The Giver and the Gift: Principles of Kingdom Fundraising
By Peter Greer, David Weekley and Fred Smith
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For many people, fundraising has become a dirty word. Conjuring images of guilt-inducing gimmickry, the predominant model saps the joy from both the donor and the receiver. But what if fundraising has the potential to be good for the giver, not just the recipient? What if it's about love and service, not just "What's in it for me?"
These are the questions that Peter Greer, president and CEO of Hope International, and David Weekley, one of America's most influential philanthropists, answer in The Giver and the Gift. Based upon their own relationship and experiences, The Giver and the Gift outlines a Kingdom perspective on fundraising. Instead of guilt, there is gratitude. Instead of obligation, joy.
It's time to dismantle certain shaky beliefs and practices, energizing a new generation of generosity.
"How does fundraising become a Kingdom partnership, instead of just the transfer of funds? As a person who has spent years in the middle of these partnerships, I found the book fresh, clear, and extremely helpful." --Denny Rydberg, president of Young Life
Peter Greer
Peter Greer is president and CEO of HOPE International, a global, Christ-centered microfinance organization serving throughout Africa, Asia, Latin America and Eastern Europe. Internationally, Peter served as a microfinance adviser in Cambodia, technical adviser for Self-Help Development Foundation in Zimbabwe and managing director for Urwego in Rwanda. As an advocate for the church?s role in missions and alleviating extreme poverty, Peter has been a featured speaker at conferences such as Catalyst, Passion and Harvest International's Development Conference and Jubilee, and he has been featured in Christianity Today, World, Forbes, Relevant and Outcomes magazine, and on CNN. Peter is the author or coauthor of The Poor Will Be Glad, The Spiritual Danger of Doing Good, Mission Drift, Entrepreneurship for Human Flourishing, Stop Helping Us and Watching Seeds Grow. Peter and his wife, Laurel, live in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, with their three children.
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The Giver and the Gift - Peter Greer
© 2015 by Peter Greer and David Weekley
Published by Bethany House Publishers
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"The Giver and the Gift completely shifted every paradigm I had about fundraising."
—Justin Rule, founder, Heads Up
I recommend this book for its authenticity and practical application.
—Terry Looper, founder & CEO, Texon
I found the book fresh, clear, and extremely helpful.
—Denny Rydberg, president, Young Life
Peter and David’s relationship honors the idea that each giver should decide in his or her own heart what to give.
—Brad Formsma, creator, Ilikegiving.com; author, I Like Giving
David and Peter have addressed the donor-fundraiser relationship in an unusual and insightful way.
—Greg Brenneman, CEO, CCMP Capital; former chairman, Burger King and Continental Airlines
This book will help you rediscover the joy of generosity.
—David Wills, president, National Christian Foundation; coauthor, Investing in God’s Business and Family.Money.
Peter Greer and David Weekley lucidly demonstrate that fundraising and giving are primarily about partnership.
—Dennis Hollinger, president, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary; Coleman M. Mockler Distinguished Professor of Christian Ethics
Peter and David’s powerful stories and keen insight shine light on the partnership God intends between the gift and the giver.
—Lance Wood, partner, PricewaterhouseCoopers
This book is certain to inspire greater generosity.
—Jeff Rutt, founder and CEO, Keystone Custom Homes; founder, HOPE International
The truth in this book is enlightening, and I sincerely believe it needs to be read by all nonprofit leaders, development staff, and donors.
—Greg Murtha, chief relationship officer, iDonate
I believe that David and Peter’s book will inspire all of us to greater generosity.
—Nicky Gumbel, vicar, Holy Trinity Brompton; pioneer, The Alpha Course
Peter Greer and David Weekley challenge believers to incarnate Kingdom generosity by being engaged in transformational giving.
—Kim S. Phipps, president, Messiah College
This book walks us through God’s plan for each of us to participate in the furthering of His Kingdom through giving and serving generously.
—Dave Valle, founder, Esperanza International
Truth that will renew your mind and your heart.
—Anne Beiler, founder, Auntie Anne’s Soft Pretzels
Peter and David elevate and articulate deep spiritual truths and practical lessons for both the fundraiser and the funder.
—Michael J. Mantel, PhD, president and CEO, Living Water International
Thank you, Peter and David, for taking these gems and putting them to paper for all of us!
—Eric Scofield, chief development officer, Young Life
This book invites you to think more deeply about your philanthropy and reveals best practices leading to more impact in your giving.
—Chris Crane, CEO, Edify
This book will be a refreshing read for anyone who desires to give or receive funds that advance God’s Kingdom in the world.
—Gary A. Haugen, president and CEO, International Justice Mission; author, The Locust Effect
Sure would have been good to have had this book when I started in this field.
—Peb Jackson, connector and coauthor, Danger Calling: True Adventures of Risk and Faith
Dedicated to Terry Looper and Rusty Walter for their friendship and generosity.
A cord of three strands is not easily broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:12 HCSB
CONTENTS
Cover 1
Title Page 2
Copyright Page 3
Endorsements 4
Dedication 5
Foreword by Fred Smith 9
Introduction 11
Part I: The Gift 15
1. Christ-Centered, Not Me-Centered 25
2. Listen First, Speak Second 28
3. Generous, Not Greedy 32
4. Clarity, Not Ambiguity 35
5. Real, Not Rose-Colored 38
6. Patient, Not Overambitious 42
7. Confident, Not Arrogant 45
8. Long-Term, Not Short-Lived 48
9. Grateful, Not Entitled 51
10. Represents, Not Uses 54
Part II: The Giver 59
11. Stewardship, Not Ownership 65
12. Heads, Not Just Hearts 68
13. Mission Minded, Not Manipulative 72
14. Partnership, Not Dependency 75
15. Transformational Giving, Not Just Informed Philanthropy 78
16. Spirit-Led, Not Overly Structured 82
17. Anonymous or Named? 85
18. The Kids or the Kingdom? 88
19. For Forever or For Now? 91
20. Together, Not Alone 94
Conclusion 97
Acknowledgments 99
Appendix 1: David Weekley Family Foundation’s International Giving Summary 101
Notes 107
About the Authors 110
Books by Peter Greer 111
Back Ads 112
Back Cover 114
FOREWORD
Several years ago, I wrote a review for a book on fundraising that was never published. I took issue with one of the assumptions about relationships with donors. The author started from the premise that wealthy donors are rich in possessions but poor in spirit, and the role of the fundraiser is to minister to their hurts and needs. There was no mention of the opportunity to learn from the experience and competence of