Journey to Finding You
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The Journey to Finding You is about redefining your place in life. This book will take you on a journey as you encounter life challenges, situations, and beliefs in order to discover your true self. As you travel from place-to-place, you will embody the essence of who you are and what you are been created to do.
“By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established.” (Proverbs 24:3)
“Life is about embracing the true essence of who you are and what you were created to do.” ~Patrice Simmons
Patrice Simmons is an author, writer, and motivational speaker. She is known for her weekly inspirational video series, “Wednesday Wake Up.” Her mission is to build the kingdom of God through living a life of purpose with integrity and love. She strives to help others to become more self-aware, to ignite their beliefs, and understand the true meaning of their purpose.
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Journey to Finding You - Patrice Simmons
PART I:
WHO ARE YOU?
Chapter 1
How the Mind Works
We can take charge of our lives by taking charge of our minds.
Our mind is the capillary to the brain, which signals to us as we encounter different circumstances on a daily basis. Growing up, I enjoyed watching scary movies such as Nightmare on Elm Street, Friday the 13th, Halloween, and Child’s Play. If you are a scary movie lover, like me, you understand the excitement I felt from watching, though some people think watching this type of movie is crazy. My mom did not understand why I liked movies that involved insane characters who killed people. Now let me make this very clear: I’m not crazy, nor do I enjoy watching people get hurt. Truthfully, I’m not sure why I like scary movies; it might be the thrill and the excitement that comes when watching the unexpected. But back to how the mind works. The mind works in three tiers: conscious, subconscious, and unconscious. They work together to create the reality in your life. And they can shape you into a happier, more peaceful, and confident person. This is the breakdown of all three parts of the mind.
Conscious mind: This level includes the feeling you get that something is not right about a person, place, and situation. The conscious mind can also be defined as intuition. Your conscious mind represents ten percent of your brain’s capacity.
Subconscious: This level keeps track of your recent memories and is in continuous contact with the resources of your unconscious mind. For example, if you experienced a breakup or celebrated something important to you, your subconscious mind would keep track of it.
Unconscious: The unconscious mind consistently communicates with the other parts of the mind and provides us with the meaning to all our interactions with the world. The conscious mind acts as a filter that communicates to the outside world and the inner self through speech, pictures, writing, movement, thoughts, feelings, emotions, imagination, sensations, dreams, beliefs, and habits.
If you ever have strange or disturbing dreams, blame it on your unconscious mind. Watch your emotions and feelings, as they have a way of getting you in trouble at times. Choose to communicate wisely and make healthier decisions, so that your unconscious mind can play back positive thoughts, thus inspiring you to dream and enjoy your life.
Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, believed that people could be cured by making conscious their unconscious thoughts and motivations; his ideas provided a useful model for understanding the mind and how it works. A good analogy for describing how your conscious mind works is the keyboard and monitor. Data is input through the keyboard, and the results appear on the monitor screen. The subconscious mind is similar to the RAM in your computer. RAM, an acronym for random access memory, is a type of computer memory that is accessed randomly. RAM is used by the central processing unit (CPU) when a computer is running to store information that needs to be used very quickly, but it does not store any information permanently.
Your unconscious mind and subconscious mind act in a similar way, as you make sense of all the data you receive from the world to keep you safe and ensure your survival.
The way we structure our thoughts is how we view ourselves in the current state of the situation. A bad relationship, rocky marriage, loss of a job. They all contribute to how we view circumstances as well as the outcome of those circumstances. The goal is to focus the mind on only the positive, even if it seems difficult. Train your mind to believe and see the greater good. Trust the process that God is allowing you to go through.
Joyce Meyers puts it this way in her book, The Mind Connection: How the Thoughts You Choose Affect Your Mood, Behavior, and Decisions: thoughts can seem random and meaningless are actually connected to your well-being and impact your life every day. What you think affects your words, attitudes, decisions, and emotions. Your thoughts influence how you relate to yourself, to other people, and to God. The good news is that God has equipped you to take control of your thinking and increase your happiness.
Our thoughts control our actions and behavior.
It is important for you to make the right decisions when you are faced with challenging situations. And if you miss the mark, forgive yourself and start a new day. Do not allow outside forces to control you any longer. With God’s help you can begin thinking positively, which will cause you to change the direction of your life.
Bible verses to inspire you:
A right mind (Mark 5:15)
A humble mind (Philippians2:3)
A transformed mind (Romans 12:2)
A spiritual mind (2 Corinthians 7:7)
A ready mind (2 Corinthians 8:19)
A renewed mind (Ephesians 4:23)
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is good and acceptable and perfect will of god. (Romans12:2)
I can safely say that if you need a change in any area of your life, it will start with changing your mindset.
Change your world through positive thinking and living.
Five tips for maintaining a positive mind:
Seek wisdom from God daily.
Believe in yourself to change the thought pattern in your life.
Meditate on the word of God daily.
When a negative thought starts to sink in, remind yourself why a positive one has to stay.
Be determined to control your mind.
As soon as I started to control my thoughts and focus on positive ones, I began to believe in the greater good of my situation, even when it seemed as though I had no way out. My world changed for the better.
I believe in you. Changing your thoughts will change your life.
Chapter 2
Environment
The surroundings or conditions in which a person, animal, or plant lives or operates.
When you think about environment, what comes to mind? Spaces, community, earth, health, and how things work? Well, our environment has everything to do with the outcome of our relationships. Let me