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    How to Know If She Is the One: A Gentleman's Guide
    How to Know If She Is the One: A Gentleman's Guide
    How to Know If She Is the One: A Gentleman's Guide
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    How to Know If She Is the One: A Gentleman's Guide

    By Hugo Harrison

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    The right woman is able to keep your life organized, and allows you to achieve new heights in every aspect of your life. The common cliche is that if she is "the one", you will just know. While this is the case for the lucky few, such simplification is deceiving. In this book, you will find qualities you should look for to affirm whether your woman is the one for you, and methods to confirm it.

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    PublisherHugo Harrison
    Release dateMar 13, 2016
    ISBN9781311705525
    How to Know If She Is the One: A Gentleman's Guide
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    Hugo Harrison

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      How to Know If She Is the One - Hugo Harrison

      How to Know If She Is the One: A Gentleman’s Guide

      By Hugo Harrison

      Copyright 2016 Hugo Harrison

      Smashwords Edition

      Smashwords Edition, License Notes

      This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to your favorite ebook retailer and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

      Table of Content

      Dedication

      Preface

      Introduction: This Is Not a Checklist

      Chapter 1: Trust

      Chapter 2: You Don't Need to Change

      Chapter 3: Attraction

      Chapter 4: The Future

      Chapter 5: Color

      Chapter 6: Support, Mutual Respect and Kindness

      Chapter 7: How You Fight

      Chapter 8: Self-Abundance

      Chapter 9: Appreciation

      Chapter 10: The Support of Loved Ones

      Chapter 11: The Company She Keeps

      Chapter 12: Sexual Compatibility

      Chapter 13: Effort and thoughtfulness

      Chapter 14: What Is Important

      Chapter 15: She Completes You

      Chapter 16: Sacrifices

      Chapter 17: Priorities and Values

      Chapter 18: Connection

      Chapter 19: Better off Together

      Chapter 20: The Way She Makes You Feel

      Final Words from the Author

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      Dedication

      Dedicated to the one that got away.

      Preface

      If you are reading this book, then chances are you are facing one of the most important questions in your life: Is she the one for me? This is one of the most important turning points in your life because history shows that a woman can make or break a man. That is, the right woman will be able to keep a man's life organized, and allows him to achieve new heights in every aspect of his life. On the other hand, the wrong woman may devolve your life into an endless spiral of petty fights or much, much worse.

      Indeed, throughout history, we see women play big roles in the lives of great men. There is Melinda and Bill Gates; Josephine and Napoleon Bonaparte; Jacqueline and John F. Kennedy; Nancy and Ronald Reagan; Hillary and Bill Clinton, to name a few. These are some of the most prominent men in recent history. As the saying goes, behind every great man there is a great woman.

      Before we continue, I want to share with you a couple of my viewpoints on finding out of she is the one. Firstly, I believe that finding the one can amplify your life to new heights. However, that is all you can expect them to do: amplify and multiply. If you are not happy with yourself—if you are in a negative state in your life—having a woman by your side may simply multiply your negativity. If you are unsatisfied with the way your life turns out at the moment, do not make the mistake of thinking that it is only so because you have not discovered the one yet. This is a very dangerous mindset to be in. Why? Because when someone is unhappy by himself, I find that a partner usually won't necessarily make him happy. Even worse, when said partner fail to make him happy (which is his own problem), he will start to think that it is her fault, or that they are incompatible with each other. All thanks to this unreasonable expectation he has on his partner.

      Of course, you can complete each other by being together. In fact, you should be happier and better off with each other. In some cases, you may actually turn from a negative to a positive by being with the woman of your dreams. However, do not expect the one, or a woman, to be the solution to your unhappiness. It is your life, and you should take control of it.

      Secondly, when we talk about the one, what are we referring to? While our sets of values may be very different from one another, I believe that the one can be defined as a person with whom your joint utility functions are maximized when you are together. This means that the both of you are happiest when you are with each other, compared to when either of you are alone, or on a romantic relationship with another. While this all makes perfect sense, it can

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