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    Objectify Me... Please!
    Objectify Me... Please!
    Objectify Me... Please!
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    Objectify Me... Please!

    By Sam Aalders

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    The Ultimate Solution to Relationship Confusion!

    Did you ever wonder what went wrong with modern relationships? Looking to rekindle your icy marriage or build a foundation for the future of your relationship? Did you feel there was always supposed to be more to marriage and sex than what you got? Then do as our ancestors did, because it works!

    "Objectify Me... Please!" breaks new ground in a daring and comfortable, yet honest examination of gender relations. Packed with plenty of advice, tips, evidence and ideas, "Objectify Me... Please!" is a smart read for anyone serious about their relationship and sex life.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherXinXii
    Release dateMay 30, 2016
    ISBN9783959265409
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      Objectify Me... Please! - Sam Aalders

      Objectify Me… Please!

      Or, Saving Relationships with Paleo Sex

      By Sam Aalders

      © 2016 by Sam Aalders

      All Rights Reserved

      Contact: aalderssam@gmail.com

      ISBN: 978-3-95926-540-9

      Verlag GD Publishing Ltd. & Co KG, Berlin

      E-Book Distribution: XinXii

      www.xinxii.com

      Inhalt

      Introduction

      Fantasies

      What Women Want

      Objectify Me… Please!

      Provision

      Submit!

      Be Honest

      What Men Want

      Paleo Relationships: How-To

      The Power Transference Ritual

      Role-Playing

      Domestic Discipline

      Fetishes/Fantasies

      How to Handle Finances

      So, What Happened?

      Humility

      Men and Women Each Think That the Other Thinks the Same Way

      Hormones and Behavior

      Femininity as Weakness

      Masculinity as Evil

      What Do Women Need to Change?

      Princess Syndrome

      What Do Men Need to Change?

      Treasuring Your Female

      White-Knight Syndrome

      Religion and Science

      The Impact on Society

      When a Paleo Relationship Encounters Conflict

      Marriage Contracts

      Dominance and Submission in Families

      Conclusion

      Notes

      Introduction

      There can perhaps be no more rewarding a sexual interaction or romantic connection between a man and woman than that of dominance and submission, yet many people never come close to experiencing it. It’s very sad. As a society, people play with the idea of real romantic fulfillment all their lives, but things don’t always turn out as envisioned, and they have no idea why. Their ideals about love and marriage are written off as a bitter lie and, though they may continue to strive for the relationship they want, many of them never find it. The secret reason (with all of its complexities) is never taught or openly explained, yet like many of the best-kept secrets, it’s also hiding in plain sight!

      Turns out tradition has something to say about real sex and marriage. It doesn’t have all of the answers, mind you, but it’s a good place to start. Who am I or anyone else to question it if it works?

      What do Fifty Shades of Grey, Twilight, Outlander, and hordes of other romance properties all have in common? A strong, dominant male—protective, yes, but also sexually aggressive and commanding (Twilight was the teen-safe version). The Outlander series has been selling well since the 80’s, no less. Obviously, these universal romance themes have existed for much, much longer than that.

      In fact, if you look closely, these themes are lurking everywhere. This is the Biblically derived, mass-media-derived, paleo-derived truth, and it is miraculously effective.

      For the man to experience possessing a woman to this degree, the woman he really wants, and being able to show his love for her by his dominance of her… and for her to finally receive dominance and feel utterly treasured and possessed, as so many women want desperately to feel… truly, it is a unique and important way to be close and loving.

      Dominance is the natural way for a man to show love and caring towards his wife, and submission is the natural way for a woman to reciprocate. In fact, they’re the only way, really. It’s also the only way for sex to work! This dynamic has the power to completely reshape and remake failing relationships and to create a deep, strong foundation for a relationship’s future. It gets people what they truly need out of sex and marriage. It’s the way things are meant to be. Without it, sex is boring or (even worse) unpleasant.

      What about gender equality, you ask? Are true gender roles against equality?

      Well, I don’t see a lack of gender equality here. Everyone is a human, right? All humans are equal in human worth. Surprise! Your worth isn’t tied to your role, your gender or your instinctive desires. Males being dominant and women being submissive changes nothing about their equal worth as human beings… but they do function quite differently, and I, for one, really enjoy women as women!

      Confused? Don’t worry, that’s exactly what I’m here to address. Take the point I just made about equal human worth among different people to heart, because it’s key to understanding.

      I want to make people’s relationships as good as they can be. The sex, the emotional connection, the experience, the warmth, the security… everything. To save and rebuild marriages, no matter who is involved or how bad it looks on the surface; to teach everyone to truly understand and enjoy this deepest and most rewarding intimacy, and to help everyone bring their dreams of sexual and emotional fulfillment into reality.

      Nothing is too basic to reexamine if we find that it’s not serving us as it should. Actually, the basics are usually the real point of improvement and application. Consider this a massive cultural correction! If gender differences are of a greater degree and even of a different nature than many people assumed, then modern marriages aren’t just causing more problems needlessly—they’re missing the very things that were meant to be rewarding about them.

      As for non-hetero couples, all I can say is that you’ll have to apply the ideas in this book to your own situation and decide how they fit you. I’m not attempting to leave you out, but I can’t counsel you much better than that without some kind of personalized assessment. It is best to treat everyone with respect, but part of

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