girl anymore.
Then the man would laugh and say, But to me, you’ll always be my little girl.
The little girl who-was-not-little-anymore left her home and went into the world. As she learned more about herself, she learned more about the man. She saw that he truly was great and strong, for now she recognized his strengths. One of his strengths was his