Discipling: How to Help Others Follow Jesus
By Mark Dever
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Mark Dever
Mark Dever (PhD, Cambridge University) is the senior pastor of Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, DC, and president of 9Marks (9Marks.org). Dever has authored over a dozen books and speaks at conferences nationwide. He lives in Washington, DC, with his wife, Connie, and they have two adult children.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Excellent resource for any pastor, elder, leader, and believer, yes you and i...
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I love books like this. It's full of content without being a doorstop. This book provides excellent instruction for those seeking to live with gospel-centered intentionality under the sovereignty of God. Rather than being passive due to God being in control, we are encouraged here to be active in our pursuit of helping others mature in Christ.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Can you define “Discipleship”? How would you define it for the one who is “being discipled”? What about for the one who is “discipling”?
Mark Dever simplifies what it means to “help others follow Jesus” using the Scriptures as the basis for why discipling is what Christians do (not just what “mature” Christians do). Along the way, there are plenty of helpful examples and illustrations.
Whether on your own or with others, anyone who wants to be encouraged and challenged to “help others follow Jesus” should read this brief book.1 person found this helpful
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If you want to move to another level in your spiritual life and leadership, take the time to read this book. It is not just biblical, but practical and readable. The emphasis on the local church and its role in discipling others sets it apart from other books. Read it and share it with others.
Ronnie Floyd, President and CEO, Executive Committee, Southern Baptist Convention; Pastor Emeritus, Cross Church, Springdale, Arkansas
Mark Dever is known for being a faithful, exegetical preacher of God’s Word. But what you may not know is that Mark is an intentional disciple-maker. Whether he’s meeting on Saturday with lay leaders over lunch to discuss his application grid for Sunday’s message or discussing church polity in his study with a group of young interns, Mark emulates what he expects from others. I believe his legacy will not be just on the pages of the books he has penned, but on the hearts of the men he’s invested in personally. Don’t just read this book. Implement the biblical principles found within.
Robby Gallaty, Senior Pastor, Long Hollow Baptist Church, Hendersonville, Tennessee
I love reading books written by authors who are zealous about the subjects they write about. I often feel like emulating their example even before I get to the last page of the book. If you know Mark Dever, then you know he is a committed discipler. Discipleship oozes out of him. What drives him and how he disciples others and gets his church members to do the same is what these pages are all about. Prepare yourself for a life-changing experience as you read this book!
Conrad Mwebe, Pastor, Kabwata Baptist Church, Lusaka, Zambia
This book convicts, exhorts, and instructs followers of Christ concerning the call to a life of discipling others. It also offers warm-hearted glimpses of this call being answered in the life of a pastor and his congregation. Mark Dever takes us to the Scriptures and roots us in the church, with particular focus on church leaders and careful attention to all. This makes much sense, but we need to be reminded that the process of discipling others is every believer’s clear and joyful calling.
Kathleen B. Nielson, Former Director of Women’s Initiatives, The Gospel Coalition
With simple yet profound insights, Mark Dever takes Jesus’s final command to make disciples and teaches us what that means for us and for our churches. By answering our questions—the why, the what, the where, and the how of discipling—Pastor Mark coaches us in how to follow Christ by helping others to follow him, to know the truth, and to live it well. Every follower of Christ needs to read this book! It’s the best book I’ve ever read on discipling.
Jani Ortlund, Executive Vice President, Renewal Ministries; author, Fearlessly Feminine and His Loving Law, Our Lasting Legacy
Here is a church-strengthening book full of down-to-earth advice about the nuts and bolts of discipling. Dever’s love for Jesus and his people shines throughout, and his firm placement of discipleship within the context and bounds of the local church is vintage Dever ecclesiology. He has a keen eye for pastors, addressing them about their role with warmth and clarity. I was personally challenged by Dever, who himself has a track record of prioritizing discipleship in the midst of all his other responsibilities. If Mark does it, I can do it!
Grant J. Retief, Senior Pastor, Christ Church, Umhlanga, Durban, South Africa
Dever reminds readers that discipling is a biblical mandate, motivated by obedience to Christ’s commandment and love for others, and it is not an effort reserved for a select few. It does not reduce person to projects, but rather it seeks to intentionally develop a relationship with them. It requires time invested in the lives of people who are interested and motivated to follow Jesus. Finally, only truly humble teachers should disciple Jesus’s sheep, because ‘when a disciple is fully trained, he will be like his teacher.’ These emphases and more are contained within this book. Upon reading it, you will most likely recommend it to others. I know I will.
Miguel Núñez, Senior Pastor, International Baptist Church of Santo Domingo; President, Wisdom and Integrity
9Marks: Building Healthy Churches
Edited by Mark Dever and Jonathan Leeman
Biblical Theology: How the Church Faithfully Teaches the Gospel, Nick Roark and Robert Cline
Church Elders: How to Shepherd God’s People Like Jesus, Jeramie Rinne
Church Discipline: How the Church Protects the Name of Jesus, Jonathan Leeman
Church Membership: How the World Knows Who Represents Jesus, Jonathan Leeman
Conversion: How God Creates a People, Michael Lawrence
Discipling: How to Help Others Follow Jesus, Mark Dever
Evangelism: How the Whole Church Speaks of Jesus, Mack Stiles
Expositional Preaching: How We Speak God’s Word Today, David Helm
The Gospel: How the Church Portrays the Beauty of Christ, Ray Ortlund
Missions: How the Local Church Goes Global, Andy Johnson
Prayer: How Praying Together Shapes the Church, John Onwuchekwa
Sound Doctrine: How a Church Grows in the Love and Holiness of God, Bobby Jamieson
Discipling: How to Help Others Follow Jesus
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CONTENTS
Cover
Newsletter Sign Up
Endorsements
Series List
Title Page
Copyright
Series Preface
Introduction
PART 1: WHAT IS DISCIPLING?
1 The Inevitability of Influence
2 Oriented toward Others
3 The Work of Discipling
4 Objections to Discipling
PART 2: WHERE SHOULD WE DISCIPLE?
5 The Local Church
6 Pastors and Members
PART 3: HOW SHOULD WE DISCIPLE?
7 Choose Someone
8 Have Clear Aims
9 Pay the Cost
10 Raising Up Leaders
Conclusion by Jonathan Leeman
Appendix: Books besides the Bible to Use in Discipling Relationships
Notes
Scripture Index
9 Marks—Building Healthy Churches
Other Books in Series
Back Cover
SERIES PREFACE
The 9Marks series of books is premised on two basic ideas. First, the local church is far more important to the Christian life than many Christians today perhaps realize.
Second, local churches grow in life and vitality as they organize their lives around God’s Word. God speaks. Churches should