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    So You Want To Be A Stripper? The Comprehensive Guide To Go From Girl-Next-Door To Pole Dancing Diva Second Edition: Exotic Dancers Union, #2
    So You Want To Be A Stripper? The Comprehensive Guide To Go From Girl-Next-Door To Pole Dancing Diva Second Edition: Exotic Dancers Union, #2
    So You Want To Be A Stripper? The Comprehensive Guide To Go From Girl-Next-Door To Pole Dancing Diva Second Edition: Exotic Dancers Union, #2
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    So You Want To Be A Stripper? The Comprehensive Guide To Go From Girl-Next-Door To Pole Dancing Diva Second Edition: Exotic Dancers Union, #2

    By LeFemme LaShay

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    This 2nd edition manual is meant to help women who are curious about the strip club scene. It's meant to help girls who are considering this route, telling them how to make the money, but also on how to get out of the club in 5 years or less. 
    The regular 9 to 5 woman with a significant other can learn a thing or two to keep him happy, or for her to feel sexy for herself. It can also help men get an understanding of what to research if they choose to start their own business.
    The added anecdotes and tips shall help further inform you on what to do, and what not to do.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherLeFemme LaShay
    Release dateJan 18, 2016
    ISBN9781523479627
    So You Want To Be A Stripper? The Comprehensive Guide To Go From Girl-Next-Door To Pole Dancing Diva Second Edition: Exotic Dancers Union, #2

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      So You Want To Be A Stripper? The Comprehensive Guide To Go From Girl-Next-Door To Pole Dancing Diva Second Edition - LeFemme LaShay

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      SO YOU WANT TO BE A STRIPPER?

      Comprehensive guide on going from girl-next-door to pole dancing diva

      2ND EDITION

      Written by LeFemme LaShay

      Co-written & Edited by Nicholas A. Brown

      To the exotic dancer game, for all the good times,

      bad experiences, and ugly turn of events,

      thank you for I’m still standing.

      Table of Contents

      Chapter 1: Introductions, Warnings & Reasons...1

      -  Fair Warning: Sins of the Life.................................................4

      Chapter 2: Nothing to it, but to do it......................7

      -  RULES, REGULATIONS & LEARNING THE ROPES.......................10

      -  Three Category of girls.......................................................14

      -  MARK THESE WORDS...................................................................21

      Chapter 3: Who you may meet................................23

      -  Owners, Management & Staff...........................................23

      -  DANCER PERSONALITY TYPES...............................................27

      -  DANGEROUS COMPANY ..........................................................31

      -  CUSTOMER PERSONALITY TYPES.........................................37

      -  WARNING................................................................................47

      Chapter 4: Dress, Move & Seduce......................57

      -  HAIR, FACE, AND BODY...................................................58 - 59

      -  When Aunt Flow Is Around............................................62

      -  Booty Magic.....................................................................68

      -  PROTECT YOUR HEART.....................................................73

      -  PROTECT YOURSELF........................................................74

      Chapter 5: money management.....................77

      -  STACK YOUR MONEY......................................................78

      -  ON NIGHTS LIKE THIS.......................................................82

      -  HEADING OUT-OF-TOWN..................................................85

      -  PROMOTERS.....................................................................85

      -  TAKE YOUR DRUNK ASS HOME......................................86

      -  Dancing in other Countries....................................87

      -  OTHER GIRLS..................................................................88

      -  WHERE THE PARTY AT?...............................................89

      -  BALLING ON A BUDGET................................................90

      -  Urge To Splurge.......................................................92

      Chapter 6: Mapping out and then Escaping...95

      -  NOTHING LIKE FAMILY................................................97

      -  BACKGROUND CHECK.................................................98

      -  SOME JUST-IN-CASE PAYBACK................................100

      -  CAREERS....................................................................101

      -  Business Entrepreneurs ....................................103

      -  LAST CALL AND FAREWELL....................................105

      -  THAT FLIMFLAM SCAMs BUSINESS........................112

      -  A TALE OF TWO STRIPPERS...................................116

      Chapter 1:

      Intros, Warnings

      & Reasons

      ––––––––

      Thank you for investing in my words. In my life, learning to be up front and raw about things is always the best policy. You can lie and front all you want, but after reading this if you still choose to dance for your money, then it’s on you. I’m giving advice I wished was given to me before stepping onto a stage. People do what they will, so don’t blame me for helping somebody’s little girl get in then out this game.

