Taming the Beasts: The Ultimate Guide How To Handle Difficult People
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This book will arm you to the teeth so to speak, on the tools and techniques you would need to confront and handle the difficult people in your life! The proper mindsets, actions, tactics and strategies to keep them all under control and gain their respect! Being with difficult people is like being with strong, stubborn, wild animals. You need to have enough finesse and flexibility, at the same time enough grit and toughness, so you dont get eaten alive!
In this book you will learn:
- How to set boundaries.
- How to enforce boundaries.
- How to deal with conflicts and be comfortable therein.
- How to confront people.
- Understand what Niceguys are and how to stop being one!
- How to be true to yourself, stop being a people pleaser and thus gain others respect.
- Assertiveness training, how to be more assertive etc.
- Learning how to say NO!
And much much more!
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Table Of Contents
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What Are Boundaries?
Ng Boundaries
Importkinds Of Boundaries
Indicators Of Unhealthy Boundaries
All About Self Respect
How To Safeguard Yourself
Settiant Boundary Setting Steps:
Changing Yourself.
Enforcing Boundaries
Confronting People
Do You Feel Guilty About Conflicts?
Being Honest With Yourself
Assertiveness Training
Don T Hesitate To Be More Forceful When The Situation Requires It.
Guidelines For Being Assertive
The Nice Guy
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Taming the Beasts - Michael Widmore
Taming the Beasts
The Ultimate Guide How To Handle Difficult People
By Michael S. Widmore
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What Are Boundaries?
What exactly is a boundary, when it comes to relationships? Basically, a limit is a limit or area in between you and the other individual; a clear place where you start and the other individual ends. Think about it as a fence in your backyard. You are the gate keeper and get to choose who you let in and who have to stay out, who you let into the entire backyard, or who you instantly evict. You may still be keeping them at arms reach; however you are also giving them a chance to show their credibility to you both physically and emotionally. The purpose of setting a healthy boundary is, naturally, to safeguard your interests and well being.
Personal boundaries, is simply like the No Trespassing sign, specify where yours end and others start and are determined by the amount of physical and psychological space you allow in between yourself and others.
Individual boundaries assist you in deciding what kinds of communication, behavior, and interaction are acceptable.
It sends out a clear message that if you violate that boundary, there will be repercussions. This type of boundary is easy to imagine and comprehend since you can see the sign and the territory it safeguards. Self boundaries can sometimes be more difficult