120 Winning Principles Of Relational Challenges
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The Do’s and Don’ts of Relational Breakups
Discover the 120 principles the author used to get out of a
relational shipwreck. In this book, you will find the healing salve
that will relieve and tranquilise all kinds of pain, heartache, sorrow,
depression, despair, brokenness, humiliation, disgrace, shame,
anxiety, and insomnia a relationship has brought to you. The Do’s
and Don’ts of Relational Breakups will break the shackles off your
feet, remove the scales from your eyes, and you will see the way out
of that dead-end road
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120 Winning Principles Of Relational Challenges - Therese Alaba
Copyright © 2014 by Therese Alaba
120 Winning Principles of Relational Challenges
by Therese Alaba
Printed in the United States of America
ISBN 978-0-9930888-0-3
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Dedication
I dedicate this book to my friend,
Philomena Agblemiawo.
Thank you for your years of good friendship
and fellowship.
Thank you for your love and those
encouraging words.
You are indeed a friend and more than a sister.
I love you.
Foreword
By Rev. Kofi Ayeh
Ideem it a great honour to be asked to write the foreword to this all-important book on relational challenges by my special friend, Therese Alaba. Biblical scholars comments that four of the Ten Commandments deal with our relationship with God, whilst the other six deal with our relationships with other human beings. The obvious and crucial point is that all ten focus on relationships!
Therese is one of the most devoted, gifted, and God-fearing Christians I have ever met, and I’m truly inspired by the exceptional and revealing biblical knowledge with which she has documented her experiences and beliefs in this book.
This exciting book will certainly enlighten anyone, both Christians and non-Christians alike, on pragmatic yet powerful principles and time-tested biblical ways out of relational shipwrecks and heartaches, which we all know have neither academic, social, cultural cure, nor conventional medication.
In the book presently in your hands, the author incredibly charts 120 nearly exhaustive, assuring, fulfilling, and therapeutic courses that serve up a tasty literal meal of hope, vitality, sanctity, and permanent emotional as well as spiritual healing for anyone who has or may be going through relational challenges.
I do appreciate that there are several good books on relationships on the market today, but my simple advice is found in the words of A. W. Tozer, Listen to no man who has not listened to God,
especially on a life-changing subject such as relationships.
It is my prayer that as you read through the pages of this book, you will experience true, lasting, and total recovery from any relational roadblocks, wounds, and scars you might have suffered; and more importantly, an eternal relationship with Jesus Christ, the Master Physician and the Saviour of the world too.
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life (John 3:16).
Rev. Kofi Ayeh
Lighthouse Chapel International, Luton. UK
Table of Contents
Foreword
By Rev. Kofi Ayeh
Introduction
Section 1
Sixty Principles of Don’ts
Section 2
Sixty Principles of Do’s
Introduction
Abreakup is a termination of an intimate relationship by any other means apart from death. This has never been an easy process and likely not to be, although it gets better with time. This book might not necessarily apply to people who have divorced, but there are some principles that are valuable for all. This book is mainly for people whose relationship has reached a dead end and are finding it hard to move on. Maybe your ex has moved on but you are holding on to past fantasies or dead, old dreams you once shared. These principles are the principles I’ve personally applied in my life and by the grace of God, it’s worth it.
All these principles might not necessarily be applicable to you, but you need to be honest with yourself to know which stage you are in. If you believe there is still hope of reconciliation for your relationship, then you only need some of these principles; but be careful to make sure your hope is realistic and not imaginary.
The nature of a breakup and circumstances that lead to a breakup differ from individual to individual, so you can’t really compare. Most breakups will leave you without dignity, self-worth, or self-esteem; humiliated, disgraced, having little or no confidence; feeling pain, shame, brokenness; experiencing a loss of friends, an abnormal life routine, low appetite, nightmares, fear, anxiety, insomnia, and so