      I’ve been at this for years, mostly in Miami. I’ve danced at the high-end clubs, in the ghetto spots, and hole-in-the-walls where space was very limited. I’ve seen things, been around people I thought I’d never meet, and befriended those in society who are role models. This hustle has opened my eyes, showing how low some men will go while being wild and free, and how far certain women will stoop for an extra dollar. It’s because of what transpired with me, you will avoid unnecessary traps.

      To the normal women going to school, working those 8, 12, and even 16 hour shifts, much of what I divulge in this book you can use in everyday life. You will learn a few things about setting yourself apart from others when in a competitive job environment. And yes, please believe that I know some moves that’ll have your man appreciate what you do for him. 

      Remember, those who decided on their own freewill to shake what they got could’ve jumped into the daily grind, but chose this route. So after reading, don’t cry if you get caught up because you ignored what I suggested. I wrote this out of love and in the hopes that curious women find their way into something else. In time your cute little body ain’t going to last. Slimmer girls, with tighter bodies, and younger faces turn 18 every day, so how will you keep up after a while? There are exceptions to the rule but do you want to take that risk?

      Games are meant to be played, so knowing when to quit while you’re ahead is your best bet. In time, you’ll see what can make or break you but I want to see you at the winners circle—gaining a world of knowledge without losing your mind, body or soul. Why I started may differ from why you’re starting. With every major choice in a person’s life there are always reasons, so I’ll get into what I’ve come across in this portion of the manual

      Before age 18, some girls I encountered were either:

      Rebellious kids who did what they wanted

      Teenage runaways or teenage mothers

      Sexually abused and felt like their physical beauty is what made them pretty or special

      Met a pimp who put her under his guidance

      Came from negative and dysfunctional family environments with drug abuse or alcoholism

      Had weak father figures or no father figures at all.

      Other girls without the harsh backgrounds, when they were teens, probably thought being a sexy exotic dancer was glamorous and empowering. Some had an older cousin or friend they looked up to who danced, seeing how well they got paid and dressed; and in certain situations, the two family members or friends started working at the club together at the same time. 

      I’ve met girl who were intrigued through rap music videos as kids, or overheard uncles and older male cousins talking about the strip club. While some were sick of being broke, and didn’t want an entry level job, working for low pay. Others simply thought they had what it took to be a dancer then went for it once they turned 18, 19 or 20.

      Women between ages 21 - 28 who started dancing were either:

      Out on their own with bills piling up

      In college or a technical school and they couldn’t pay tuition

      Worked a normal job but something major occurred. Examples:  pregnancy, their man getting locked up, or an immediate family member took sick

      Like with the younger girls, a pimp guided them in

      Have a criminal record and found it hard getting a job

      A friend suggested they try it along with them

      A small few actually dreamed about being a dancer when they were younger.

      All in all, it boils down to money in the end. How each person spends their cash is their business. But what’s needed to survive shall always cloud our best judgments, especially when you don’t have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of.

      FAIR WARNING: Sins of the Life

      Fast money is don’t last money is a motto you better keep in mind. You’re heading into a game where much of the seven deadly sins can show up on a weekly basis. You will get to know the pride of diva dancers, and witness the avarice of the hustlers spending the big money. You will be approached by lust filled—sex craved customers. The envy from whorish and slothful dancers, sleeping around for small amounts of cash, will be heard in their snide remarks. Prepare for the rumors about the gluttonous club owners standing to make thousands of dollars off your labor. And beware the wrath of jealous lovers or rivals beefing over who knows what.     

      You’re going to meet people with shared interests and even view them as family, but thoroughly study those around you because in the beginning there are no friends. Everybody isn’t your enemy, but remain vigilant because people will try screwing you over emotionally, sexually and/or financially. A pretty girl is seen as meek by most people, so be smart about every step

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