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    How to Meet and Marry the Right Person: A Guide
    How to Meet and Marry the Right Person: A Guide
    How to Meet and Marry the Right Person: A Guide
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    How to Meet and Marry the Right Person: A Guide

    By Rolf Nabb

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    You've played the field, you've dated, you've hooked up and you've been there and done that. However, as time passes, you're finding that the single life just isn't what it used to be. You want more out of life and you're beginning to think that it's time to have a serious relationship. One that's for keeps. In other words, you want to start looking for that special someone to settle down with.

    Yes, you're ready to take the plunge. You're ready to find the right person to marry.

    How to Meet and Marry the Right Person: A Guide is going to help you get your mind straight about getting serious about settling down. Maybe you're already dating the right person or maybe you've yet to meet him/her. Regardless, this book will teach you some skills in finding/keeping/choosing the right person and, as a result, avoid some of the pitfalls that can be sometimes be associated with marrying someone who's not right for you.

    If you're ready to get serious about finding someone to marry, How to Meet and Marry the Right Person: A Guide is the book for you.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherNew Tradition Books
    Release dateMay 24, 2016
    ISBN9781932420487
    How to Meet and Marry the Right Person: A Guide

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      How to Meet and Marry the Right Person - Rolf Nabb

      How to Meet and Marry

      the Right Person

      ALSO BY ROLF NABB

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      Help for the Shy: Tips for Overcoming Shyness

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      How to Meet and Marry

      the Right Person

      Rolf Nabb

      Bright Yellow Hat

      How to Meet and Marry the Right Person. Copyright © 2016 by Rolf Nabb.

      All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission. For information contact brightyellowhat@newtraditionbooks.com.

      Published by Bright Yellow Hat.

      eBook ISBN–13:  978-1-932420-48-7

      eBook ISBN–10:  1-932420-48-7

      This work has also been published as Dating Sense: The Practical Way to Meet, Date and Marry the Right Person.

      Disclaimer: This book is not intended to replace medical advice or be a substitute for a psychologist. The author and the publisher expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse affects of this book. Neither author nor publisher is liable for information contained herein.

      For the happy couples to be.

      Contents

      Introduction

      Are You Ready for Marriage?

      The Right Person

      What Kind of Person Are You?

      Setting Your Objectives

      Expectations

      Important Traits to Look for in a Spouse

      The Right Person Is Not a Fixer Upper

      Settling?

      Getting Back out There

      Marriage—the Stuff You Don’t See

      Where to Look?

      Online Romance?

      What About a Prenuptial Agreement?

      How Will I Know If a Person Is the Right One?

      Will I Have to Do Anything to Be More Compatible?

      Will Marriage Disrupt My Life?

      Backgrounds? Do Opposites Attract?

      Children?

      But What If He/She Already Has Kids?

      Pitfalls to Avoid When Choosing the Right Person

      The Past

      Potential In-Laws?

      Gentlemen, a Few Facts About Your Friends

      Ladies, About Your Friends…

      Are My Party Days Over?

      Marrying for Money?

      Desperation and Poor Decisions

      Debt

      Living Together?

      But What If We Argue?

      What If the Right Person's Significantly Younger/Older Than Me?

      When to Pop the Question?

      Don’t Doubt Yourself

      Divorce

      In Conclusion

      Introduction

      You’ve played the field, you’ve dated, you’ve hooked up and you’ve been there and done that. However, as time passes, you’re finding that the single life just isn’t what it used to be. You want more out of life. You think that it’s time for you to have a serious relationship. One that’s for keeps. That’s right. You’ve figured out now is the time to start looking for that special someone to settle down with.

      Yes, you’re ready to take the plunge. You’re ready to find the right person to marry.

      Well, it sounds tough, but that’s exactly what I’m going to help you do and I’m going to avoid all the mind games and self-defeating mumbo-jumbo that other books regarding this subject give you. I’m not going to give you six keys of compatibility or a quiz that only tells you what you already know or don’t want to believe. I’m also not going to give you a list of questions to ask your prospective spouse to determine how committed they are to the relationship. Other people have done this to death and I don’t want to duplicate what you’ve probably already read somewhere else. This book is not about gimmicks. It is a simple guide with simple advice to help you meet and marry the right person. It’s geared for both men and women who are searching for a person with whom to spend their life. It’s about compatibility and the things you should be thinking about when you’re starting to get serious about someone or are wanting to find someone with whom to get serious.

      I’ve written this book from the standpoint that you are already serious about finding someone special. I’m not trying to convince you of the joys of marriage or the sorrows of being alone. I just want to teach you some skills in finding/keeping/choosing the right person and also how to avoid some of the pitfalls associated with marriage. Whether or not you’re actually in a relationship is irrelevant for the purpose of this book. What I’m trying to help you do is to get your mind straight about getting serious and to find the right person to be with. Maybe you’re already dating the right person or maybe you’ve yet to meet him/her. Regardless, I want to help you know whether or not you’re with the right one.

      Before we go any further, let me also state that I’m assuming that you know how to talk to people and ask them on dates. This book is not about this subject. It is about finding and choosing a wife or a husband. If you’re looking for tips on how to talk to and pick up women or what constitutes a good date, this is the wrong book for you. However, if you’re looking to settle down with the right person, keep reading.

      Now, let’s get started.

      Are You Ready for Marriage?

      While marriage is a wonderful thing, it is not always the stuff dreams are made of. In fact, it can be quite hard at times and make even the strongest of men cry. It can also make even the happiest of women into bitter old crones.

      Wow, this does paint a rather harsh picture! But relax, I’m just being facetious. Regardless, there is an element of truth there. Marriage is not always fun and games. The thing to realize is that marriage is a lot of work and, before you start on this journey, you need to look inside yourself and make sure that you’re ready for it.

      Marriage can be a lot of fun if you choose the right person. It can provide you with a lifetime of great memories and great experiences. It can make you into a better person. If you make a wise decision regarding your spouse, you will have someone with whom to share your life; a friend who will accompany you on life’s adventure. This is what marriage is about—living your life with your best friend in a great and loving relationship. On the other hand, this great relationship doesn’t happen by itself. You will have to work to maintain it. You will have to think about someone other than yourself. You will have to consider your spouse in your decisions. You will have to remember birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions. You will have to de-emphasize your time with the guys. You will have to give less thought to your girls’ night outs. You will have to spend less time with your parents. In other words, you will have to reprioritize. Your prolonged adolescence and celebration of the self will end and, if you’re honest with yourself, you will be glad it did.

      If you’re ready for marriage, you will understand these things. You will know that while your

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